Nov 30, 2017 1:17 AM
DildoNecklaceDesk
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Copperbrat
And you think this is an unpopular opinion? Really?
Daphault1
..., and your spouse and kids are better off without your worthless ass.
Saminated25
@AbcdEVIE
PurgetheMutant
Should live first, get the kids later. Men leave their families all the time but somehow a woman doing it is a lot worse?
DavyDavyDave
Selfish? Sure. Horrible? Not necessarily.
Brocktooon
Something in my ex snapped about 5 years ago. Now personal gratification is her priority. It breaks my heart.
mjoallie
Or you could be my husband's father, and leave him, and then try to pretend you're father of the year. Good stuff....
DoctorMantisTobogganMD
Anyone seen Coco? good shit right there
Munchman347
Unless, of course, if it's just for a few hours. Everybody deserves some 'Me' time...
MySpiritAnimalIsTheUnpopularOpinionPuffin
If you abandon your family, you're a horrible person. Gender doesn't matter.
sokkerpunch
Indeed
stargazer58
And what if it's the husband. Moved his girlfriend across country to take care of her, but fuck over his wife and four kids.
AncientRobot
Reminds me of this man that worked for my dad. One day he disappeared, didn't show up for work, wife filed a police report, etc (1)
Two months later he sends a message, not to his wife or two kids he abandoned, but to my dad saying sorry he left work with no notice. (2)
He decided to move to Las Vegas, family life and a job wasn't "working" for him. Some people just suck. Sorry you have to deal with that (3)
ConvenientTruth
It seems like you’re just exploiting someone’s misfortune for points by making a very agreeable statement
UncomfortableAnswers
Speaking as someone whose parents had (and have) an extremely unhappy marriage, "stay together for the kids" is toxic and unhelpful advice.
somenerandom
The meme is about a mother of 3 who just up and moved to another country without a word. Getting a divorce is one thing, ditching your>
3 kids and moving is a completely different matter.
ApsychicRat
indeed, while some people arnt good parents you dont just do that without explaining yourself
mallerzkay
I interpreted it as someone actually abandoning their family not getting a divorce.
yoginioftruth
Someone HALP! I don't go to the fp!! Send link
crinklecutcheesywhatsit
Dot. I'm lazy
[deleted]
Thanks!
divatriformis
This isn't an unpopular opinion my friend
idenoh
I agree with DildoNecklaceDesk.
Skulties1
Dildonecklacedesk is right!
mdkradSmuggler
Bet you never thought you would type that sentence.+1
pieter42
I bet you never ever imagined you would type that sentence
Kabe59
There is always wisdom in DildoNecklaceDesk's words
IIIHalezIII
v
IWishAussieAnimalsWereMoreCuddly
Selfish? Yes. Should they stay instead? No. In the short term, leaving is gonna break a lot of hearts but trust me, staying and letting 1/2
The resentment for each other build up is even more unhealthy. They're better off without them 2/2
MiracleWhoop
I swear to god i was just going to do this . +1
me too.. cuz if you leave your kids, with the husband you just left.. you're horrible.. v
underratedcommentz
8/10
WizardofAwws
Can I get some sauce on this
Thank you
IvorJBiggun
Shouldn't you be replying to their post rather than being passive-aggressive?
buddhabowl
Same goes with men leaving their wives and kids...
TheBlackJacobin
James Cameron left his wife and first born to make movies. No one seems to be on his ass.
marsgoose
That's kind of a common theme with people who are professionally very successful, they suck at personal relationships.
You also have to put your work as the #1 priority to achieve that so that's probably the reason.
I mean look at ol'Musky, doing all that awesome shit, I'd never trade my life with him, his personal life is a screwup.
LikeTotallyNotTheNSA
Not yet...
eagle193
must have missed it. anyone got a link?
IMarriedAGinger
Dot
SociallyAwkwardCanadianMoose
.
ScottT45
BlakeTortilla
dot
5ENDKNEWD5
GeorgeHWBushsGhost
Thank you. I could NOT find it
FrozenFoodGuy
They removed the post :( *sad random browser*
chromaticlotus
I feel ya...
