It's not the kinda love you want, sweetheart

Aug 9, 2016 5:03 AM

TheEffingLizardKing

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So tired of seeing love quotes with Harley and Joker on it on fb.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

It's a totally onesided relationship

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

How about your love be unique to you instead of "omg #relationshipgoals *ten emojis*"

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 4

It's no where near Stockholm's. She fell in love while he was her captive if anything. It's more like erotomania.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

Romeo and Juliet is a cautionary tale of how not to be. Dumb teenagers always seem to miss that point.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

For the joker its not a bad relationship to be in

9 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 2

That's what I was thinking, it never says that they want to be the Harley part of the relationship.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

... Harley doesn't have Stockholm syndrome. That requires her being captured in some manner; she's there of her own free will.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

At least she didn't originally. No idea how DC has hosed her character lately.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

So, did anyone actually say they wanted a relationship like the Joker and Harley's, or are you just standing up straw men to argue with?

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 3

I've seen several posts in the past, where their relation is highly romanticized. Along the line of "two broken make one whole" and such...

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

She is also kind of a fucked up person herself

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Yeah, I saw this on Facebook, too

9 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 2

same here, you beat me to it.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Thanks, Imgur. We get it. 3 frontpage posts about it is enough. There's maybe one person in all of history whos ever said they wanted that.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

You haven't seen the dumbshits on my Facebook then. Seriously, Suicide Squad J+H posts for DAYS!!!

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I remember watching Batman the Animated Series as a kid and having the Joker treat Harley like shit. (1/2)

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

When I watched Suicide Squad I was thrown by how much he cared for her. (2/2)

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Yeah I hate their relationship in that movie. And Leto's Joker. Otherwise the movie was great!

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Just like Captain America isn't a member of Hydra in the movies, Joker and Harley's romance was depicted less abusively in Suicide Squad.

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Which was shit. And Leto's joker was shit. Movie was good otherwise.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

this about harley on the big screen? oh blu blu blu blu blu cry me a fucking river. awesome character THAT'S NOT REAL.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Joker and Harley's relationship in SS sucks massive dick, as does Leto's Joker.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

I kinda like it, what I saw of it. Not entirely sure, but actors carried it well. It really wasn't enough to tell though.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I find these posts almost twice as irritating as the posts it's attempting to scold.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Someone please tell this to the director/writer of suicide squad

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

Isaac and Miria

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Baccano!

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Does everyone forget that Romeo was super close to suicide over a different girl (who didn't even like him) at the start of the play? 1/2

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

The whole story is just one over dramatic teen on a super-rebound getting involved with a way too young impressionable and equally over 2/3

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

dramatic teenage girl. 3/3

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

She doesn't have Stockholm Syndrome. At all. She was J

9 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 2

Ugh. J's therapist. They have a malignant, codependent relationship based on Harley's LIMA Syndrome (where the captor -- in this case Harley

9 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 2

develops an infatuation with their captive, in this case J). Harley's view of J as a sympathetic captive results in codependent enmeshment,

9 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 2

where her sense of self becomes inexorably linked with the Joker's. Again, borne from her Lima Syndrome as J's custodial captor.

9 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 2

I mean fuck, if you're going to misuse the thing so egregiously, just go full Die Hard and call it Helsinki Syndrome.

9 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 2

Sure, you want this relationship. https://youtu.be/DOP-2ulq2bk I can totally get it.

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

There are some pretty good takes across the old media on their relationship that shows it in a different light to that episode.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Exactly what I was thinking.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Brutal

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Puddin???

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

Harley!

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

R+J was not a romance.

9 years ago | Likes 73 Dislikes 3

But J+C sure as hell was

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Robin and joker?

9 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

Tried to think of a joke about this. something something joker beating off on robin, something something punchline

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

It was a way to tell families to get over their feud or their loved ones would die.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I thought it was a way to teach 16 year olds that crushes are fleeting and not worth doing drastically stupid things over.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Bad Romance.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

No one's gonna see this, but Harley has a very complex character going into the vary nature of what makes a person good or evil.

