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Mar 24, 2018 1:17 AM
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HenryNJessicaPate
Her: This man raped the shit outta me. Him: Oh boy did I ever folks! Phew! *nervous glance stage-left*
tonybrio3000
Dayman aAAaaahh
SpecialOedipus
Was it real life or just a fantasy?
Bullebob
Or a cod in a landslide?
skinny87
White people? To me it looks like american shenanigans.....
CheeseBelongsInTheKitten
Watched her on QnA, even as she explained it, it was the just the most bullshit stuff I've ever heard.
JumpingBalogna
RaeNorri
TheHawkRules
Tassyr
Have you claimed this meme for the omnissiah?
daniic233
OlanDyurai
"He raped me with his eyes on a date." she said. "She never stopped talking about herself, I had to keep looking while she spoke!" he said.
CalifornianEskimo
Sauce https://www.ted.com/talks/thordis_elva_tom_stranger_our_story_of_rape_and_reconciliation/up-next
JimmyWalkerTexasRanger
That fucking title has me weak.
mAsSfReNzY
hehe.... "white people"... Who comes up with this stuff? i love it.
DoctorSpaceDog
agriculture lowering dietary vitamin d uptake
newusernamewhothis
mainzy123360
Odd story. But aye very white. As long as ther are sick, needy, men without empathy there will be rape. This is like, quaint, but moot af
Edutittam
This is the kind of crap that hit Dr. Manhattan deep.
ImgurTRZ
Did they end up getting married too?
FlaccidTrannyDick
No, but she did have his baby.
slurmlover
are you fucking serious
FierceDruid
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Railroadheavy
Oh boy. I knew there would be victim shaming. I knew it but I looked anyway.
IUpvoteYourCatPics
The comments make me want to burn Imgur to the ground
HormonalWoman
You sound... really hormonal.
HormonalWoman
Did you watch it? She regretted sex... that's not rape.
Railroadheavy
Were you there?
mastikator
She described the pain as being split in half. She said she was too weak to resist. You are a liar.
Railroadheavy
But did she state this during sex and did he keep going?
HormonalWoman
Nope after
mastikator
You should watch the video. She wasn't able to consent nor resist and was in excruciating pain the whole time
supersomatic
Why do you even need to ask that question?! STOP VICTIM SHAMING
BulkSausage
https://imgur.com/AFW2DpW
Ronburdandysbrother
Who the fuck is renee zelwedger?
wylwrk
This isn't racist? Damn it, I dunno anymore. I give up.
DavidPemberton
put up a picture of Chris Brown and Rihanna recording together and put 'black people' on the bottom of it and see what reactions you get.
Helicoprion
Way to turn a shitty experience into a paying gig. Kudos.
DustinDustyDust
Sounds like a bullshit way to turn some kinda profit
whyexactly
I can't wrap my head around the use of "survivor" in this. Rape isn't lethal...
Stonejrod1
Taldur08
therockknight1
ilikeyourfaceandstuff
I tried watching the video... I couldn't do it. Not because of sadness, but because I felt like Dave Chappelle lol it is just so weird..
BahamutBBob
OneHandedComent
Sauce
MRgetsdownvotedalot
https://www.ted.com/talks/thordis_elva_tom_stranger_our_story_of_rape_and_reconciliation?utm_campaign=tedspread&utm_medium=referral&utm_sour
MilometersKilometers
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CalifornianEskimo
https://www.ted.com/talks/thordis_elva_tom_stranger_our_story_of_rape_and_reconciliation/up-next
PussyGotYourTongue
Thank you. This stuff usually sets off my PTSD, but that video gave me nothing but hope. Def worth the watch
spainlikethecountrylavenderlikethecolor
Omg i thought that was fake. Jesus.
ilikeyourfaceandstuff
Definitely not lol
mikeatike
What the actual fuck.
mormonator12
It's really good. They talk about his attempt to reform but how he knows he will always be trash and he wants to help prevent rapes.
kedtheduck
Then that's reform. Reform means you learn to be better and help people prevent it bc you've been in that situation, whether you were the 1/
PervertedPlatypus
Isn't it always a survivor if it's rape? I mean.. otherwise it would be murder.
LittlemissEm
It's an ordeal you have to live through,like surviving a shooting or a terrorist attack.
BellerophonM
It's because they don't want to be referred to as victims.
GuciGucci
You're asking the real questions
Sxualhrssmntpanda
Shhhh, you can't just say that!
PervertedPlatypus
Oops. Will it be removed?
GenuineHappiness
Surely it’s because of all the people that can’t handle the trauma after rape and eventually kill themselves because of it
PervertedPlatypus
That's suicide then. Humans are creative, they have names for all the bad stuff.
GenuineHappiness
Why don’t you try opening up your mind to alternate viewpoints, it might help you out one day. Or not, but let me know how that goes.
PervertedPlatypus
Sure.. I'm a rock now.. And between rocks, I'm the smartest one.. Be open and receptive to my alternative choices. :*
juansaltysnail
Rape and killing.
Tenugui
This always bothers me as well. I feel like 'survivor' is added for more emotional punch.
DestinyAndChicken
I think it's used as an alternative to 'victim' because it has empowering connotations. Genuine question - what word would you use?
Tenugui
Why qualify it? This rhetorical construct is not needed or accurate here. How you describe it depends on the individual and situation.
Cassiopeia93
Rapee
clykke
"Victim".