DBSOempathy
My mom never came to court to fight over custody. I lived with my dad and saw here on summers if I wanted to. She died a few years back
I didn’t feel bad but my siblings made a complete about face and cried over how much she meant to them.
flamingflamingo
My dad left us with my mom, just gave her full custody, and focused on his job (navy). I don't think that's much different, or that anyone >
would think he's a horrible person.
HighlandPotatoe
But we gotta respect all dem vets
JonathanFrey
Sometimes they're better off without her.
aeonicentity
Two things can be true at once.
nclu
Amen. Also, consistent with @OP’s message. Kids are better off without shitty people.
SofaKingSpecial
Because she's a selfish and horrible person?
101Medic
In this scenario, 100% of the time they're better off without her imo. Narcissism and parenting don't mix.
myexpectationsaresuperlow
Yeah I wish my mom would just leave instead of thinking her children are automatically obligated to also do whatever the fuck she wants.
Meiling00
THIS! My mom said "the kids or the truck" in the divorce. Selfish, shitty human. Things would've been better if she'd have just stayed away!
Frisbeesloth
As opposed to staying and making husband and kids miserable with her?
Kay2015
At least trying counselling or something...
CRAAAAATE
ThatOneFriendWhoTriesTooHard
There is a thing called middle ground. Elusive, but worth the hunt.
As someone who was married with 3 kids, sometimes there is no middle ground to stand on.
Not always. Can you imagine how much you would have to hate your life to walk away like that? That's 17 years of resentment.
JavaReallySucks
Goblor
Seriously yw
teardropivyyearofthetiger
Nope. Not everyone thinks that...especially the people who break up households
gingen
My mother didn't
TommyWiseauAllAmericanGuy
OP: Let me post an obvious statement capitalizing on someone else’s post/misfortune hur dur
liftedtech
How dare they express an opinion people may or may not agree with
Loser37
This meme is supposed to be used for opinions rarely held. This is a misuse of the puffin b/c everyone already agrees with the opinion
I dont think it was “capitalizing on someone else’s misfortune” tho
TheColourPeach
You're still missing the point
Liveforthis
https://imgur.com/P119hPd
Traja01
Can we just make a popular opinion puffin or some shit and be done with it
TsukariYoshi
I've seen it done by flipping the picture. Dunno that it's taken off though.
electrovir
Well apparently not because people still do this.
TheOnionNinja
*The majority of people fucking think that
Wtfjon
It's supposed to be unpopular opinion puffin. Everyone already thinks what that bundle of sticks posted so he used the wrong meme
providedlava
My mom left us and tried to take everything because a doctor told my father he would never work again. Claimed God told her to. :) Fun shit
d3jake
Amazing how any depraved idea in your head is suddenly okay when "God" says it's okay.
PaddyPudding
Haha moms, am I right?
I’m not wrong
shunofagun
I feel like this is the movie frailty
jumbosmooth
:(
brasky456
toastyrotzy
fuuuuuuck
MelvinLedbedder7
Whats her name? Lets make her famous
RaptaGzus
Doh! What a character!
toasteheh
Wow what a piece of shit.
Virunuss
ok so i know thats shitty but i kinda understand her not wanting to work herself to death to provide for everyone alone.
GunLovingTreeHugger
As a mother you NEVER abandon your children. At least not when they are under 18. But even then it's horrible, hurts everyone.
My father was a stay at home parent my whole life. Nothing in their relationship changed with this news.
davis3d
Work to death? An average 40 hr job can easily support a family. Not to mention government support.
JCBaggins
Hate when people use religion to pull shit like that. “God told me too!” Yeah, and I’m sure God also said start dating the rich guy, too!
DaedaIus
God telling me to reclaim the holy land is still valid though, right?
Deus Vult?
DEUS VULT
LockedForGood
Some of them also claim to speak tongues; that shit crazy
PrincessOctopus
The only time I was okay with this and it's more of a looking back thing, friend broke up with her bf of the time saying she was worried 1
Satan would make him make her sin. At the time I dismissed it as odd then I dated him and realized he was kind of rapey in private.
I also recently found out the real reason was because he was pushy and cheated on her. (Not with me)
Copperbrat
And you think this is an unpopular opinion? Really?
Daphault1
..., and your spouse and kids are better off without your worthless ass.
Saminated25
@AbcdEVIE
PurgetheMutant
Should live first, get the kids later. Men leave their families all the time but somehow a woman doing it is a lot worse?
