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Oct 22, 2015 8:13 PM
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IncognitoPanda
Humans are weird
muddywaterloo
No thank you.
imadoki13579
Yay fellow kinksters! :D
CranIguess
Nana to Kaoru anyone?
cocoakoumori
o///o first manga of that kind I ever read, enjoyed it more than I expected to.
bringmeeAllurKrabCakes
be honest, how many of these came from christian parenting websites OP?
ColonelCockatiel
Ha!
EmmaleeElizabeth
I'm glad they included aftercare! It's so important and I don't think enough people do it.
nighshade586
It's critical.
iwriteinappropriatecomments
Always upvote people having safe consensual fun
TGWeaver
I'm only downvoting because it's so frequently reposted and not sourced.
iwriteinappropriatecomments
My exgf loved to be spanked, but for some reason if she was standing, she could not stand it. She said it hurt a lot more.
FaceOfBeaux
Makes sense. You are using those muscles to stand so they are naturally contracted more.
WhyDidntYouDodge
http://i.giftrunk.com/awm23z.gif
OhGodOhNoOhShit
gentle rubbing in between/after is a good idea too. Soothing/sensual, prevents overstim, makes the next impact a shock again :D
TheScruffyJanitor
As someone who isn't into this, ok.
Mdp2525
Ok. Now do one for hair pulling...
thatchrisprattissohot
Mmmm I love having my hair pulled.
holychristen
Me toooo
PeachyFuckingKeen
This is why I have my hair extra long, I love it!
ShadowBaby2011
My dom gets me ice cream and we watch netflix. :-3 Aftercare is as important as the spanking! ;)
BondageBurrito
I'm jealous
nighshade586
Awwww...we do the same thing.
ShadowBaby2011
<3
tomatokiwi
So netflix and chill.
ShadowBaby2011
Basically ;)
tomatokiwi
As in the watch netflix and eat ice cream and not have sex kind.
thatchrisprattissohot
Very chilled.
SpreadYourToes
Humans are so strange
Anthraxious
You think this is strange? Woah Do NOT adventure on the intranets!
poochyena
I like when people find this stuff strange. I want to introduce them to other fetishes so badly just to see their reaction.
SassyClitorous
Alright Mr. Gray calm down lol
secretagentchewbacca
Beautiful name lol
SassyClitorous
Thanks my mother gave it go me!
Clinteriffic
Avoid spanking genitals - noted
pullingsaiyantails
I was spanked WAY too much as a child to find it sexy now.
frickinheckdude
same :/
wulfric
I was spanked way too much as a child, and I actually still.... Hmmm.
anthiena
Upvote for good aftercarer.
thesameasyours2
excuse me ur not supposed to be enjoying this, then maybe you should spank me harder https://media.giphy.com/media/mIKfxDocH8dqg/giphy.gif
Hawkmoth
Props for a gender neutral presentation.
CheeseKaiser
Make sure it ends in tears is terrible advise. This seems like intro advise, throwing that statement in for newbies is irresponsible.
MadScientistInTraining
I dunno...it makes sense to me.
Proflakes
nobody has said it, so I guess I will have to be that guy.......*advice. Advise is a verb.
Crowlands
Every time I see this, I agree with everything except that one part.
realian
Like, I like getting spanked, but I don't wanna fucking cry. Opt out.
nevermoregirl
Yeah spanking is supposed to make you happy not end in a sobbing face. No thanks. For me at least.
Therearetoomanyusernames
Agreed 100%. Tears means too far.
writerbecc
Tears aren't bad if you know what you're doing, but I'd avoid it if either person is new and uncertain.
undertheaurora
Better answer: "Make sure it ends when they're begging but before they use the safety word you both agreed upon beforehand."
Therearetoomanyusernames
Exactly!
OhGodOhNoOhShit
A+
Cheomesh
I figured they meant "Stop if they're crying"
ColonelCockatiel
I don't understand this fetish. The aftercare makes it seem even more manipulative and twisted to me. Am I missing something?
thatchrisprattissohot
It's only manipulative if either person didn't want to do it beforehand (or during). If both people enthusiastically consent, it can be fun.
ColonelCockatiel
I get the consent issue. Its the getting affection from someone that hits you I find disconcerting. Just not for me I guess.
pizzarollfire
It's reassuring. Basically you have this intense scene where you have no power and probably physically hurt a lot. So the aftercare is 1/
pizzarollfire
Them letting you know that they're happy with you and that, as real as it felt, it was just a scene and your relationship is more important.
