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I don't know if I'm just so unappealing that no one is interested, but it feels like everyone just paired off one day and I just slept in or something
Jan 9, 2017 12:06 AM
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I don't know if I'm just so unappealing that no one is interested, but it feels like everyone just paired off one day and I just slept in or something
pigzunderground
I'm 30, I've never been in a relationship, probably cos I'm overweight and don't like how my body looks. Working on it.
stupidlogan
It could be worse :( you could be in a long horrible relationship
RoosterBrewster
The myth that a relationship will save you or somehow reinvigorate your life is a big part of why divorce rate is so high.
afraid2askhow2meme
Relationships can be over rated. Just spend some time figuring out what you want out of life and then find someone who wants the same.
DeepBlueNothing
Could be worse, I've been in a lot of bad relationships which also makes it hard to know how to be in a relationship.
ladyloquacious
Most people In our generation don't, it's either hook up or meet up via online or social events.
Kamica
What generally worked for me, is just talk to people in a respectful manner, and be yourself. And don't expect anything, just have nice talk
Comrade2142
I've been single for 7 years and I could not be happier
XiYen13
I know that feel. Unfortunately I have no wheelies for you to escape your feelies, for I do not know where to find them. I am sorry.
lighterletter
@OP got to meetups or events where people gather who enjoy things you do. That can help.
darthOnion
Coulda written this not too long ago - it did end up happening for me. I had to believe I was worthy, and then all of a sudden one day...
BellCranel
...I had a sudden and inexplicable heart attack while writing an imgur comment and posthumously completed said comment on my ghost account!
pphnx
...WHAT?!?
ThisIsWhatAUserNameLooksLike
I'm an unemployed, single virgin whose friends all live in different states. I feel ya.
Superdude151
Yup same boat man. Finished college and have not fucking clue about anything... lol fml
iTand
Hooray! I'm not the only one
imanmuffinman
Give you a tip: just talk to people and wait until it happens. Key word: Talk*
thecrowder
I'd start by closing imgur
CheeseB0t
Why isn't this top comment?
growingabeard
U just jack off be disgusted with ur self then go sleep
vic6011
When you find the right person, it'll all work out, if you need to talk of anything, just send me a message,
vic6011
Ps I have a fart nugget of a chihuahua I can send photos of you'd like
ThreeDimesDown
I'm married, and I still don't. At least according to this person living with me.
MoldyKumquat
I know the feeling. Even if I manage to pull a relationship outta nowhere ill be pretty lost on the whole thing.
Professionalshoes
It fucking sucks. Expect to be undermined and unappreciated.
TheOneGuyOverThere
Your not alone
SolidestCurve
You're
Kaslin
Cuz we uggos, bro.
aceebro
Perhaps. But more often than not it's a story of average dudes that don't have the confidence to put themselves out there.
Str8Grizleh
Are you even making an effort to go out and meet people? Talking to strangers is the first step.
percivaldanvers
How do you do that in a non-creepy way though?
moofunk
When you say things, have the right intentions about it. Are you saying things just to impress a girl, it probably won't work.
Nephentes
Confidence is key to everything. Just be yourself. (Is what I learned in the 12 years of my very bad social anxiety)
percivaldanvers
Thank you! That is really good advice! It's definitely something I need to practice. It can be really hard letting go of self-consciousness
Nephentes
Someone once told me that people are more busy and selfconcious about self than others. :p so don't be afraid to be judged others are too.
YeaImFunAtParties
You have to be cool, like calm, relaxed, then just say stupid things
JB646
The last girlfriend I had was when I was 9 and it lasted 2 days. I'm 2 weeks off 28 and understand what you're saying completely.
CaliforniaFlannel
I feel yah OP
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Thneitis
This though
Ellaonceuponatime
equityforpunks
Yeah.. dude is in a party yelling that. I don't even get invites to parties.
nahbruhXD
Just show up uninvited. Keep to yourself and get drunk. Don't talk to anyone. Bring your own booze. And there ya go. You're at a party :)
OverlyComplicatedExplanations
He's actually yelling "Whooo" but that's what the whooo translates to. There's this whole thing about it in this episode.
OneGuyOnTheInterwebs
Hmm, I felt that way for a while. Then I got back into shape. Turns out no one wanted to be with me because I was an unattractive, fat slob.
tr3buchet
I thought this as well, however i am far above average in that department where i live and those other guys are all paired off...
piehateu2
notwastingtimeiswear
It just means you're so good at looking like you are complete that everyone thinks you don't need someone to feel whole.
SteveNotSteve
Barf.
notwastingtimeiswear
Gag
Shadowsmite14
I'll take bullshit inspirational quotes for 400, Alex.
notwastingtimeiswear
Lol hey sometimes overused sayings are overused for a reason
PoseidonsDaughter
After a cheating fiance Ive gone from hopeless romantic to total cynic. Ive no idea how to get back out there. Not sure I even want to
tr3buchet
I'm still a hopeless romantic, but i need a target for it
PxC4
Don't let him take that aspect of life from you! Take your time but don't close your mind or heart to it.
PoseidonsDaughter
Its been 2.5 years now, I dont think time is what I need. I just think that specific part of me died. Ive tried to find it, but I cant.
PxC4
Before meeting me my gf felt the same way for almost the same amount of time as you. Her husband of 29 yrs cheated on her and the divorce
PxC4
Ended up splitting the family in half; her 2 older sons disowned her despite it was their dad that cheated. Her daughter and younger son
PxC4
took her side. She feel into depression and was only getting by each day for her children's sake. She gave up on herself. How I ended up
InappropriateReaction
probshouldntsayitbut
Yay, I'm like a red panda!