DavyDavyDave
Selfish? Sure. Horrible? Not necessarily.
Brocktooon
Something in my ex snapped about 5 years ago. Now personal gratification is her priority. It breaks my heart.
Saminated25
@AbcdEVIE
mjoallie
Or you could be my husband's father, and leave him, and then try to pretend you're father of the year. Good stuff....
DoctorMantisTobogganMD
Anyone seen Coco? good shit right there
Munchman347
Unless, of course, if it's just for a few hours. Everybody deserves some 'Me' time...
MySpiritAnimalIsTheUnpopularOpinionPuffin
If you abandon your family, you're a horrible person. Gender doesn't matter.
sokkerpunch
Indeed
stargazer58
And what if it's the husband. Moved his girlfriend across country to take care of her, but fuck over his wife and four kids.
AncientRobot
Reminds me of this man that worked for my dad. One day he disappeared, didn't show up for work, wife filed a police report, etc (1)
AncientRobot
Two months later he sends a message, not to his wife or two kids he abandoned, but to my dad saying sorry he left work with no notice. (2)
AncientRobot
He decided to move to Las Vegas, family life and a job wasn't "working" for him. Some people just suck. Sorry you have to deal with that (3)
ConvenientTruth
It seems like you’re just exploiting someone’s misfortune for points by making a very agreeable statement
UncomfortableAnswers
Speaking as someone whose parents had (and have) an extremely unhappy marriage, "stay together for the kids" is toxic and unhelpful advice.
somenerandom
The meme is about a mother of 3 who just up and moved to another country without a word. Getting a divorce is one thing, ditching your>
somenerandom
3 kids and moving is a completely different matter.
ApsychicRat
indeed, while some people arnt good parents you dont just do that without explaining yourself
mallerzkay
I interpreted it as someone actually abandoning their family not getting a divorce.
yoginioftruth
Someone HALP! I don't go to the fp!! Send link
crinklecutcheesywhatsit
Dot. I'm lazy
[deleted]
[deleted]
crinklecutcheesywhatsit
Thanks!
divatriformis
This isn't an unpopular opinion my friend
idenoh
I agree with DildoNecklaceDesk.
Skulties1
Dildonecklacedesk is right!
mdkradSmuggler
Bet you never thought you would type that sentence.+1
pieter42
I bet you never ever imagined you would type that sentence
Kabe59
There is always wisdom in DildoNecklaceDesk's words
IIIHalezIII
IWishAussieAnimalsWereMoreCuddly
Selfish? Yes. Should they stay instead? No. In the short term, leaving is gonna break a lot of hearts but trust me, staying and letting 1/2
IWishAussieAnimalsWereMoreCuddly
The resentment for each other build up is even more unhealthy. They're better off without them 2/2
MiracleWhoop
I swear to god i was just going to do this . +1
IIIHalezIII
me too.. cuz if you leave your kids, with the husband you just left.. you're horrible..
v
underratedcommentz
8/10
WizardofAwws
Can I get some sauce on this
[deleted]
[deleted]
WizardofAwws
Thank you
IvorJBiggun
Shouldn't you be replying to their post rather than being passive-aggressive?
buddhabowl
Same goes with men leaving their wives and kids...
TheBlackJacobin
James Cameron left his wife and first born to make movies. No one seems to be on his ass.
marsgoose
That's kind of a common theme with people who are professionally very successful, they suck at personal relationships.
marsgoose
You also have to put your work as the #1 priority to achieve that so that's probably the reason.
marsgoose
I mean look at ol'Musky, doing all that awesome shit, I'd never trade my life with him, his personal life is a screwup.
LikeTotallyNotTheNSA
Not yet...
eagle193
must have missed it. anyone got a link?
IMarriedAGinger
Dot
SociallyAwkwardCanadianMoose
.
ScottT45
.
BlakeTortilla
dot
5ENDKNEWD5
.
GeorgeHWBushsGhost
.
[deleted]
[deleted]
somenerandom
Thank you. I could NOT find it
FrozenFoodGuy
They removed the post :( *sad random browser*
chromaticlotus
I feel ya...