ChickenFingerFingers
I never understood sexual fantasies that involve hurting your partner.
spadinaaa
As a masochistic, it makes the pleasure 10x more intense.
sugoiangie
Same. Ive just always thought that you aren't supposed to hurt the ones you love. :/
poochyena
If your partner enjoys pain, then its not really hurting them. Pain feels great.
IratetheD
its about sensation not pain. it affects how your body reacts. endorphins are released when you receive a spank. its sexual for some people
lacydawnn
I think someone needs to figure out how to arch their back...
chriscantsurf
I feel like my dad wrote this after report card day.
sonofAndrew
Well that was dark.
chris12138
hahaha
kah929
Lucky..my dad never cuddled and comforted me, used soothing lotion, or took me out for a nice drink after spankings...
keph
...including the bit about lotions and nice drinks?
KaLikeAWind15
Not sure whether to beat children or have kinky sex...
chris12138
lol
geiokami
Please not both
michaelb22
Just do both at the same time.
variiation
Why not both?
paolodrumz
Kinky sex with children OMG YOU SICKO
GhostMerchant
Loudly snorted and laughed +1
ImShocked
Same thing.
MRWIRealiseYouCanChangeUsernames
Por que no Los dos?
showmeyourkitties272
Instructions unclear: had sex with child...next stop prison
TheAnswerWasAlwaysMoreLube
Easy mistake to make?
spankitformedaddy
Sex with girls who have daddy issues. Duh.
KaLikeAWind15
Your user name is relevant. I like that.
MimzytheBun
http://imgur.com/qVWu1c2
feetplantedfirm
*raises hand*
fencerman
...why hello there.
feetplantedfirm
How you doin
littlesquishablecake
*raises hand too* :D
Jacksdismay
So, want to try way to hard for approval you'll never get?
feetplantedfirm
Already have that, but thanks for the additional opportunity!
penguinradical
Bottom right corner of the first image answers your question: consenting adults only
KaLikeAWind15
There's no room for your logic here.
writerbecc
I realize this may get me more than I asked for but goddammit I haven't been spanked in way too long. Near Seattle, anyone around?
CanYouFeckinNot
If you were in Toronto, I would be so down for this and then some serious cuddling.
writerbecc
...damnit. I have friends in Toronto but it's a bit far for a play session :P
nighshade586
If you come to SF Bay Area, I could put you over my knee.
writerbecc
I once commuted from NJ to MD every month for play sessions. Sliiiiiightly longer to go to SF.
thatchrisprattissohot
I'll be there in a month...to visit my boyfriend. Who may very well spank me while I'm there.
writerbecc
I envy you.
thatchrisprattissohot
We have had a threesome before, but it was with a close friend of ours. Hope you find someone to help you out!
ChewSoap
I'll never understand how either party finds this attractive/sexy
poochyena
sadists like the control and masochists enjoy the pain. Some get turned on by kissing, others get turned on by biting.
FishyBitches
the submissive is always in control,the spanker does only what is discussed previously.
FishyBitches
it is the illusion of the lose of control and being totally in the moment that we so rarely get in "real life"
ChewSoap
And how is that attractive in any way?
FishyBitches
you have to want it to understand if you dont, that's cool
ChewSoap
Thanks?
riotareaproductions
If it doesn't work for you then it doesn't do it for you. That's OK. Just accept that it works for some people.
ChewSoap
Thanks for explaining it to me
riotareaproductions
No problems.
screwthenextlesson
As a spanker...yes, never leave alone to sob. Comfort and cuddles are key. Kisses work wonders...
NiceLegsDaisyDukesMakesAMAAANOUTOFYOOOUUUU
Aftercare is key.
sugoiangie
Im not gonna lie, to me "after care" seems like an abuser grooming their abusee into believing that they want that treatment again. :/
WitchoftheWilds
The thing is, it isn't abuse. Both parties consent. And in a situation like this the sub should ALWAYS have an option to say no and end it.
EricMatthews
Yeah that's why this post is so good, it doesn't forget aftercare. So many don't realize how crucial it is
MyFavoriteThingtoDoisFlakeOnPlans
I don't understand this fetish, please explain?
feetplantedfirm
In general terms: it's a trust builder
EricMatthews
In BDSM, if someone is being punished, to keep the closeness and trust, it's important for the punishee to know that they're cared for
MadScientistInTraining
Aftercare is the reason of why ill never understand this fetish.
Cheomesh
?
MadScientistInTraining
isnt the whole thing about torturing your partner and making her bleed,but with her consent?
