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DanielWhiffin
Because everyone wants to be nice to a pretty person. Otherwise you have to grow a personality to make friends.
OfficialBenderRodriguez
I theorize that in most cases, "ugly" and "good looking" people are entirely subjective. Also that most people fall in the average category
Falsie
It's about building up familiarity and emotional attachments - make em laugh. Be a decent human. Maybe don't whip the dick out first 5mins.
robertshockley
Or... You know.... Money.
noyougofuckyourself
He's right, being funny goes a long way.
Deltablue
I ain’t sayin she a gold digger
astrakko
They are good boys brenta.
thetacosavior
When girls find out you eat pussy (and you're good at it), you like Jake Gyllenhaal to them.
Banlish
So many friends and co-workers asked this of me over the years when I got together with my eventual wife I'm almost a comedian at this point
GrailDiary
My father gave me some advice. He said, "Son, you're going to be fat." Anyway, he was right.
craftinscrap
there are plenty of women (and men) that like heavier men. Much more to grab onto on a cold night.
icanmakeayomamajokeoutofanything
Now, I aint sayin' she's a gold-digger.
hehadonechanceandhetookit
But she aint't messing wit no broke niggas
CrossBetween
I ain't too handsome, but I talk good and according to ladies I'm great in bed. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
food4mytummy
The truth is *drumroll* most people are fine looking. Attraction is all about what comes out of the word factory. And don't be weird.
Thoraxe123
But what if you're both weird? What if being weird is good? What if being weird is what defines you as a person? Be weird
food4mytummy
Weird can be lots of things, yea. Weird-cute has potential. Creepy has less applicability haha
revcleo
In example: many older youtubers aren't conventionally attractive, such as Sips from the yogscast. Also regard the amount of fans who would.
revcleo
There's many equally funny people around, but it's more about familiarity.
TrijezniMujo
Ooooor... just accept dying alone and do other things in your life. Like building up an immunity to alchohol poisoning.
food4mytummy
Or take that drinking outside and meet some people. Friends are great.
SimpleComplex
Even the person defending inner beauty clarifies "most people look fine" not all people.
food4mytummy
That is certainly true. But even then... you'd be surprised. Be happy in your own skin. Don't pull a silence of the lambs. No!
wellnoshit
Dont be weird? Well i fucked up
food4mytummy
Be weird. If you're confused about what other is thinking and you don't want to look silly, ask questions. Clarifying is perfectly normal
SuperSplashAsh
Don't be weird. Or at least keep it in till you're too deep in the relationship Then she can't escape!! Muahahahahaha
Bronxon
Or he can't. It is a tres plan. Worked for me!
Solid5outof7
I use to do that, but after the 7th month they lose interest. Now I do it right away, 7 minutes they lose interest.
food4mytummy
I think I was getting at creepy. Wrong verbiage. But yea. "Weird" is fine. 7 months isn't nothing. Maybe neither of you were prepared
MaximumMarks
If only this were true
WardSharlow
In the old days, people met their SOs through their network of friends, in friendly social situations, where you could get to know somebody.
food4mytummy
Don't forget. Life isn't a movie. Friendships end sometimes. Likewise, so do relationships. Both people are trying to figure things out
food4mytummy
It's all complicated. But mistakes are part of life. It's worth the risk if you want it to be. It's not if you don't feel it is. *shrug*
ForgotMyOtherAcct
It mostly is true. Looks matter but not nearly totally, at least for worthwhile relationships.
MaximumMarks
No but in my experience attraction exists before words. That's why apps like tinder thrive.
food4mytummy
And to expand: know who you are, like that person, and like the person standing in front of you, showing appropriate interest.
terirene
That's a lot of rules for "Hey, you're cute."
food4mytummy
There's a lot of rules to life in general. It's complicated. Not impossible. Sometimes "hey, you're cute" works. Be persistent. Go you
iamkyleh
Ive never liked myself, and i never will thanks to your username
food4mytummy
Make a list of things you like about yourself. Then make a list of realistic practices to improve yourself. Go you.
iamkyleh
I like my eyes. Everything else needs to go
food4mytummy
A friend told me they liked how I looked. They liked my eyes. There yea go. Give silly big smiles. Teeth aren't perfect? That's fine