I'm thankful for...

Nov 28, 2013 3:37 AM

DowntonCrabby

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this guy.

We started dating our junior year of high school.

Here we are at our high school graduation.

Before we knew it we were graduating from college!

His graduation

My graduation

But then the fire nation attacked...

...just kidding haha. He was involved in a serious accident involving a gasoline flash fire. Over 60% of his body was burned, mainly second and third degree. Never, ever, ever mix gasoline and fire. It is NEVER a good idea. Ok, end of safety spiel.

Slowly getting better

Out of respect for him i'm not posting most of the pictures of his healing process. We'll just skip ahead :) Most of his body healed really quickly. His torso and face looked almost brand new at this point! His legs, however, weren't healing well at all. His doctors decided it would be best for him to have grafting surgery. Skin was harvested from his thigh, and placed circumferentially around his legs from the knees down and across the tops of his feet.The grafting surgery actually improved the pain in his legs, but the pain at the harvesting site (his thigh) was bad. We were happy though, because we knew it could only get better from here!

We slept (and he ate) a lot...

I had a pull out bed once he got out of the ICU, which was awesome. I was tempted to crawl in bed with him, but didn't want to hurt his new baby skin or disturb his grafts (plus i'm pretty sure his nurses would've booted my ass out for breaking the rules). He got to eat a ton of food because healing that much requires a lot of calories.

His face healed SO well!

I mean, it just looks so perfect! Look at that beautiful skin!

Finally getting ready to go home

Pardon the selfie.

He finally got to sleep in his own bed!

I'm sure he didn't appreciate me in his face while he slept, but it felt so nice to be able to be that close to him again!

Legs healing nicely :)

His doctors were really happy with the progress he was making. He had a home nurse come to his house for daily bandage changes, and he had physical therapy for quite a while, but slowly but surely things returned to normal.

His first day back to work.

He had to wear compression bandages over his arm and legs, but he was so happy to get back to his normal routine. He'll be wearing compression hose over his donor site and grafting sites for another year, and he'll have to avoid intense sun exposure for many, many, many years...but who cares?! He's out of pain, happy, and healthy.

He proposed in October :)

He had his friends hiding in the bushes taking pictures haha.

THE RING :D

I can't even get anything done, I just stare at it......so shiny, much bling, wow.

We're getting married in August...

And I couldn't be more thankful!

Thanks for reading, and thanks for all the laughs imgurians! I spent a lot of time on imgur in the hospital, and it always brightened my day!

I' m so happy for you! You two are amazing :)

12 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

I know Mizzou's Columns when I see them! I am very happy this had a good ending. Best of luck with everything OP!

12 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 0

Thats love!

12 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 0

Such a beautiful couple:) and OP, such a beautiful smile. I'm sure that got him through a lot of pain.

12 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 1

Goddammit. The feels

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Wow, dude got lucky.

12 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 0

Beautifull!

12 years ago | Likes 39 Dislikes 1

Congratulations on so many points - sticking with him, supporting him, engaging him. YOU are a treasure. I am so happy for both of you.

12 years ago | Likes 596 Dislikes 3

And he is a teddybear!

12 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

I am happy for them. I really am.

12 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

"Look at that beautiful skin!" <-- This shit right here; that's fucking great.

12 years ago | Likes 371 Dislikes 3

"baby skin" is what got me lol

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Exactly what I was thinking as I read that. Love people like that.

12 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 0

your're a super girl, for going trough that with him. many wouldn't. you'll be a super mother, i can assure you that! best wishes for both!

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

+1 for Mizzou plus a
good story. Congrats!

12 years ago | Likes 27 Dislikes 1

Fuck yeah! Didn't go to school there but did an internship in the physics department. Always support.

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I regret that I have but one point to give. Congrats on a new lease on life for the both of you!!

