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Jan 24, 2018 2:15 AM
toughtittysherlock
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Source is: http://sisiwako.tumblr.com/
VictusVonGuyver
To any fellow Imgurians who have also gone through this. I offer hugs as one who has been through this.
GnoHomo
Damn these onion chopping ninjas
catdaddd
Its easy to feel like this until you find someone who values you and your time as much as you value them and theirs. Been there, better now!
Snapbackontop
If only she would've realized how much I cared. I needed this thanks @OP
TheRovingSpiritofConstructiveChaos
This made me sit silently for 5 minutes in painful reflection. This is the kind of raw, emotional, constructive chaos I exist for. +1
JeepusChrystler
Can't have a meltdown if you never dated anyone to begin with!
Kittybitters
It sounded like she tried too hard and him not at all. How could a relationship like that ever last, or even begin?
DuelDoubleUnderscore
I hate being reminded that I’m single af.
picardsaysengayge
don't buy people nice things and then lord it over them when they don't pick you.
TheAngryBang
@AmandaObviously bawling.
TheSleepyTiger
I hate to say it, but I feel like I'm the dude in this situation, I'm really good friends with a girl but I don't feel the same way about...
Gravitysucks
That’s odd. Usually it’s the other way around. Is there any particular reason you’re not fond of the idea of getting more serious?
VagueSortOf
Same. I think being in a long relationship and ending the way it did. I don't feel the need to jump into another.
WithPride
This is more to me than to you but when I was the dude in this situation, I didn't appreciate what she did for me until it was too late /1
WithPride
as I had a negative outlook on what a healthy relationship should look like and was looking at women that I shouldn't even have considered/2
TheSleepyTiger
her as she does about me. I think of her as my best friend, and I don't want to lose that friendship... I honestly don't know what to do.
NurseVentura
If I learned anything about my last relationship, it's that you can't force love. Be honest with her, she will understand eventually.
waitfiveoatmeal
I was in the exact same situation and ended it with my SO of 2 years today. He's the most reasonable person, so we're still friends
ThouHastNoPizza
I can sympathize. I wish her all the best too, but I just didn't feel right dating her.
EvilDeadTed
CaveHunter3000
I was expecting a joke about the guy spending all his time on Dark Souls 3 ... but damn
TalosIsLove
Man I would have loved that !!
CrimsonUmbreon
Too many relatable things cropping up lately :(
HistoricalContext
The frustrating thing about this? I've never had this person. No one in my life has even come close.
toughtittysherlock
Well there's one upside to that. You don't get hurt when it's all over
raggamuffin132
I never thought I would or could have this. As quickly as I had it, it was gone. I relate to this pretty hard right about now.
NyQuilDaydream
Max Caulfield?
Johntalks252
gloriousglue
@OP source?
toughtittysherlock
I found it on Pinterest I don't own this image and they didn't give me any sources sorry :/
toughtittysherlock
I'll try and find it for you
Kougeru
I love how everytime I see stuff like this, the author makes it obvious they think themselves as super cute
Gravitysucks
My thoughts exactly. The way the whole story plays out, it’s kind of clear they’re compatible but he doesn’t find her physically attractive
Monkeyfighter
As someone that is trying to start a relationship soon...I’m concerned I am this girl.
cuttysark
I hate being reminded of my past and what coulda woulda shoulda been.
Ka7o
Yeah fuck it. Write it all down, have a good look, set it on fire.
Kimberoo
If it should have it will be. Trust in that.
stinkycrotchlover69
If it was going to work, it would have.
oohaaaah
Thank you!!
flyingmidget23
Doesn't stop the thoughts or the dreams I find her in that seem so real. So much I had so long ago and for so long I'll wish and regret
Ididthisforthelol
No regrets man. Can't go out of life with them. At the end of the day you gotta say you lived a good life.
BHPaperstacks
I feel you bro. 3 years. I still see her in my god dann dreams.
DavoMoto42
I wonder if someone out there feels like this for me... I wonder if I will ever feel this for someone else again.
Lowlsqwid
This hurts but is not relatable to be. Mostly because of that “socially repulsive” thing
whatthehellanotheraccount
that's really sad.. hope the author finds someone who appreciates her like she deserves
rylecx
Someone just got me to play Boki Boki Literature Club yesterday so this post has a whole different meaning to me
kingjarren87127001
I think the pain is worse knowing neither of us did anything wrong...we just weren't happy anymore. Five years of memories turned to rain..
IKnowYouHateMeYes
https://i.giphy.com/media/TKgNOLpk2bEGI/giphy.gif
SuperAssClench
What the fuck. This hits way too close to home. Relate to this so hard...
Letuskeeppumpkinsspicyallyearlong
Yuppp
MartynMage
I was not ready for these emotions.
Johntalks252
Same here xc
jakamac
Same. *hugs*
SuperAssClench
BiologicallyHazardousMaterial
Yep. Fiance left me for another man. It fucking hurts
LimpTree
KonAustin
I know the feels v.v this sort of thing has followed me since high school
leonwFitWrecker
Ditto. Thinking if i rained love on them, be selfless, fly to China 2 be with them..eventually itd come back. It didn't. But twist- found1/2
leonwFitWrecker
2/2 the love of my life almost immediately after. Lesson is you can't make someone love you and shouldn't try, might miss the real thing!
