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Jun 11, 2018 9:11 AM
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DrHat
I'm so weirded about this conversation...did I miss a generation being born that doesn't already know this?
percivaldanvers
Ruth Bader Ginsburg looks different than I imagined.
gusk14
why does it look like he isn't talking in each screencap? does he talk with his mouth closed?
TheFassbender
https://media.giphy.com/media/bxqFeKQXlzrbi/giphy.gif
mytempusername
BulkSausage
Al Pacino has really let himself go
prufock
Pink sure has changed her look.
Millface1
Bravo. Guys need this. Women that say no and then yell at you later because they wanted it? They also need to gtfo.
vikinger6
Captain obvious saves the day with enlightening sentiment that no one’s ever heard before. Does yes mean yes?! That would blow my mind too!
AIComments
Michael Cohen in response to questions about Trump's first wife, "by the very definition, you can't rape your spouse".
SoooooOriginal
How does he say so much without moving his lips?
just4thelolz
Addendum: Turning a no into a yes doesn't necessarily mean you changed someones mind. It might just be you pressured them into it.
Keeoldman
There is a another Bollywood movie out there that he says I had to lay on top of you to keep you warm and bam 9 ms later a baby
KingKolunikus
Nine milliseconds? Damn, that's some premature delivery.
felinegratificationprovider
I felt him telepathically transmit those words into my head.
ShouldersDeepInAHorse
Man the new Ace Attorney game looks weird.
IWasToldThereWasCake
Nordenfeldt
I Czech, the word for 'yes' is 'Ano' which Czechs frequently shorten to 'no'. So In Czech, 'No' literally means 'yes'
SumnerK
Unless you have a safeword and into BDSM, then "pineapple" or "red" means no.
BeardedScarecrow
ohh ive seen that movie, kidna bad move bast off an even worse book
nihilistdad
Sure enough. Also, yes means yes, at least until the next no.
JamieSmyth
Yes doesn't always mean yes. It needs to be an enthusiastic yes
nihilistdad
Oh, yes, for sure. Just like in this scene: https://youtu.be/l4sg6dQQqOs?t=193
youreathing
Dude is one of the richest people in Bollywood.
lurkvoter
I'm glad he took such an important role - this is important for everyone, but the movie was very important in the cultural context of India.
justlivinthedream
What if the question is: "Do you mind if we have sex?"
Zetor
As an Icelander: wat
IAmTheFoxiestNoxy
What does being an Icelander have with this? Genuine question
Zetor
Because tags.
Nazacuckoo
Is it in reference to Iceland passing a law that any form of non-consensual sexual activity is considered rape by the law, maybe?
somethingawesomeandgreat
Iceland politics?
Nazacuckoo
Is it in reference to Iceland passing a law that any form of non-consensual sexual activity is considered rape by the law, maybe?
Homeskillet52
It is until males start charging women with it after casual sec
Nazacuckoo
Dunno what else it could be, but maybe I'm wrong.
legitchrispratt
Well, safe words exist for a reason
LeeEnby
If they don’t listen to “no” when raping someone, do you really think a safeword will stop them?
jamesjjw
I think he means to say you can use a safe word rather than no to engage in a rape play fantasy, some people are into that stuff
NitherNor
I think the implication is that safewords are used when you want to have fun roleplaying stuff like rape while still having a stop signal.
NitherNor
That way you can scream "NO, STOP!" as much as you want without it actually meaning that you want it to stop.
Femalversionofbulbesor
Also when men say no. It works the same way. It doesn't have to be only towards women.(only saying it because there are some think that way)
Ryang256
Problem is people think that there's something wrong with a man that says no. Doesn't matter his reason.