DBSOempathy
My mom never came to court to fight over custody. I lived with my dad and saw here on summers if I wanted to. She died a few years back
DBSOempathy
I didn’t feel bad but my siblings made a complete about face and cried over how much she meant to them.
flamingflamingo
My dad left us with my mom, just gave her full custody, and focused on his job (navy). I don't think that's much different, or that anyone >
flamingflamingo
would think he's a horrible person.
HighlandPotatoe
But we gotta respect all dem vets
JonathanFrey
Sometimes they're better off without her.
aeonicentity
Two things can be true at once.
nclu
Amen. Also, consistent with @OP’s message. Kids are better off without shitty people.
SofaKingSpecial
Because she's a selfish and horrible person?
101Medic
In this scenario, 100% of the time they're better off without her imo. Narcissism and parenting don't mix.
myexpectationsaresuperlow
Yeah I wish my mom would just leave instead of thinking her children are automatically obligated to also do whatever the fuck she wants.
Meiling00
THIS! My mom said "the kids or the truck" in the divorce. Selfish, shitty human. Things would've been better if she'd have just stayed away!
Frisbeesloth
As opposed to staying and making husband and kids miserable with her?
Kay2015
At least trying counselling or something...
CRAAAAATE
Thank you
ThatOneFriendWhoTriesTooHard
There is a thing called middle ground. Elusive, but worth the hunt.
Frisbeesloth
As someone who was married with 3 kids, sometimes there is no middle ground to stand on.
Frisbeesloth
Not always. Can you imagine how much you would have to hate your life to walk away like that? That's 17 years of resentment.
JavaReallySucks
Goblor
Seriously yw
teardropivyyearofthetiger
Nope. Not everyone thinks that...especially the people who break up households
gingen
My mother didn't
TommyWiseauAllAmericanGuy
OP: Let me post an obvious statement capitalizing on someone else’s post/misfortune hur dur
liftedtech
How dare they express an opinion people may or may not agree with
Loser37
This meme is supposed to be used for opinions rarely held. This is a misuse of the puffin b/c everyone already agrees with the opinion
liftedtech
I dont think it was “capitalizing on someone else’s misfortune” tho
TheColourPeach
You're still missing the point
Liveforthis
https://imgur.com/P119hPd
Loser37
Traja01
Can we just make a popular opinion puffin or some shit and be done with it
TsukariYoshi
I've seen it done by flipping the picture. Dunno that it's taken off though.
Liveforthis
https://imgur.com/P119hPd
electrovir
Well apparently not because people still do this.
TheOnionNinja
*The majority of people fucking think that
Wtfjon
It's supposed to be unpopular opinion puffin. Everyone already thinks what that bundle of sticks posted so he used the wrong meme
providedlava
My mom left us and tried to take everything because a doctor told my father he would never work again. Claimed God told her to. :) Fun shit
d3jake
Amazing how any depraved idea in your head is suddenly okay when "God" says it's okay.
PaddyPudding
Haha moms, am I right?
PaddyPudding
I’m not wrong
shunofagun
I feel like this is the movie frailty
jumbosmooth
:(
brasky456
toastyrotzy
fuuuuuuck
MelvinLedbedder7
Whats her name? Lets make her famous
RaptaGzus
Doh! What a character!
toasteheh
Wow what a piece of shit.
Virunuss
ok so i know thats shitty but i kinda understand her not wanting to work herself to death to provide for everyone alone.
GunLovingTreeHugger
As a mother you NEVER abandon your children. At least not when they are under 18. But even then it's horrible, hurts everyone.
providedlava
My father was a stay at home parent my whole life. Nothing in their relationship changed with this news.
davis3d
Work to death? An average 40 hr job can easily support a family. Not to mention government support.
JCBaggins
Hate when people use religion to pull shit like that. “God told me too!” Yeah, and I’m sure God also said start dating the rich guy, too!
DaedaIus
God telling me to reclaim the holy land is still valid though, right?
JCBaggins
Deus Vult?
DaedaIus
DEUS VULT
LockedForGood
Some of them also claim to speak tongues; that shit crazy
PrincessOctopus
The only time I was okay with this and it's more of a looking back thing, friend broke up with her bf of the time saying she was worried 1
PrincessOctopus
Satan would make him make her sin. At the time I dismissed it as odd then I dated him and realized he was kind of rapey in private.
PrincessOctopus
I also recently found out the real reason was because he was pushy and cheated on her. (Not with me)