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Front Page Edit: Send GIFs, Food Recipes, and boobs or whatever else you all send! I love you guys; if anyone needs to talk, hit me up! Also, ex is an Imgur user, so be nice!
paigezero
Actually, DID have a dream about my ex last night, 6 years after the break up.
krpd
Just a friendly warning, it might take years for them to stop. Just don't put the rose-colored goggles on and you're good
carlofonovs
I had a dream about her two nights ago, it's been three years.
PhiIIipJFry
Oh man I know those feels. I had nightmares about rejection/cheating for months.
dreadeyeknight
Dry bed yay!
testosticor
I still have those. It's been just 5 years. When I have them I get mad all over again lol
FuckTheLemonsAndBail
You're getting there! Time heals my friend. It took me a year but I got there.
mburicao
Sauce of the dream??..
aB1710
Bro thats the worst hate it
heytheretaylor
It's been about 3 years now and I still have them. There less frequent though, good luck @op
heytheretaylor
They're*
NyaKoneko
It's ok I still dream about my ex at times and it's been 2 years
NickelBar13
1/ In my 1st love break up. I was told progress is: going from thinking about them 1000 times/day to 10 times a day to once a day. Until you
NickelBar13
2/ meet someone that you can't stop thinking about.
BARose
Unfortunately, I still have dreams about my ex-fiance. That was nearly 10 years ago. It sucks when it comes out of nowhere to make me (1/2)
BARose
feel my own feels! (2/2)
turbodog
A month? Oh my sweet summer child...
zachwhack
I dated one of those. I remeber the first entire day going by w/o thinking about her. Realized it the day after, felt SO good. Took a bit..
smokiwartooth
4 years and my ex still hangs out in my dreams. It doesn't seem to go away, just becomes less frequent.
AbsoluteVirtue
I really wish I'd stop dreaming about the girl I'm in love with since she already turned me down
OwnerOfABrokenHeart
I did that for a while too. If you need someone to talk to, hit me up.
ThomasLinkPrime
My ex dumped me a month ago. I still have dreams about her. Id would love to forget about her.
pumpkindancer
And still, you're talking about her here.. great job buddy
Katimakittykat
Do you have advice for moving on?
OwnerOfABrokenHeart
Yeah read the bottom comment's replies! I told him what's working for me; hit me up on DMs if you want more though so I can expand!
luketreefreebean
Last night I had a dream about someone who I haven't seen in 7 years was mad at me and that made me mad at her. I didn't do anything wrong.
mooptown
However long you were together, it takes half as long to get rare badger milk through reliable sources on the internet. Hope this helps!
chupathingy99
That's fantastic information
DidYouDoThis
I needed that! Thanks man
ausckes
But you're still thinking about her, hence this post. How much progress have you made, really?
OwnerOfABrokenHeart
Honestly? Not a ton. I think about her all the time, I still love her, and would do anything to spend time with her. But atleast less dreams
reineseele
I once dreamt a car was sentient and tried to run me over. I jumped on its hood and waited till i woke up. That was weird. Okay?
Pterosaur69
isn't that a Futurama episode?
OwnerOfABrokenHeart
Can we please make this comment's replies the new random dream comment thread? That would be incredible
figuringeights
I once dreamt I was standing on a dock, and in the sea pterodactyls were attacking pirate ships. I looked down in the water and there...
figuringeights
A giant Billy Crystal dressed in his city slickers outfit rose from the waters and came to the rescue. Ripping pterodactyls out of the sky.
ItsThaRickDance
As someone going through a divorce. How did you do it?
OwnerOfABrokenHeart
Block all communication; it'll suck, but until you're over her, block and hide on phone/social media. Then GET BUSY. Do new things, hang out
OwnerOfABrokenHeart
And force yourself to spend time with other girls. Not necessarily dating but just even as friends. And do stuff you've wanted to do!
GreasyTupperware
Solid advice. It worked for me.
OwnerOfABrokenHeart
It's in the process of working for me too!
RingyDingy
When you dream about murdering her you'll be ready to move on. Or murder her...
theangerintheranger
I like the way you think..haha
HeWhoPours
Ugh I had two murder dreams last night, they sucked. Had a falling in love one mixed in, which is always bittersweet
Thneitis
OwnerOfABrokenHeart
IslandGirl907
Yea let's stay far far away from that guy!
RingyDingy
I'm not ADVOCATING murder. Just saying he'd be READY to murder. Which is legally distinct.
IslandGirl907
Ah. LOL you lost me at murder.
IWouldLickThat
Fuck,I hate those dreams. And the sex ones are the worst.
MartialLol
Divorced after 9 year with no sex dreams, but the mundane ones suck ass. I have to remind myself that I'm with someone else every morning.
pizzauniverse
You cant dream of your ex if you dont sleep http://imgur.com/5EXjCuv
FrancisLouJean
I had a sex dream about my prof but when we started I remembered my bf irl and stopped my prof and left.
idontevenno
IM NOT THE ONLY ONE?!?
Gasol916
Yes.