Cheomesh
No, it's about spanking them with their consent. Aftercare is not terribly different from cuddling after sex.
MadScientistInTraining
With what it is about it is different...
Butterball20
When I started reading this I thought it was a tutorial on how to safely discipline your kids. Then I got to the second image and it hit me.
CatWithHands
Maybe OP will cuddle you properly, after....
tesserax
Wow i just realized
kfrex
Every time I see this I think the same thing. You'd think Id learn the 5th time around
kermie92
Did it hit you or did it spank you?
BuckingFutts
AYYYYYY
TechnicolorSlippers
As a child who was spanked growing up...I feel really awkward now. I was sent to my room to cry, I wasn't given aftercare thank god.
Raminator
As a dad, I had the same reaction ;-;
CWMoudi
You sure it didn't spank you?
Likeamonkeysracehorse
It took me until the third image...
ChildrenOfEarth
I thought it was a sexual thing at first....still not really sure...?
SentientChickenNugger
It is, very much so, there's a missing image with a paddle with heart-shaped holes
anddeathithinkisnoparenthesis
I found myself nodding along, agreeing with everything. Damn, it's a good thing I don't ever want to be a parent. I'm horrible.
Threewisemen
Settle down Aidrien.
Saaavaaannaaah
Wait, I just used this to discipline my kids a few minutes ago...
TheJerrySmith
#badparenting. #startingdebate
amras0000
That's not a controversial opinion. It's pretty accepted that making your kids fear you isn't the best way to handle upbringing.
Deathfrombelow
Pretty sure you just gave your kids a new fetish. Maybe it's reversible if you don't comfort them or get them a drink. Seems risky tho.
CthulhuSaidGoFuckYourself
Thats my fetish dot-gif pls
MadScientistInTraining
I think i vomited a little
Rodvitner
Why?
MadScientistInTraining
Why did you NOT vomit?
Rodvitner
Why should i? Its just some spanking. What about it makes you vomit?
MadScientistInTraining
Because it's not a child who's being spanked...and its not for actual punishment
AlexandraRoseofSharon
The belt is my favorite. Psychologically I feel like I am being "punished" more with the belt than with other tools.
CatWithHands
Love the sound of a folded belt when it connects properly. From the belt, AND the other person.
EricMatthews
Your about me is absolutely wonderful
OhGodOhNoOhShit
I like stingy ones like a thin cane (or good o'l hand). The 'punished' feeling is all about words/tone of voice/body language for me.
AlexandraRoseofSharon
Yeah, I absolutely need the discipline part.
OhGodOhNoOhShit
otherwise it's just hitting. Dull
tzahald
was raised by the wooden spoon and wouldnt be able to have one in bed because of it
r333
So...you doing anything this weekend >:9
AlexandraRoseofSharon
My Dom and I are going to look at some houses.
EmmaleeElizabeth
The belt can be fun. Especially if you then use it in other aspects.
Cheomesh
Choke
EmmaleeElizabeth
Exactly.
Cheomesh
Yum
bannedfornsfw
Holding up your pants
iwriteinappropriatecomments
Are you single?
AlexandraRoseofSharon
No. I'm engaged. My Dom and I have been together for about five years now. I'm excited to get married, I can't wait to be her wife.
seaXmonster
Congrats on finally being able to!
NotSoSmartAlek
Congratulations. :/
nighshade586
Old school. It's great when folded in half, and the over the knee position is used.
ITalkAboutGoats
I like a water spritzer every once in a while. They jump so much from something that doesn't even hurt!
MrJackBell
Soo what you do this then have sex? or you do this then cuddle and have tea?
nighshade586
Why not both?
AlexandraRoseofSharon
The sound of a belt unbuckling and a stern voice saying "Come here" is amazing. OTK or tied down, both are great.
TheSara
First time I ever got spanked with a belt, watching him slide it out of his belt loops was singlehandedly the hottest thing I've ever seen.
AlexandraRoseofSharon
The sounds of the belt unbuckling, the slide through the loops and the clinging of the metal as it's folded together is all very arousing.
Crowlands
I'm not into spanking, but man. The sound of tape coming off a roll? I get... distracted, by that sound.
pizzahand
I wish your father would beat that out of you but then I might just be putting you two in a weird position.
AlexandraRoseofSharon
My parents never hit me, I might have had it coming, but they never spanked me. Lots of being grounded though.
pizzahand
I saw my brothers get the belt so I said fuck that shit and behaved