PiGiSpi
Even worse they see a boner or chub and assume it means yes
cogitoro
I'm a bigger proponent of "yes means yes." It's weird how affirmative consent is such a no-brainer for minor stuff--like say, if I showed up
cogitoro
next to you right now in this moment and licked your ear. You might be stunned, shocked even. But then it would be over. I would have licked
cogitoro
your ear. Sure, maybe you'd be upset, but you didn't say no, so... --now, I put it to you that sex is WAY more major than licking some's ear
cogitoro
and if you'd expect someone to ask your permission before licking your ear, maybe it's reasonable to get affirmative consent before sticking
cogitoro
things inside their orifices, just a thought. True, many of us get by just assuming affirmative consent from reading the mood, body language
cogitoro
etc. I do that myself. If you're going to do that, though, be correct. It's not hard to be correct. If you're worried that maybe you're
DrewBerg
What does the, Pink (2016), refer to?
molphen
lyrics of a 2016 song by the artist Pink, "No means no"
themerman
Pink is the name of the movie. Released in 2016. It’s on Netflix
Ravenuser
It's my new obsession.
crocostyle
I was thinking "Wow, she has a movie? How come I haven't heard any news about her?"
BobDresden
The name of the movie this is from and the year the movie was released. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pink_(2016_film)
eagleandy93
the irony of an Indian movie denouncing rapists
BobDresden
Seems like they need more movies denouncing rapists...
eagleandy93
Hi Bob!
Zeplin
This is fine. This is what we've said for decades. What confuses me is stuff like retroactively being able to remove consent.
NotYourAverageDarkness
Yes, it's been said for decades but men in our don't seem to wrap their heads around so it's needs to be said again.
Gorgrim
I think only the few try and claim that is a thing.
zxms
We need to find those few and tell them No.
laideron
Can you name some specific individuals or groups who actually advocate for that?
StoneyLoner
Consent can be removed at any point during intercourse and sometimes it isn't removed verbally due to a number of factors
AlrightKeepYourSecrets
I feel like thats not nearly as common as people fear
removekarling
Exactly, and people just ignoring "no" is still more common than anyone likes to admit, contrary to the guy you replied to
InkyBlinkyPinkyAndClyde
That's generally not what it is. It's realizing after the fact, and admitting to yourself, that you were assaulted. Coming to terms with /1
InkyBlinkyPinkyAndClyde
the fact that you never consented and they did it anyway. The people who will give enthusiastic consent and then afterwards try to claim /2
InkyBlinkyPinkyAndClyde
it's rape, are few and far between. And they are criminals. Regular people don't just do that for kicks. /3
KingKolunikus
Not for kicks, but maybe to reject personal responsibility for a bad decision that they later came to regret? That's not that far-fetched.
InkyBlinkyPinkyAndClyde
But that's the thing. You know you're risking sending them to jail. You'd have to be pretty fucked in the head to do that just because
JamieSmyth
I only realised 2 years ago I was sexually assaulted as a child. I told a friend about some boys that were "bullying" me and how I got into
JamieSmyth
trouble for swearing at them. Then my friend was horrified and explained that what they did was sexual assault.
peachesforme
i know how that is. similar happened to me. you can't say no if you don't have comprehensive sex ed to know what it even is
InkyBlinkyPinkyAndClyde
I'm so sorry! This is exactly what I meant. It can take time to even understand what happened, let alone accept it. I hope you're doing ok.
JamieSmyth
I'm still processing, but it's made me look back at other stuff I thought was "normal" and a lot of what happened to me was pretty fucked up
IsaacKnight6969
This didn’t work with Ajit Pai
pareidoliaperson
So in return we have do things to him he would so no to, would!
ShouldersDeepInAHorse
He essentially shot his own ears off then told the American public he couldn't take No for an answer cuz someone stopped him from hearing it
mytempusername
HarryDresdenIsMySpiritAnimal
Did he rape someone other than the American public, or are you referring to his rape of the American public?
braveboy510
The later, I believe
KillingTlme
*latter
cyanm
Not with that latitude
Mercenarity
*lattitude ;)
ChellFreeman
*lattter
morbidcurioffulous
no
DarkMaster98
*latttter
SkinnerTBD
you had a chance in the tags.
Zaruzen
no
SkinnerTBD
indeed.
ninjaturnip
?
SkinnerTBD
the more you no ... come on.
ninjaturnip
Oh haha, whoops
LuffyFett
Now you no
SkinnerTBD
also, bottlecaps?
ninjaturnip
Sorry, they're devices for closing or sealing a bottle.
Roland191145
"Eat what you want" would have been good too
theslowestsloth
No