I would be fine with this — if there was a reverse-chivalry day with the exact same requirements, followed by day of insights & reflection.

Mar 5, 2021 12:05 AM

Source: https://www.cbsnews.com/news/texas-schools-chivalry-assignment-told-girls-to-dress-to-please-men/

All of them should strike that day.

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They want high school girls to dress to please men, not boys, but grown ass adult men who sign off on this. What the fuck, Texas?

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Sure sounds like ISIS

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Where's the part where they have to married to foreign prince to strengthen the alliance with France?

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Hey look, another validation toward my decision to not procreate within the dystopia that is the United States.

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What season of The Handmaids Tale is this? :|

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I’d just turn it in early with red marker writing saying “I’ll take an F”.

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I'd say no way should anyone participate in this out loud. (And as a dude. Just utter BS.)

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This is just getting them used to the handmaids tale world slowly, that’s obviously the world they want.

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Perfect use of this.

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The immediate viseral response is to kick the shit out of all of those that think this is ok

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Hold up, this is current?! I thought it was from the 50's or something. Man, Texas must be a backwards ass place.

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FFS, not only is this all kinds of horrible, it's not even accurate. Chivalry was a combat code for knights. Almost no women even qualified.

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People get chivalry mixed up with courtly love. Besides which, this isn't about either of those things, its just outdated rules for modesty.

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If they really want to practice chivalry they should challenge eachother to armed duels

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Well it's a school so...

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Who the fuck thought this was okay to do, at high school no less?

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I have a feeling that form wasn't from the 1950's.

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Around Mar 3 2021, according to the linked news article.

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This is what conservatives are fighting for, from Afghanistan to Iowa. There is always someone more conservative and this is where they lead

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They really aren't.

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This pisses me off so much.

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How the actual fuck is this shit flying? As a daughter's father, I'm willing to go to jail for striking anyone that pushed this shit on her.

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Given this is Texas, I'd imagine the cuntwaffle responsible for this was at risk of just a little worse than being punched...

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yeah you're not the only one apparently there was quite the backlash and this was stopped immediately one idiot was responsible for this.

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...as a male kid or parent, I wouldn't stop until the entire male admin/teaching staff agreed to perform the assignment reversed.

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We keep coming closer and closer to the reality of the Handmaid's tale

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I watched one or two episodes of that before i just couldn't, it was too real how that could happen someday, creeped me out.

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What is the context? This could be an insightful exercise in empowering feminism for both the participating males and females.

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One can imagine a situation in which that is the intent... but this is from Texas, plus, post title implies no time for reflection etc.

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The way this is written...it does not feel like this. And as a male, if this happened as a kid, I'd be helping the revolt/boycott/etc...

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Not to mention the sad high percentage of young women who've already trauma at the hands of men then being forced to participate in this.

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I see that i put my dick in a hornets nest. I have been taken to the learning hall

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this is more like fartinism

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If that's the case it's horribly set up and not explained well. You also don't need to have the kids actually act it out, that is asking...

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...for trouble.

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And the girls get raped & Texans will say she was asking for by the way she was dressed.

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The Texas Parade of Virgins was cancelled, one of the ten year old's was sick and the other one didn't want to march alone...

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"it's chivalry day, they're supposed to please men"

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Best defense ever. Given by the literal state.

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Wait, what? How would the state make that argument? Was the prosecutor arguing against the victim somehow?

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And what rules do the men have to follow?

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...male students were given a similarly-themed assignment in which they were to ..

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"have manners toward the ladies and treat them politely in some situations"

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Got any images to show?

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No, that was from a news report and from the way they worded it, I suspect they had an agenda to emphasize how it was unfair to the girls.

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Nope. No one should have to subjugate themselves like this unwillingly. Especially w how many young women have already had trauma by men.

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As if her feet are bound...? Tf?

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And people think the Taliban only exist in the Middle East.

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That one seemed especially stupid. None of these are chivalry, but that one wasn't even a European idea. Foot-binding is Chinese.

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I think they meant like tied together at the ankles

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I could be wrong (I'm aware foot binding exists) but I read it as taking small steps which is a common "behavior" encouraged for women >>

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in western societies that enforced these types of policies, IIRC.

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Please secede already

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Dude, they have NASA. We can't let them have that without adult supervision.