9 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 2

(1) I was just about to say the same thing when I saw your comment. From whoever made the meme, I guess her having her doctoral degree, her

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

(2) emphasis on personal agency, her relationships with other characters contribute NOTHING to the complexity of her character?

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I would love to see a movie just about the Joker and Harley's relationship.

9 years ago | Likes 25 Dislikes 5

Does Hot Topic have a movie studio? They need something now that the vampire fad is over, this would be great for them!

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 2

I think that movie would get very depressing

9 years ago | Likes 32 Dislikes 0

Yeah but it would be so different from the other super hero movies that, while sad, it would also be refreshing to see something new.

9 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

I think something even more refreshing would be a movie not based on an existing comic book at all.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

This. This is why I love Harley Quinn. It's such a broken, messed up breath of fresh air into stale comics. She's actually interesting.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

There are movies that are not super hero movies (or even hollywood movies) that deal with relationships in interesting ways.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

True, basically any superhero movie that doesn't focus on a villain and physical conflict would be new and refreshing really

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Yeah that wouldn't really be a superhero movie then would it

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It could be, if you make it more about interpersonal conflict, mental state, social development, all exacerbated by superpowers. 1/2

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Some films like Hancock, The Incredibles and Unbreakable already had some shades of this but they were mostly side notes rather than focus.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Suicide Squad spends quite a bit of time in showing the dynamic between the two. It was actually pretty nice imo

9 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 6

Ayer filmed the abusive parts of theit relationship to make the joker unsympathetic, but the studio cut it out in thr theatrical version.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

That's fuckin retarded. Now my girlfriend is all in love with Leto Joker, but now know who to blame.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Aw :(

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Well.. yes.. but I'm not sure it's very canon tbh.

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

Canon for their movieverse. >.>

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yeah, you're right. But it was something

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Be like the Adams.

9 years ago | Likes 1101 Dislikes 2

*glaring, followed by softening of expression, appreciative nod, and polite applause*

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Always.

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

I'm just gonna be like me and my gf. I got lucky, we're very happy together.

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

That's my ideal marriage, morticia and gomez ... if only

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

When you don't know how to spell Addams v

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 5

Drink all day and be out of touch because one day you realize Fester is Pugsley's dad?

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Cara Mia!

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Mon Savauge.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I interpreted that as be like the Waynes. As in Bruce Wayne's parents......

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I long for a love like Gomez and Morticia

9 years ago | Likes 53 Dislikes 0

9 years ago | Likes 50 Dislikes 0

The way Gomez adores morticia. It's so sweet.

9 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

Cara mia.

9 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

*snap snap*

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Yay mass murdering dark occultists

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I say just love from the heart, you don't need to mimic any characters on tv

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Also a frontrunner for most functional and healthy couple ever shown on TV. I mostly meant that part...

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Yep, perfect romance, but let's not forget what the Adam's Family truly are..The family of darkness. True love, yes,but rooted in demonics

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Well looking at the GOP being rooted in "christian values" hasn't worked out well. Maybe we should try some demonics.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Most of our politiciansare into demonics in some form or an other.Church is corrupted and evil,whyy would that mean demonics is the answers?

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Addams*

9 years ago | Likes 372 Dislikes 2

Ba nuh nuh nuh *clap clap* BA NAH NAH NAH *CLAP CLAP*

9 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

there you go

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Great movie

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

Don't worry, for this, having the right idea got you my upvote. :D

9 years ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 2

I want a love like Jim Halpert and Pam Beesly from The Office.

9 years ago | Likes 320 Dislikes 4

Yes. Goals <3

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 3

That's the truth

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I only once ever found a guy who made me laugh like Jim makes Pam laugh. I hope that doesn't stay true.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

And yet some days you wake up feeling like you have more in common with Michael Scott.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Or Michael and Dwight

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

9 years ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 0

That's the dream right there

9 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

v

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

I’ve kind of got something like that going actually. Sadly, Roy is still very much in the picture.