Coko4
This is quite an appropriate reaction @InappropriateReaction
SixHundredThousandBees
What kind of fucked up panda is that
ShinigamiSpillz
A red one
Unravelled
The Red Panda is more closely related to the Fox
SixHundredThousandBees
Oh. Thank you. TIL
HoneyBadgerSC05
I'm 27 and haven't had a proper relationship. I'm surprised that I've even managed to lose my virginity without paying, to be honest.
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ColoradoSky
Experience with what? He said he didn't pay
causamortis1
27 too and that's exactly how I feel. :(
thetoshjosh
You people make me lose hope... I am 21 and only starting with this shit :/
Shargan8
25, lots of sex, lots of experiences, haven't had a proper relationship or girlfriend. And that is the only thing I wanted.
TheFiscus
27 never even been on a date so I know that feel.
SonnyBurnette
it'll happen someday, just focus on work and enjoying shit, because the day will come when wish you were single again.
jd254
"It'll happen one day" is for pretty, interesting, and outgoing people. Better to tell OP to actually go out and make an attempt than wait
elganif
Im 33, still a virgin. Thing is i did meet a chick in December, went on my first ever date and now I have a GF and it wont be long now. 1/2
elganif
She came out of left field for me on a dating site with an older account and it can happen to anyone just don't lose hope
nola26
Congrats, bro. Best of luck to you. Personal question: does she know you're a virgin? Do you plan on telling her beforehand?
elganif
yes she knows she was basically the first date i ever had, she gave me my first kiss, and ect - was worried about rejection but she didn't
BebeNoot
I feel the same way except with friendships even. Literally don't even know how to make friends/ be friends with anyone anymore.
shakinbones
Honestly, just be real have fun, do fun stuff. Get out of your house. Join a club anything.
fuktheguybelowme
I luckily get to know a lot of people, I just can't keep the relationships going strong after a few months
waitingtofly
I can relate to this a lot, and I gave up trying to make friends or getting into a relationship long time ago.
Zinclair
Are you me? Sounds like me.
PhiloJokeBandit
I got you on that friendship
Colt85
yeah boi .... i know that feeling
CoffeeyCore
I'm not even old enough to drive and I already got that problem. Just roll with it and don't give a shit. It comes easier then, apparently.
bellagaga
I'm always looking for friends!
vic6011
I'm here for you too
Imonimgurmainlyforcats
Smae here friend same here
JEMbalaya
Yep. Same. And Friday I lost my job. Now I'm even less appealing
teddybear65
Pick a few people who have replied and send them messages. Tell a bit about yourself and where you live and what you do. See what happens.
YourFriendlyNeighbourhoodEcologist
Can relate, after I finished my education, lifted my head from the desk and got a real job, I looked around and realized everyone is gone.
Sheepyhead
Same. I invite people, they're busy. I also constantly find out about hangouts that just didn't include me for whatever reason
TapToRetry
You're Not Alone -- Saosin
OlDickTwist
Put down the cell phone, be there for people. And ffs stop with the unrealistic expectations that porn instill.
stratojet96
Same here buddy. But I seem to be able to manage internet friends to some degree. :T
suicidesportsclub
This so much. I feel your pain.
Bortus
Make waterballoons. Everyone loves waterbaloons.
cowpiefatty
Do what I did play league and anyone who doesn't tell you to kill your self at first becomes a life long friend
Cigz
Stop feeding bro
cowpiefatty
We both know that wouldn't matter
DataTrekker
Practice being friendly, how to have good conversations, join local groups like RPG games or men's sheds.
kah929
Uh...mens sheds?
AmnestyOkra
This is amazing http://mensshed.org/what-is-a-mens-shed/
iChangeMyNameToBeRelevant
TIL
TinySupreme
I've got like 3 or 4 friends. That's almost too many.
jdeman
find an activity you like, do activity with strangers, get to know strangers, start doing things outside of the activity with them
hellomagic
Same. I want to hang out with people but then I don't because that takes effort and I'm an anxious mess.
BebeNoot
Exactly this!!!
hellomagic
It sucks.
peanutbuttertoughmudder
Depends if you want friends. I personally hate people and dont care about have tons of friends.
melancholycat
This
BongHitsMcgee
I too am in the no friend band wagon. Only friends i got are online friends lol.
DeadByVirus20
Same here. I'm trying to figure out why though.
Brandycream
Me too. I'm a 23 yr old in London. Wtf.
IUsedToBeTheWalrus
I agree with you and OP. Welp, I'm in trouble.
AfKFiNiTe
The best friendships are the effortless ones. Ive had my best friend for 12 years, and if you saw us you'd think no way would they hang out
IFuckingHateStupidPeople
Me too, my last friends screwed me over so I never tried to be friends with anyone again
BebeNoot
This was my exact experience as well!
IFuckingHateStupidPeople
Wanna... wanna be friends? Oh god I can't I take it back!!!!!!
iChangeMyNameToBeRelevant
NO YOU ALREADY SAID IT NO TAKE BACKS!!!
SometimesImReady
Oh my god, me too!
INDIG0M0NKEY
I feel like @op except the opposite. I wouldn't have a clue how to be single or go from single to in a relationship again.
slucass
Oh making friends is good fun. All u have to do is say words at them and see if they are interested
misusing
Yeah, but what if your vocabulistics aint too good and you say stuff that dont make much sense to most people?
BebeNoot
It's the saying words part that I struggle with!! :p
slucass
Any words dude
trukkusan
It's the registering interest I struggle with.
BebeNoot
Also that.
TheMuteDoge
All of the above...