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Can’t we evict?

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I wouldn't even fight it. They can have Oklahoma too, and we'll swap in Puerto Rico and D.C.

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I dont want DC. Down for getting rid of texas but lets also add california, alabama, and arkansas

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If California and Texas leave, everything west of the Mississippi is going with them

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California has zero interest in the flyover states to the east.

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As a history teacher, there are far, far fucking better ways to teach about the medieval period. What fucking Standard of Learning would

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this even fit under. It can't. I mean I'm in Virginia but for fucks sake this kind of shit never comes up when discussing Medieval Europe

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nor should it, much less in an okay enough way for a teacher to basically say. "Ladies will be obedient servants for a day." Fucking hell

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What year is it?

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Well it ain't 1965. Apparently this story broke yesterday.

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I was told to hold back when I might outshine boys at my high school. Early 2000s.

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Did you do it?

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Absolutely not. It only made me work harder to proudly outshine them.

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Good! People are just gonna have to...

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My wife outshines me by a lot. PhD in physics. I'm a proud husband!

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Outshining and being awesome in one’s own field is pretty neato. Had a few disgruntled comments in my day, when we presented our designs at-

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Design school. Was hella cool to show my abilities and live up to my full potential. It has carried me through life pretty nicely.

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Love the Golden Globes 'Lifetime Achievement' George Clooney intro Poehler/Fey did..... listing all Amal Clooney's achievements.

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I enjoyed that too.

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None of those rules have anything to do with chivalry.

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If you haven't read Don quijote you don't know what chivalry represents.

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Shouldn't have been a bunch of rules for the guys mostly?

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Correct. The people who made this assignment totally missed the mark. They had some Hollywood/bodice-ripper fantasy of “Proper Behavior.”

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Wasn't chivalry like a combat thing.

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I think they were French rules for mounted horsemen. Which makes sense considering the French for 'Horse' is 'cheval'

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Knightly virtues coming from the early french chevalier, or horseman. Lots of, how you maintain your gear, be polite dont start fights

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It was essentially battle etiquette for nobles.

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1. Yup. Most European countries had their own version. Most didn't include any rules about how to treat women.

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If I recall, it was created by an Arabian as well, which kinda knocks out the whole "European Chivalry Pride" bullshit whiteys love so much.

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2. The few that did, it was usually one vague rule (out of ~10) about civility and courteousness. It didn't apply to non-knights.

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3. A common woman was not expected to be chivalrous. A common man wasn't expected to be chivalrous.

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4. This is like teaching young girls to follow bushido. It's just dumb. /end

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I don't know, as a philosophy, I feel like bushido has a lot of good points when it comes to honor, loyalty, and self-respect

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Yes, as there are aspects of chivalry that make good points. But a lot of it isn’t applicable to people who aren’t literal warriors.

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I wanna say this is an exercise in showing how ridiculous expectations of women used to be... but it's Texas, so

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There's no context in this only what the assignment is. This could be a opt in approach to a history class for all we know.

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If that were the case I think it’s maybe something everyone could grasp in theory rather than in practice.

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I was hoping that too, but the fact that it suggests extending it outside school hours and some of those rules need an adult man's signature

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a little bit of research shows the teacher was a woman, the assignment was optional and there was a similarly stupid assignment for boys. /1

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this is a dumb assignment but this is written to inspire outrage and generate clicks and as of now, 945 of you gullible sheep fell for it

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I'd agree except for the "carries over into modern day" bit. That... yeah, I suspect this wasn't about those concepts being ridiculous.

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Its meant to demonstrate how those things carry over to the modern day, it does not say it carries over well. Dumb assignment anyway.

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If the teacher is under 50 years old it's probably social critique rather than sincere

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But...it's Texas.

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It's possible, although unlikely. There are blue places in Texas - all the large cities, for example. They're not *all* redneck cowboys.

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One runs dangerously close to mimicking Trump if one were to say "I'm sure some [Texans] are good people."

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apparently this was some beef-brained assignment meant to help students understand life in the middle ages and the concept of "courtly love"

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but oh my gosh. Anyway they yanked the assignment ASAP so idk maybe it's just one person acting ... uh ... unwisely.

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If they really want to illustrate onerous obligations in the Middle Ages, have the males go perish in some pointless battle for their Lord.