SuperAssClench
I feel like that's literally where I'm at right now.
theboringusername
Have one that treats me like this now, and I can't find it in me to feel these things in return. I feel like an ungrateful shit. Need help.
OnlyTheLonelyImgurians
ugh... if my bf were an imgurite, I'd worry you were him. I'm still worried, to be honest. I love him but he's so uninterested.
toughtittysherlock
The worse thing you can do is lying to yourself and lying to them. My bf wouldn't talk to me for months on end. He would ignore me, and
toughtittysherlock
It hurt it still does. The best thing you can do it try and be honest and understanding. Leaving them in the dark or chasing after
toughtittysherlock
Something that isn't there will hurt them so much more in the long run
MysteryRobot
I think this is more common than people think experience that’s part of growing up. You deal with it or it deals with you.
Dingus2
This is called "adolescence".
misbehave01
So real yo
ragingrei
I don't get it, does this not happen to grown-ups or something? Or is the patronizing a defense mechanism of some sort?
returnofgannon
things just start to feel different, and you start handling things differently. I'm in the midst of that now
DownvoteMeToInfinityAndBeyond
Am i the only one who noticed the tear stains
goombaguy
"You deal with it or it deals with you," powerful little sentence, there.
DemonicCarnage
I wish we could favorite comments
Idonthavealottosay
Someone once told me that pain is what makes us grow as a person. He broke up with me after.
ThrobbinHoodz
Pain is an excellent teacher. Having feelings is still ok. Learn and grow and love yourself. One day someone will love you as you love them
Lunaura
I don’t know, I’m 32 and it hasn’t happened yet. It’s painful to love someone more than yourself and not even be a priority for them.
ThrobbinHoodz
You can't feel full happiness till you've found it with yourself though. 32 is still young! Take your time
GerberLegalTeam
I decided I didn't want to ever feel that about the person I'm with, so im marrying my first serious gf.
Oalsk
Not everyone will makw you feel that way. Sometimes it truely isn't meant to be
GerberLegalTeam
I get that in abstract but I don't really know what that feels like. I've had little breakups before but they weren't serious relationships.
Oalsk
Fair enough, i hope for the best
flyingmidget23
6 years since we split up doesn't mean it's not still sore just less than it was. The pains In my chest have grown weaker but still here
CleverClint407
Have you dated anyone since then?
BiologicallyHazardousMaterial
I found that they are only there until you find the one who renders them null and void. At first it's like your heart is split but 1
BiologicallyHazardousMaterial
3 heart you worried so much about seems like a distant past. You know you have the right person when life is less colorful without them.
Imadethisaccounttopost
6yrs since I left my ex... We were together 6yrs, lived together for 3 and I still miss her at times...
BiologicallyHazardousMaterial
2 when you find the one who is really meant to be. You no longer have a heart, or a body, it's better than that. More than that. And that 2
jennysokpuppet
I like to appreciate that it means so much that it lingers.
NotThatGuy2
Kinda like a fart
ButCanTheyBeatGoku
I still havent gotten completely gotten over my 1st ex.
returnofgannon
as far as my first serious one, same. It's been over 2 years now
Sparru
7 years and counting. She'll always have a spot in my heart but I don't long for her. I just want her to be happy. Besides, the woman that
Sparru
has a spot in my heart, the woman I still have feelings for, probably doesn't excist anymore. It's an idea of a woman, a woman that used 2/3
Frost72
Yeah, I’ve been there before, I did all this for her but at the end, she chose the married guy....
eriksarcasm
Her husband?
Frost72
Nah, her best friend’s husband, which she was having fun behind her friend’s back and ended up marrying him after 4 years of messing around.
eriksarcasm
Oh. Rotten luck then for all involved. Sorry mate
Frost72
Yeah I say it was worse for the guy’s wife who is a very nice person. She moved on and married a nice guy. They’re all happy!!!
cardboardwhales
This is why I kill my ex’s. Can’t have any chances
CallMeAncalagonTheBlack
You single?
VolvoSupportTeam
TGWolf
Yep. Gotta get my happiness somewhere, lol....
MrNintendoJr
Well jesus mate. I come through all that sweet wholesomeness and this is top comment? Still funny though. 10/10.
fnhngest
explain for my friend? he’s a bit thick and doesn’t understand that comment
GrazuTieCat
jennysokpuppet
lordofallthecookies
Good idea! I will try that.
Hackeur11
IAmTheBeachIWorship
CaptainGeneralKitten
https://imgur.com/IoYn0M0
bilalss4
rowm
XenoDragon45
https://imgur.com/AVNy4gS
KoboldMenace
TotallyNotBorisTheSovietSpy
KoboldMenace
I was hoping someone puts that
GraytheDemon
Damn
CanOnlySayYes
KoboldMenace