BlankhasdiedofDysentery
She regretted it in the morning and he accepts responsibility for her decisions and his.
AntiMonsterPaladin
regretting it after the consented act is complete isn't rape.
BlankhasdiedofDysentery
Right...I was posting what their thing was about. Apparently unpopular to say a fact.
mastikator
Because it's not true. She didn't consent.
stilltryingtofigureoutafunnyname
They both agreed that she was too drunk, as in throwing up and all, and he took her home anyway
BlankhasdiedofDysentery
He was drunk too, if being drunk is an excuse then being drunk is an excuse. Or it's not an excuse for either.
LastoftheLillyCreatures
you falsely dichotomize drunk/not drunk. It's a scale. Stop this "drunk is drunk" bullshit.
ISayFuckAllTheTime
She was nearly unconscious, he was about as drunk as a fratboy after a six pack of light beer. Not exactly fuckin comparable, dude.
SidneyMajora
This +1
stilltryingtofigureoutafunnyname
That's true if both people are acting on lower inhibitions. But if you are carrying a drunk person around, they are not acting at all.
BlankhasdiedofDysentery
But you inhibitions are lowered,just because they are less stable physically means nothing. Blacked out is another story. She wasn't.
stilltryingtofigureoutafunnyname
So if one drunk person takes action on their own, is alcohol an excuse for potential damage?
BlankhasdiedofDysentery
if two drunk people are involved in the decision. Say jumping off a bridge then they are both still responsible.
Mack1986
Was this that new rape where both were shithouse drunk but it's his fault?
Railroadheavy
No it's the type of rape where she said no and he did it anyway
Andalite
That is, apparently, exactly it. According to another user in here, anyway
HormonalWoman
Only men can rape duh! I am being sarcastic but this is the sentiment far to many women have. Regret is not fucking rape.
Railroadheavy
Too
HormonalWoman
Who's a clever boy.
IUpvoteYourCatPics
"Far too many women have"? This is so false I can't even fathom it. Stop pandering to the red pills of Imgur.
HormonalWoman
Oh wow you want to tell me what I can think? How about fuck off you feminist twat. You want to disprove my point, please provide proof. You
HormonalWoman
see words have definitions. I said "far too many" not all, just more than I would like.
HormonalWoman
However you went full snowflake before learning to read.
SidneyMajora
Because my feelings are facts now, mom!
HormonalWoman
Yeah they feel I am wrong... so prove me wrong. Oh but definitions don't care about feelings hmm
TheBadDad
It was date rape. They were friends/together
sleepyimgurian
They clearly were not.
SerenityForever
UhhhhhNick
OOOHhhh ok, i thought it was the other, less acceptable kind of rape
TheBadDad
I was explaining how she is still able to go around with him.
HermioneGrangersLeftTesticlesFungalGrowth
You mean surprise sex?
myteenyverse
The unexpected type of sex.
Occasionalfunnycomment
It provided one of those examples where he took advantage of her but he didn't really think he took it too far but later realized 1/
thatguy73
As far as I remember it was drunken sex that she regretted and didn't communicate to him she didn't want to. It's been a while since I've
thatguy73
Seen it
DestinyAndChicken
That's inaccurate - maybe worth watching the video again if it's become foggy?
thatguy73
I will. Thanks for being decent about it :)
Occasionalfunnycomment
He probably did a bad thing. One of those cases that criminally wouldn't be illegal or prosecutable but was still a pretty shitty thing.
Kassimila
I'm confused. If it wasn't illegal, then it wasn't rape.
Kassimila
- 6 points for being confused. Good job community.
LittlemissEm
It's illegal regardless. Just would be quite difficult to prosecute.
GodEmperor0fMankind
I have a friend that went through that kind of situation. I didn't lear, about it until years after she and the guy had broken up.
Andalite
You said that like it would bring us answers, instead of just more questions
ferafish
Haven't watched it, but my guess: she wasn't into it, felt pressured/scared, didn't speak up or say no. Now the pair talks about >
mastikator
She was nearl blackout drunk and he took her home, unclothed her and fucked her without her being able to resist or say no.
turningthei
Stop making shit up if you dont know about it. She was 16 and drunk and it was never her choice. Like why would you even say anything??
mastikator
She described the pain as being split in half.
ferafish
< teaching better consent practices ie going for a 'yes means yes' rather than 'no means no', asking as you go, making everyone feel safe.
DoctorSpaceDog
< awkward way, these rape stories all read like awkward office moments but everyone's naked. hard to explain what i mean in 140 characters
IAmTiredOfRacismAndAnger
a woman doesn't always say "no" but it doesn't mean consent. It can be hard to say no when you're afraid. Body language is as important. 1/2
IAmTiredOfRacismAndAnger
So its important to teach your kids with sex education to any gender about sexual consent and now to read it in your partner. 2/3
DoctorSpaceDog
yeah man nothing sexier than constantly pausing to make sure this or that is okay. why can't no mean no. sex has become casualized in an >
AlmightyDylon
Naw ain't like that. When I started with my wife I would just casually say things. Like can I stick it in? Or can I spank you 1/2
Notme68
My wife and I have the kind of sex that would be bragging; I frequently check consent and if she's ok.
ferafish
Or I'm wrong. Just a guess
imjustheretofavouritethings
It seems plausible
Nepsin
Tbh I was angry. Incredibly angry at this. Till you said that. My gf was just raped, so I hope most rapists burn.