12 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

you both are amazing first time i've been genuinely happy for happy people

12 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

You are a good fucking girlfriend/fiancée, OP

12 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Such genuine happiness in the last picture, it melts my heart

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

MIZ....ZOU!!!

12 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

" but it felt so nice to be able to be that close to him again! " not gonna lie i tear'd up...

12 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

yea he got burned but look what he gets to go home to everyday now... win

12 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

MIZZOU!!! Great taste in blankies

12 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Thank you for being by his side through everything, the world needs more people like you.

12 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

To be fair she's probably by his side because he's pretty great too!

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

much bling wow hahahaha :)

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

*sob* I feel so alone...

12 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

THIS IS SO AWESOME!

12 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

MIZ :)

12 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

it's cheesy, but it's imgur so I'll do it anyway...ZOU

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Yeah, I did it to a few comments, but it's the interwebs.

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Unpopular Puffin: Your smile is nicer than Anna Kendrick's

12 years ago | Likes 83 Dislikes 4

Anna Kendrick's teeth are too big for her mouth. If she had a mustache she could pass for Nigel Thornberry. Smashing.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Nah, I'd say that's a popular opinion. She's got a beautiful smile :) +1 mate

12 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 0

Agree!

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I was thinking the same thing. She even looks a bit like her in some pics.

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I assume you posted this to invite us all to the wedding?

12 years ago | Likes 708 Dislikes 4

Can't wait. Much excited

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

We demand an audience.

12 years ago | Likes 48 Dislikes 0

No one ever invites us to nuff'n *grumble grumble*

12 years ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 0

I'm ok with a livestream!

12 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Jesus we're getting invited to a lot of weddings, My suit and blender budget is flying through the roof

12 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

Not to mention the yellow armor.

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Good thing it's black friday. time to get a suit.

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

"Are there any who oppose?"
"Yea, me!" "FUCK YOU DAN!!"

12 years ago | Likes 68 Dislikes 3

YOU TOO, SUSAN!!!

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

And Diane.

12 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

We don't speak about Diane, she has a flight to make.

12 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

I think Diana deserves a cactus up her ass.

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

*breathing intensifies*

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Where can I find a woman like this? Lots of respect for your faithfulness.

12 years ago | Likes 141 Dislikes 9

I can only imagine dude's name is Jesse

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

Probably all around you. Care and love and dedication are not rare qualities, they're just not often seen and proven like this

12 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

wiser words are rarely spoken

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

I too am wondering this.

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

just keep a look out and don't just pay attention to the really good looking chicks.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Right here sweety ;)

12 years ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 1

..But you're a guy :P

12 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 0

Wolfman's got nards!

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I don't know what you're talking about..

12 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 0

Your profile description: "I'm just your average 26 year old dude" etc. Although you be joking right now, can't quite tell.

12 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

Hmmm...do really think somebody would do that? Just go on the internet and tell lies...? Do I seem like that type of woman to you?

12 years ago | Likes 25 Dislikes 0

"But then the fire nation attacked"... that's both fucked up and awesome at the same time.

12 years ago | Likes 3933 Dislikes 10

"Haha"

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 3

Yeah, I ended up dribbling a mouthful of tea down my front when I read that. I'm not even mad.

12 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

flami-o, hotman

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

it was either them or us saying it. hue

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I laughed, and then reflected on what I had just done and was ashamed

12 years ago | Likes 284 Dislikes 1

Humor can be a life-saver.

12 years ago | Likes 39 Dislikes 0

She sounds fun haha.

12 years ago | Likes 103 Dislikes 0

I'm going to assume that "haha" means an imgurian "goddamn, why are half of us single. this fucking sucks. oh well."

12 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 1

Nah it's just awesome because this happened a very long time ago. He's all better now!

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Its fularious!

12 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

Where's a water bender when you need one.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Seriously. Katara could have healed him straight away.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

she gets away with it because it's highly probable that now -they both- are laughing about it instead of suffering.

