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Stewker
Thank you, I posted something a little while ago that got downvoted that was similar. Nice to see this was not.
ArchPigeon
Take hold of your life and make it what you want it to be. We'll always support those changing their lives for the better. You can do this!
ThatCuriousKat
You got this! Take it one step at a time, and realize that if you fall you don't have to stay down.
SirDistic
I hope tomorrow is better than today, for you. I hope this for the rest of your life. This goes out to everyone here.
byteme8bit
I'm learning this too. :D
WallyMLG
Be that makesy ou someone happy
bringbakfirefly
This right here. I've been single for 6 years after a 15 year marriage. I've never been happier in my life.
gwaur
So, uh, what are friends for, then? Just useless sugarcoating?
Fl0zilla
Start by being honest with yourself. No one else opens your eyes on the morning.
TheDadey
This is totally what I'm going through right now as well. The wife pushing me away will only better me.
SomethingCleverWittyAndFunny
I made this change 6 months ago. It’s difficult but worth it.
doesithavetobemyrealname
You can do it. I love you too good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)
bakedpotato0420
Thank you !!!! :)
Mrmannnn
Wish I knew how
Fintro
Happiness is pure luck. Where you were born. To whom. Is your brain ok? is your body ok? Are you able to attain your dreams? Pure luck.
Baruder0
Wonder if this reliance on other people to make us happy contributes to high divorce rates, cheating, etc.
buffalopto
Rock on !!!
bakedpotato0420
Thank u, i will ????
bakedpotato0420
Lol smiley got changed in ????
stormtrooper412
everyone learns this the hard way, sadly
ballzdeep007
When I get sad.... I scream the word BUBBLES!!! As loud as I can. Bet you can’t do it without smiling.
Moutmout
God i love this. Thank you, i'll try this next time i get sad. <3
bakedpotato0420
U made me smile, thank u <3
UavinAGiggowMate
In a crowded commuter car full of tired people
bakedpotato0420
Ill try it on the bus tomorrow to work, haha
moih
Don't scream too loud, though. They might call the cops
angelsichor
I love you too
Blrp0
whoa i need my space and you're smothering me
bakedpotato0420
<3
MatrimBloodyCauthon
*bites into you* I'm sorry your username confused me
bakedpotato0420
You would turn into a sweet potato ;)
MatrimBloodyCauthon
Well played ;)
UndeniablyAnnoying
I've yet to fully realize this. I always rely on others to make me happy... to distract me from my thoughts. It never lasts long...
bakedpotato0420
Its not simpel indeed.. but you can do it. Hell if i can do it anybody can! And if u want a distraction im here;)
iupvotebadcomments
Whats the change?
bakedpotato0420
Do you really want to know?
iupvotebadcomments
sure
papacuppa1
This. Focus on your circle of control. This idea transformed me. Think I might have got it from Stephen Covey.
practicalitydifussed
I hate the bullshit doctrine that everything in this earth is about me. me me me me me me.
Keicars
Message unclear; penis stuck in robot.
aluckygrl13
You can do it!!!
bakedpotato0420
<3 thank u
aluckygrl13
Anytime!
Sqwuid
Tried to explain this to my ex-husband, couldnt let him drag me down any longer. Hardest decision of my adult life so far.
bakedpotato0420
Atleast you made a huge change, i hope beter days are comming to you !
THEClockworkBanana
"Find someone who compliments you, not completes you". Or something like that? My husband is the green to my red.
bakedpotato0420
I find your husbands wisdom very wise ;)
gumblemuntz
*complements
THEClockworkBanana
Oh shit you're right, good catch. Thank you u_u;;
driftinginspace
This is what people need, you cannot rely on anyone else to make you happy, you will always be disappointed.
TheGreatNazgul
Part of my mantra is to do something productive BEFORE I drink my first cup of coffee. Don't rely on external forces to motivate you!
Orientedx3depravity
Truly the one realization that made me able to enjoy life to the fullest.
Copperbrat
I agree. I wish more people understood this. Having high expectations of others and relying on them to fulfill your needs will not only 1/
Copperbrat
disappoint you, it will actually make you unhappy. Share your happiness with others, but let go of the expectations and waiting. 2/2
TheSwedishCryptid
That's why you get dogs
RheaButt
Relying on someone else is like heroin, it starts out being fun and great, then just becomes something you force yourself to do because-
RheaButt
-you can’t live without it
TwinkleTwinkleLittleShit
instead of always maybe put "mostly"? I mean, there are lots of stories where another person saved someones live like psychologically
moih
That advice is applicable to mostly all the sentences there are containing any absolute expression (such as "all" or "always").
PleasantPeasantPheasant
I do rely on others to make me happy. I do a lot of nice things so I can feed of their energy. I don't know how to make my own happiness
Castophy
do nice things for you.
WhitneyGroup
You will one day. It's not easy but if it makes any difference I believe in you.
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FrilledMeg
Yeaah, it sometimes takes a while of working on that being happy alone thing to figure it out. Keep kicking yourself in the arse to try
waytoofaded
Rely on drugs, never fails to make me happy.
voulge
Person said "anyone else"
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voulge
Then you should have added a but in the beginning, so it shows that you're bringing new information and not just stating an outcome
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Cthulhuonabike
Never forget that happiness is a choice
Kitbash
A better word is Optional. Choice implies that people are choosing to be sad, which isn't the case.
nukemall
Sometimes that choice involves therapy and prescription drugs though. No shame in that.
StripTheFleshSaltTheWound
Nope. I would love to be happy again. It's just not happening. Nobody wants to feel this way, I did not choose to feel bad all the time.
Cthulhuonabike
My point is that you can choose you perspective, which does play a significant role in mood. Not meaning to disenfranchised anyone
Fintro
If it was, it wouldn't be a problem.
aprique
like saying "If you wanted, you could regrow that arm." Happiness isn't a choice. I fight every day not to give in to the despair. 1/2
aprique
I take drugs and talk to therapists. I know that my 30+ years of depression are a burden to everyone around me. I would be happy if I could.
TwinkleTwinkleLittleShit
Is this depression-shaming?
Cthulhuonabike
Not at all. I deal with depression myself. I have just learned that perspective is significant
RhinestoneCowboy
For a lot of people it isn't a choice, it's not like they want to be depressed
Cthulhuonabike
I meant to say that you can choose how you perceive things. Didn't mean to demean psychological disease. My bad
321Cheers
Always upvote vandalism.
wheresthebaby
Red?
MazelJew92
Especially original Danksey's
implicit989
I'm curious how many people know that this is his work?
implicit989
Yeah, I am curious how many people know that this is his work. Thought complete... Post. I'm so fucking good at this. Oh shit it's still typ
WalterSobchaksWorldOfPain
Can I ask why? I personally hate vandalism and I am curious why you would like it.
321Cheers
I love that it's a paradox. More vandalism, more taxes, more clean walls, more vandalism, more taxes, more clean walls, more vandalism.
EmanNiemThcin
Cause I hate the Romans. #SackIt #TeamGeiserich
moih
321Cheers
So people like you vote to give more money to stop something that the city would never let happen because you keep giving money.
WalterSobchaksWorldOfPain
People who vandalize are the problem in that scenario. In the words of Liar, Liar "STOP BREAKING THE LAW, ASSHOLE!"
321Cheers
Vandalism a cultural phenomenon. Spread across the entire globe. It's become a platform for political and social commentary. Like this one.