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Seriously 30 no friends fat miserable anf broke living in my nans flat... how do i fix me?
Mar 4, 2018 5:04 AM
wheredafucarewe
150871
2738
129
Seriously 30 no friends fat miserable anf broke living in my nans flat... how do i fix me?
bj52398
I'm 48, no friends, wife died, I'm more miserable. Marry a friend, get a dog. Know happiness ends, but be better at it than I was.
squirreltactics
I turn 30 this year too. Right there with you.
Fritosbandit
Start small. Cut out junk food, incr. fruits/water. Take Nan for a walk everyday. Go out with Nan to her friends coz older ppl are awesome.
Fritosbandit
2- Go volunteer for causes that are struggling, coz they'll welcome your help. That's how you'll make friends. & it won't cost anything
disguisenburg
BattleMercy
S13gtastic
32....It some times gets better. Hang in there.
SauceWizard
I think only professional psychological help will be effective.
SauceWizard
I know how difficult this kind of situation can be and how pointless it is to ask advice from ignoramuses. So, go see your doctor.
WizardyDinosaur
No advice will help. Until you learn how to motivate yourself. Until then you will stay the same. Were all the same in that way really
intashu
Step 1: identify what you enjoy doing. Step 2: get off your ass and find a way to make money doing it. Step 3:let nothing stop you.
MouseRatRatMouseMouseRat
Lose the weight. I promise everything is connected. Life will get better but you have to change your behaviors. You only have one life. One.
MisterGus
Classic 30's
LemmusSibiricus
Trade school? Full time job? Lyft or Uber? You DO have options, OP.
callmethelizardqueen
He didn't say no job, though.
Goku
Yea, if you're in Australia, do security course. Will take a month to finish then you'll be paid 25/hr and you can work 12 works night shift
Thethingwiththechart
I think you're underappreciating those two guys. If they hang out with such a loser they must be great dudes.
SnitchMcAudi
ReadOnlyMemories
savage!
TheMayorOfTittyCity
Or it could be that they are also losers
charkleman
Lol gotem
imdealinglawaroundhere
Never too late OP. I went back to school at 30, wrapped up law school, and found a decent job. Find what you like and DO it.
Mangoesneedsalt
I am 40, it doesn't change. Just enjoy life.
andy1max
Begin taking a night class.
quesoazul
Honestly, everyone really only needs 2-3 friends. Any more than that are just aquaintences. Now you just need to work on the money part.
eddieeeeeee69
Possibly therapy?
DeepFriedAndSanctified
Well, I have two pieces of advice. Depending on your circumstances, 1, do the gym thing, serotonin is life, 2, do the bar thing, meet people
ThaEnder
What if you don't drink?
DeepFriedAndSanctified
Then I'd go with the gym.
absentee
Nothing changes until you spend more time away from the computer. That's my old man advice to everyone. If you already do that, then I dunno
Deffentlynotagnome
Start accomplishing small things. Set small goals and get em. Eventually you'll want more of that feeling. Gradually make bigger ones.
Rebester0db
I met my fiancé at 35. We’re now engaged, halfway to our house deposit and happier than ever. Don’t give up hope, it’s never too late
HanShotFirst39
Drink.
squirrelkng
That whiskey is to good, he can’t afford it.
classicgrinder
You're normal. Seems like after 30 friends are hard to make.
BreadyStinellis
Very. And can be hard to keep. People move across country, they have kids, etc. I feel like I have to wait until my friends kids are teens
BreadyStinellis
Before I actually get to hang out with them again. Now I'm just helping them watch their kids, which I'm frankly not interested in.
Perfzilla
Lemme know when you find out
icallitmrcoffee
Get off your ass, get off your phone/computer and fix it. Clearly you recognize the problem. Do it.
Headstereo
I kinda made a good amount of money from being on my phone and computer lol. Its just being productive though.
humantoe
Imgur is the new dumping ground for depression, think any of these people will get better if this is their main course of action..?
Gaiashining
Lol. Advice with no actual advice in it.
CrocodileDunphy
I guess it comes down to a simple choice, really. Get busy living or get busy dying. -Andy
DrSharkbite
teknician
I'd say that OP recognizes that there is a problem, not necessarily the root of the problem. Still, it's good to get busy with the world.
coupNchise
Ole captain obvious...tough love is how alot of us learned
badmusicpuns
nowinsituation
Tell the friends to fuck off...then get credit cards and run them to the limit....you will realize how good u had it before.
ittybittyfunk
AnAssholeCrow
The key to not hitting rock bottom is to remember you could always fall a little lower ^^
Treybetrey
MusicIsJustWigglyAir
This is basically the plot for a squash and a squeeze
tzxAzrael
i mean, you'd definitely be looking back at now like "where did the good times go"... but i also feel like this isn't quite what they needed
innes15
"It could be worse" is not really good advice for someone trying to improve themselves
NaughtButOne
Neither is self wallowing.
jimbodoomface
What? Thats like my life motto. Is this why I sleep on a mattress on the floor in a room with a broken radiator?
ProbablyNotChrisFromWork
I was in the same boat last year. Then I lost a hundred pounds, and my attitude about life got better
bringbakfirefly
I can't lose any weight so maybe I should gain 100 lbs.
CoryBernardi
He already said he was broke! He probably needs 100 pound more...
tankman303
Iamknotasmartman
Wait.... there is a boat specifically for fat people
Gunthervonhinten
It was called Titanic so fat people could relate.
WeezyWee
Oil tanker
wooliebooger
Extra pontoons.
WoodfolkFae
No it sank.
1potsie
58 years old here major debt depression pills both me and the wife ....life's good if you make it good!...living in rental
therealVexed
DUDE that sucks wtf.
1potsie
I could be Dead that would be worse....I don't take to much to heart anymore it always works out, and if not its a adventure!
therealVexed
I hope I can have as good an outlook when shit gets tough
1potsie
You will ...I lost someone really close and was curled up in the corner of my Basement for awhile, Then I just thought I cant let 1thing 1/2
1potsie
2/2 define my life..and jumped up and totally changed my life and don't let anyone tell me what to do, also started small business.
LacklusterUsername
Sounds dumb, but when you wake up make your bed and clean your room. Then make a goal and do it. It saved my life
BananaRammaOfMontana
So damn true
LacklusterUsername
MaKe it a habit to make your bed and clean your room every morning. It makes you more productive and motivated
BattleMercy
What saved my life was fear that if i failed, id be a vegetable for the rest of my days
RailgunZx
"Start the day with a job well done"
youStoleMyCleverUsername
DBSOempathy
School for the last year, I guess I don’t qualify for unemployment. Last 3 months have been applying. I’m about three weeks from homeless.
deliciousRatedD
Always upvote Sunny!!!
Deanscream
I'm in this boat. Physically injured, not bad enough for disability, just enough to where a physical job is a poor idea.
Oleur
Know how you feel. I am just damaged and wonky enough for the lasting pain. But functional enough to not get disability. Shut happens
Oleur
Replace shut with shit...
callmethelizardqueen
Go to school, if over 24 and no job you can get pell grants. Community college is fairly cheap, will leave $$ after grant & learn a
callmethelizardqueen
Technical skill that gets you a desk job.
Deanscream
I graduated from a state college with an AS in 2016.
callmethelizardqueen
And you can’t find a non physical job?