12 years ago | Likes 24 Dislikes 1

I didn’t get that one. Is that a reference to something?

12 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 2

Avatar: The Last Airbender. The Cartoon. Not the horseshit movie by M. Night Shamalamadingdong.

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 2

M. Night Shatapon

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Thanks for asking because I didn't either.... thanks to those who answered! :)

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

OHMYGOODNESS! Thanks so much for all the love, imgur! And ZOU to my fellow tigers!!!! :))))

12 years ago | Likes 558 Dislikes 10

I just got married to my high school sweetheart in October! Marriage is AWESOME! I hope you guys live a long, happy life together.

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

You two are adorable. And I envy your happiness.

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

I just wanted to say you have very nice teeth.. That's all

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Imgur has always seemed to be nicer than the rest of the internet... at least to me.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Your commitment and love of him is inspiring & seemingly hard to find now a days. Props to you, sweetheart!

12 years ago | Likes 40 Dislikes 0

Missouri State here, but still a tigers fan at heart(: thanks for the awesome story. Good luck to both of you!

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

For today, I'll give you a MIZ. But as a gamecock, that is being redacted tomorrow! Great story of love and support! Congrats!

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

As a fellow tiger, I am happy for his recovery! As a blue springs high school graduate, did you happen to go to blue springs south?

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Your story has made my day, OP! Have a nice life with your hubby :)

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

how long did it take from beginning to end? the whole healing process

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Your story is absolutely lovely and made me smile. Have a wonderful wedding and a long and happy marriage. :)

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

You guys seem like just awesome people to hang around and you're a beautiful couple! Congrats!

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I thought that column looked familiar! Congratulations!!

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

...and also that Mizzou blanket!

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Haha yeah, living in St. Louis I immediately recognized that blanket.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Wife'd him!

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

you are a beauty . inny and outy

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

as a KU student, I would like to put the rivalry aside and give you my congrats

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

HOW THA FUCK ALL DEZ UGLY ASS NIGGAS LAND THESE HOT ASS BITCHES DAT STICK WIT DEM THROUGH HORRIFIC INJURIES AN SHIT!?!?!! Can even get

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 3

my own hand to jack me off.... ~_~

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 3

You guys look genuinely happy together in the last picture.. I like that. Rock on.

12 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

More imgurians at MIZZOU! I love it!

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

dat ring tho

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

May you two always be happy.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I knew those were the columns! Congrats!! :)

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Pardon me for being crass, but...deets on the ring?

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Good luck, OP

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

MIZ!

12 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

ZOU!

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You have beautiful teeth.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I'll give you a ZOU from an Auburn Tiger! Congratulations on the engagement, and on being awesome in general!

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Just want him to know, I've had skin grafts on my chest/arms my entire life; after healing you won't be able to notice them unless you try.

12 years ago | Likes 26 Dislikes 0

Thanks guys, that's so encouraging! I've been shocked at how little scarring he has considering everything. The human body is amazing!

12 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Fellow grafter here: agreed, the pain on donor site is intense, but 8 years later only I can "see" the donor site on my thigh (since I 1/x

12 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

know what to look for) and as for the graft on my leg you can see it, but you really have to be looking, pantyhose = stealth mode (2/2)

12 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

I've had mine for 25 of my 26 years, so I guess I've had a lot of heal time; but really they weren't noticeable by earliest photos at age 3.

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

My graft was done when I was an adult, kids tend to heal much better, adults usually get more noticeable scarring, explains the difference

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

As for the How? I Tommy Pickles'd the safety gate and climbed a chair to pull boiling tea on myself off the tabletop at age 1. First Steps!

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

OP, I'm sure the photographer would appreciate credit!!

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Oh yes! Good point! Meagan and Nate Photography took our engagement pictures (the last two photos in the album) :D

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Thank you!! The best thing you can give a photographer is credit. I'd appreciate that over money any day :)

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Plus, I now get to creep your E session in awe haha

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0