Unless Stephen with the facts of life.

Dec 11, 2016 8:33 AM

Always upvote Smart British Guy

9 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 6

It is possible to be both offended and have a good reason for it. Some seem to believe that taking offense invalidates those reasons.

9 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 2

Did he say this or did someone type words on top of a picture of him

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I don't think he means what people will make of it around the web.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Fry is going to be the first public figure whose death I will actually mourn. I really worry about the day we may lose him.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Stephen Fry is one of my all time favorite people. Always upvote the Fry.

9 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 4

And every manbaby on the internet uses this as an excuse to spread racism and sexism.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I'm rather offended by this

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9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 3

You should remember that this man is also one of the most cultured and polite discussants in world. Even when arguing church is evil.

9 years ago | Likes 24 Dislikes 4

The church can definitely be evil.

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Stephen Fry: I'm pretty sure what he's saying is insightful, but he's really quite basic.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Well, it's all how you use it in context. If you're holding a shotgun it might have a different weight to it.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

See though, he's not saying no one should ever say they are offended. This was posted out of a sense of offense that people get offended.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

He's saying that being offended doesn't give you additional rights. Specifically, he's saying that when religious people are offended, it

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

doesn't give them the right so take away someone else's freedom of speech.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

This is offensive! I still have not figured how, but it must be!

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 6

I feel like this is what moral relativism leads to. Without a concrete rule for what is wrong, we are left with what bothers us. That's all.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I never hear people say "I'm offended" I just hear people saying that people say it.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

The discourse has moved on. Now it's racist, disrespectful, hate speech, marginalising, x-phobic, and so on.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Indeed, it's labels based on specific criteria, not on emotion.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Occam's razor, people. If everyone offended by things you say, it's likely you that's the problem, not them. Conversely, if you are (1)

9 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 6

offended by everything you hear, it's likely you that's the problem.

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 4

Or you're in the wrong part of a very, very big internet.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

For a very intelligent and well spoken man, this quote seems rather childish. "You're offended? So fucking what?" That's it?

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 7

No it doesn't. There are people who would like to censor you for exercising free expression. You should be able to understand this.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

I understand it, and I have no problem with the concept. I just expected better from Stephen Fry than a 15 year old's "So fucking what?"

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Title is meant to be Uncle* ... what a special i am sorry.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 9

I love how out of context this is always taken.

9 years ago | Likes 96 Dislikes 14

To be fair he quit twitter after criticism he got for calling someone at the BAFTA awards a 'bag lady.' Take it as you will.

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

That being said I think he's back on now? He's lovely and I like him but he's also a bit of a funny arsehole.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

What's the context?

9 years ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 0

It was him disagreeing with The Incitement to Religious Hatred Bill which intended to make behavior that incited religious hatred illegal.

9 years ago | Likes 34 Dislikes 5

...I don't see how people are "taking this out of context". It's not like it only applies to this very specific situation.

9 years ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 1

Religious people being offended by gay people existing.

9 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 6

Oh damn. That's a little intense. I think if anything that makes me agree with the quote more

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

In context it makes sense, but if people are using it to say, "I won't stop calling you a faggot." then they're fucked up.

9 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 2

That's true. I agree

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Source?

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 2

Looking for the debate at the end of this article https://www.theguardian.com/uk/2005/jun/05/religion.hayfestival2005

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

I'm sorry, but what does that have to do with gay people?

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

Incitement to Religious Hatred is https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Racial_and_Religious_Hatred_Act_2006

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

it gives information that the speaker is hurt. we evolved as a social species to avoid hurting each other. what's unclear?

9 years ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 23

I actually agree with you, this is one of the way how a society of idiotic individuals holds together. It's more stupid to ignore that.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 2

Offending peeps is overrated. Grow some skin and be aware that other peeps have dofferent views. `im offended` = soft cock.

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 9

"Grow some skin and be aware that other peeps have different views." Do you see how that's hypocritical? Asking for a friend.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 5

are you hurt by my comment in some way? i'm trying to engage with the question respectfully.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

no, he's just way too edgy for you to handle.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Nothing's unclear people are just tried of having to censor their thoughts and ideas because someonce got offended. You can't even voice 1/

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 3

An opinion anymore without someone getting upset and claiming to be offended. 2:2

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 3

so they want to talk but don't want to hear feedback about how their words affect the people around them

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 5

Personally i don't think he's saying he doesn't want to hear it, merely that it changes nothing... You're offended? Ok cool. Good for you.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 3

No people want intelligent discussion. Don't just say your offended, explain why, explain your views, have an actually talk.

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 2

then the objection isn't to calling out assholes saying asshole things, it's to using blame to shut down dialogue

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 2

are people downvoting because they disagree that that's what the words mean or because they think hurting feelings aren't their problem?

9 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 4

OP: "Be offensive! It's fun! Fuck the cunts!" You: "Please don't be that way." Imgur: "Fuck the cunt! Fuck the cunt! Fuck the cunt!"

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

i'm just trying to answer the question "so fucking what" as if it were a genuine attempt to engage people in dialogue

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 3

But the answer to your answer is ''So fucking what?''

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

The latter. You've touched a nerve: people don't like being reminded that there are real people behind the usernames; that being a jerk 1/

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 2

on the Internet is real and has real world consequences. 2/2

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 2

Maybe a bit of both. We didn't evolve to avoid hurting each others feelings. Plenty of people don't care if your feelings are hurt.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

please don't treat the tails of the curve as the representation.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I was thinking of the way many kids use to be raised. You fall down and get a boo-boo, spit on it and move on.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It's important to keep in mind that current generations learned their values from previous ones. There is no vacuum.

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It depends on the connection between the people. I would say most of us do care if we hurt the feelings of most people, at least if we do 1/

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 3

it in person. On the Internet where we are all faceless and nameless there is a lot less empathy. As a result, trolls, online lynch mobs, 2/

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 3

assholes doxing people, etc. Even right here on the supposedly friendly Imgur. 3/3

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 3

Yes, but we've gotten to the point where you literally can't say anything without someone being offended - it's pointless and impossible to

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

avoid hurting anyones feelings and that shouldn't come in the way of us saying what we want to say, and that doesnt have to be ill intended

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

That literally isn't literally true at literally all.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Yes it is. Try posting something in here, there will always be an idiot who will be offended, no matter what you say.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Have you tried being less offensive? Looked through your shit, you talk out your ass and down to people a lot. So, it's more to do with you.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

You seem pretty offended. Point and case.

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