Bit of a boost

Mar 5, 2017 11:34 AM

thegillman9

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I've been broken up with the ex for a while so it was really nice to finally find the courage to attempt to move on

Who the fuck cares. Congrats on not being a pussy.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

Congrats man. I just recently moved on from my ex-bf! Cheers!

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

It's amazing what a little bit of coffeedence can do

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I ask girls out all the time and get turn down often, I also go out often because often they say yes. Can't win them all.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Next time, just ask if she's DTF. That cuts out a lot of the nonsense, but know you'll get slapped a lot. A lot..

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Good for you man! Currently looking for my confidence as well after a breakup, so I can definitely relate.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I don't care

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

Well done, rejection happens but sometimes it's still beneficial.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You suck. This post sucks. Congrats on being able to talk to another human. Glad 105,000 people have seen this

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

For anyone curious, she was seeing someone. Nice girl though :)

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

I've been practicing my smile for when I ask a girl out, what do u guys think? Be honest

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

9 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 1

Is feminism to the point where women go out of their way to hound men for a date (that they pay for)? Maybe society isn't ready for that?

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Check out "Woman seeking generous man" on craigslist, they love coffee and sausage.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Its a start. Rejection is going to happen. Its a part of life, but eventually the right person says yes and its all good.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Good for you! Every time you hear a "no," that is someone doing you a solid by not having you waste your time on them. Next contestant!

9 years ago | Likes 66 Dislikes 1

This! Great words here

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

9 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 1

At least you asked. That's more than many other guys. Good for you

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Plenty of girls to go for, if you keep going I'm sure you'll find many of them would like to be your special someone.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Fuck yeah, OP. Good job.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

9 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 3

The important thing for your confidence is the mere act of asking. Don't worry about the answer.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You lose a great deal of confidence when you break up with a loved one, I just barely started moving on and I feel much better

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Rock on my good man!

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Atta girl! (/guy/etc)

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

At least you asked!! Men never ask me and I wish they did!

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 2

Why don't you ask men then?.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I do

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I admire your confidence rejection or not .. I missed many opportunities because of my fear of rejection.

9 years ago | Likes 172 Dislikes 1

That's a bummer. Sounds like me, also. Gotta man up! Hey, let's make this together: during next week we ask one (1) girl out. Share results!

9 years ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 0

...preferably different girl. But if you want to challenge?

9 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 0

This is amazing... just sayin'.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Same

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

If you never ask, that's rejection by default. If you don't play the game, you forfeit.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Personaly I just have no clue who to ask out and even if I did know I would be too lazy to do it. Something is wrong with me.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

To be honest... I dont know how you guys do it (girl here). I did that once, he was really sweet and said no. I feel like shit a week...

9 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 1

Because we have to.

9 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

Yup. My ex (were still friends) told me "You can't just be pretty and wait for someone to ask you, you're not a girl. Get out there"

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Otherwise we would be alone, browsing some site on internet all day, all night, only memes to comfort us.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Nothing more to say then good on you.

9 years ago | Likes 332 Dislikes 9

@OP avoided the old trap of making one's self undateable after breaking up with someone

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Cheers, I never done it before and yet still felt really good about the whole thing

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I have nothing more to say

9 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

Good on you.

9 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Than

9 years ago | Likes 89 Dislikes 6

Beat me to it.

9 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 2

No he just forgot the comma after "then"

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

I guess that works too

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0