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While the ladies get married off to some old codger to consolidate power.

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hahahaha

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Ok, do it for a class period then. Have people volunteer to act it out. Don’t force it on the whole class for a grade, even at home.

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sure, like i said, totally beef-brained. But the motivation wasn't necessarily evil.

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No shit - in Jr High, we had Anne Frank day, where the 9th graders were either Nazis or Jews (w/paper identifiers) & played hide & seek.

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I was in the 7th or 8th grade when we did that.

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We did something similar but it lasted a week and all had jobs and papers. Ended with us escaping in the dark on a boat.

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Don't hide in the attic. First place they look.

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Also because eagles look where eagles would hide!

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Texas. Apparently, more than one school did it, too.

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Looking back, it was an abhorrent activity, that trivialized the whole thing.

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That's hugely messed up. I wonder if anyone thought to tell the teacher leading that activity to sit down and think about it a little first.

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I mean, clearly not, if it was part of the lesson plan at more than one school.

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I'm also curious what the male students equivalent was. .... surely they had a set of rules, too? Right?

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The way I read it, it's the *adult* males rating them. The teachers, their fathers, classmates fathers, etc.

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I would have torn this up if my daughter brought this bullshit home

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Well anyone higher status they you, you defeat in battle you can ransom. If you’re a serf you’re kinda tied to the land.

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The fedora dudes . My time has finally come !

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"All female employees must pose nude if requested. It's in all of our contracts."

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Sick reference bro...

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I'm assuming something about not striking the women with a switch larger than their thumb, maybe dueling people to the death over insults

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Get rid of the thumb thing but keep the duels and we’re all set. MY DOG IS THE CUTEST AND ILL FUCKING KILL YOU TO PROVE IT!!!1!

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Well a stick the size of a thumb wouldn’t do much damage, perhaps it should have been the rule of wrist.

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Width of the thumb. Length of the stick is not specified. Since that's basically the ideal size of stick to beat an unarmored person with...

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If it’s green wood, it flexes more like a stiff whip and can do some real, potentially permanent, damage.

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I live in TX, probably not. We have spme fucking backwater shit here, even in the major cities

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Did you mean *blackwater like as in gray water, but worse? Jk, just trying to make a joke, I'll see myself out the watering hole, I'm drunk

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ahahaha carry on my friend

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Yeah like you’re electrical system

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I mean, I'm in Alabama. I understand 100%.

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How's your sister?

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I've always been creeped out by debutante balls.

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"must not initiate conversation, must not show intellectual superiority", what year is it? is it 1821 already?

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You realize the idea of the assignment was to emulate how the past was and not current expectations, yeah?

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if they were being very keen on emulating history, they should have known that "chivalry" had nothing to do with courtship.

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Feminism was already taking root in 1821. This is closed to 821.

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i mean it says "in the medieval concept" on the paper so...

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Fu**ing ISIS mullah stuff

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More like 821.

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... I mean it's an assignment to show "medieval concept" of it, so... probably around 1421.

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I think you mean 1281.

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I went to religious school, we had a few "modesty drills" like this, got points once a month of you filled the form, got out of hand often.

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I think that was the point of the assignment? To show what a 'chivalrous' woman was supposed to act like in 1821 or w/e.

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and the point of such assignment is...? they can very well easily read about this. i see no merit in actually emulating this.

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Yep, and then it’ll be 1921, when the Tulsa massacre happens. It’s what they want.

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This is far more current. Easily into the 60s, and in some places to this day.

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Hush man! The women are are talking.

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Are are they, now?

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Don't make fun of his stutter

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They're still mad at AOC for breaking those rules.

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The angry-horny for AOC is terrifying at this point honestly.

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They always will be.

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GOOD.

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We've come so far from then, though. We no longer burn women at the stake for being intelligent. /S

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The stake may have become metaphorical, but it's still there

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Like that "Doctor" Jill Biden? Who does she think she is using "Dr." just because she's earned it? /S

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I was told to not “outshine” my mail peers by staff at the school I went to. This was early 2000s...

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I got told by a math teacher girls were just naturally worse than boys at math. I generally suck at math but spite made me great that day.

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Spite drove me to excellence in a lot of areas in high school. Looking back it’s so sad that I spent all my growing up years trying to prove

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that I was as good as any man. Even leaked into my college days.

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