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Gasol916
:)
PloppyTheSlopper
Going through a divorce right now. Frequently have vivid dreams about her, which leaves me sad as shit when I wake up. :/ Fun times!!
CakeGhost
I'm right there with you brother..I've had vivid dreams about her having sex with other guys...And I wake up almost in a panic..
SuperTroid
Same shit happened to me except it lasted around two months. The subconscious can be a real asshole sometimes.
pizzauniverse
2 years :I still happening. im thinking something might be wrong with me
Akeera
I'm super happy with my bf of 3 years and just had a dream about my ex. Brains are just scumbags sometimes
SuperTroid
It's been more than a year for me but occasionally I do too. Don't dwell on it.
CarInAVet
No they're not. The ones where you're just sitting together and everything's back to normal are the worst.
IWouldLickThat
Or the ones where they're in tears because their new life has gone to shit. Those just leave me feeling guilty and real shitty.
PloppyTheSlopper
Yep definitely.
OwnerOfABrokenHeart
No kidding man; I can't tell you the amount of times I've had those. Or wake up and wonder why they aren't beside you.
notyourdadyet
It's been three months already. I had a dream we where friends and I asked about her new boyfriend and I seen the twinkle in her she (1)
notyourdadyet
(2) gave me after we did the do. Woke up crying because how fast she moved on. Keep saying that I'm young and handsome to get over it
Ruhig
It fades with time, fortunately. Not sure which are worse though, the dreams where they say horrible things to you, or the ones where they-
Ruhig
- take you back. Just remember neither are real, and are just reflections of your own thoughts.
SilverWingsofMorning
i had a horrid relationship and 7 years later i am happily married. have an occasional dream of the fucked up situation i was in
LittleMissZombiebait
Omg I'm not alone! I have the occasional dream where I'm back with him and I feel so trapped and I can't get out! So glad to wake up.
Mrgetdown
Just ended a 5 year relationship at 23, life can be rough but you learn so much from the past. Here for you bro
focusundrunkes
This maybe irrelevant but I just found out it's a "grease zerk" and not a "grease cert." I'm dumb founded. I feel like I need to spread this
KillerTofu69
You can always wake up next to Imgur. We're here for you OP and we love you, you wiener eating faggot.
OwnerOfABrokenHeart
This made my day. Believe me, this is what I've been doing. You all have my sense of humor. I love you guys.
PeachhCakee
+1 for "wiener eating faggot"
Welshglish
I still miss my ex. I wouldn't have worked and I fucked it up, but I still miss her.
Welshglish
That was 4 months ago.
NadaXX
9 months ago for me and feels like it was yesterday
Welshglish
I'm very aware of the passage of time but I still miss her. I wonder what she's doing- she's cut all contact
NadaXX
Be glad she did. It's for the best.
OwnerOfABrokenHeart
^this. My ex has done the same thing and it's made it much easier. Every time I see her doing stuff with friends it hurts bad.
OwnerOfABrokenHeart
The same thing happened with me. I know it would've failed and I was the one that probably pushed her away. But I still love her.
Welshglish
I'm stationed in Scotland for 7 weeks at a time, she lives in London. Add in my gobby nature and general cuntishness when pissed, not ideal.
OwnerOfABrokenHeart
Me and my ex are both military and we both get pissed off easily, so I completely get that for sure. You can see why we had trouble haha.
Welshglish
Sorry mate, I meant pissed in the British sense. Not the most understanding bloke when I'm boozing.
Welshglish
What branch are you in by the way?
OwnerOfABrokenHeart
Army. Armor/Cavalry officer.
Welshglish
Royal Marines. Just a marine, so equivalent of a private.
OwnerOfABrokenHeart
That's awesome man; good for you for serving. Not something everyone is willing to do anymore, especially in this current world.
jakenbacon
I'm in the exact same boat right now
Eaglemk4
I'm in the process of finding out my wife was sexting her higher up and I have no fucking clue what to do
OwnerOfABrokenHeart
I'm sorry man; if you need to talk, hit me up.
DanAykroydFanClub
It gets easier man x
Khillzzz
Me too :(
aB1710
Gotta stay strong
OwnerOfABrokenHeart
It's been a very long month I'm not gonna lie; I still see her around and out with our friends every so often and it hurts every time.
hoseli
I know what you are feeling atm. You wont believe it but after 2 months or so its goung to be a lot better. Do something new every day:)
Buldge
Been 5, still hurts.
OwnerOfABrokenHeart
I've been trying! And I've been trying to get more friends to do things with me so I can't just sit around at the house alone.
IAmAGoodPerson
You in high school?
OwnerOfABrokenHeart
No; I've graduated college. We just work near each other and have the same friend group because of it.
IAmAGoodPerson
Word. Makes sense
aaakeith
My ex just broke up with me on Sunday. We both work in the same department so I see him ALL the time. Hurts every single time.
OwnerOfABrokenHeart
Yep. I'm getting ready to go through a month long course with my ex starting in a couple weeks. Dreading it.
aaakeith
Ugh. We'll get through it!
OwnerOfABrokenHeart
I'm sorry:/ if you need to talk hit me up, but I know you'll make it through.