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 3

A friend once told me "we all think we are Jim and Pam, but really we are all Ryan and Kelly"

9 years ago | Likes 95 Dislikes 0

I'm depressed at how accurate that is

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

I just feel like Creed

9 years ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 0

My tinder says "looking for the Pam to my Jim... Maybe the Kelly to my Ryan."

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

I want a love like Turk and J.D. from Scrubs.

9 years ago | Likes 39 Dislikes 0

It's guy love!

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Lesley and Ben for me! Such a cute butt

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

This is what everyone needs but not what everyone wants.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

No. What you want is Harley and Ivy.

9 years ago | Likes 166 Dislikes 7

Agreed

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Smart one and dumb one?

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Or batman and robin

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

This is what everyone needs

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

Auto dots! Rollout

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 3

Wait... Is that by Chloe from GGaR?

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

indeed it is, her dA has lots of fun stuff like this

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Ivy has also been abusive to Harley before, so she's no better for her than the Joker.

9 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

Neither Romeo and Juliet. It was just a teen turn-on that caused 6 deaths.

9 years ago | Likes 649 Dislikes 2

And perhaps saved countless lives in real life by telling families to let your kids marry.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Legit. Had they been allowed to date they prob would have broken up in a few weeks. Earlier that day Romeo was into that other chick

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

Tybalt, Mercutio, Paris, Romeo and Juliet are the only ones I can think of.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

Benvolio and nursey, and i think Romeo's mother died too

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Including their own.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

① It's not a love story at all. It's a /GREEK/ tragedy; Shakespeare was mocking the foolishness of young love. Romeo and Rosaline break up

9 years ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 0

③ Rosaline. Before Sunday night is up they are making wedding plans. They have sex Monday night. Juliet fakes her death Tuesday night.

9 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

⑤ "Greatest love story every told;" the real tragedy is if there was no family feud, Romeo and Juliet would've broke up before weeks' end.

9 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 1

④ Romeo plots his suicide Wednesday night; commits suicide on Thursday, Juliet kills herself the same night. Four days. FOUR. DAYS.

9 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 1

fancy numbers gimme gimme gimme

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

①②③④⑤ ⑥⑦⑧⑨⑩ ⑪⑫⑬⑭⑮ ⑯⑰⑱⑲⑳

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

MORE

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

(And they only knew each other for less than 24 hours before Romeo was exiled from town)

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

② on Saturday, his first "one true love." Sunday he meets Juliet, on rebound calls her his new "one true love," immediately forgetting about

9 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 0

It was more than six. Many people forget/overlook the deaths of Benvolio, Lady Montague, and other minor characters like The Nurse.

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

6 main characters and a few minor. Mercutio, Tybalt, Lady Montague, Paris, Romeo and Juliet

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Plus all the townspeople who could have been injured or killed in the open street conflicts

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

plus, seeing how these were 2 powerful families, likely with standing militia of sorts, countless brawls/killings

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Mercutio was the man. He told both families to get fucked, then died with a pun.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

and "A plague on BOTH your HOUSES!". Such a good fucking line for a dramatic death.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

People tend to forget that Romeo and Juliet doesn't start with 'Romeo and Juliet', it starts with 'Romeo and Rosalind'. And that it was (1)

9 years ago | Likes 130 Dislikes 0

written as a parody. (2)

9 years ago | Likes 90 Dislikes 0

WAT

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

When girls say "What if I'm not his Juliet?" I want to respond with "that means you're Rosalind and you survive the fucking play!"

9 years ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 2

Best choice always.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

A parody of what?

9 years ago | Likes 28 Dislikes 1

there is an older tale which has many similarities, many suspect it's i direct reference, I don't recall the name though sorry

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

"The tragical history of romeus and Juliet"

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Ovid's Pyramus and Thisbe.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Of these over-the-top classical romances. Shakespeare hated these. It's even more visible in the Midsummer Night's Dream.

9 years ago | Likes 66 Dislikes 1

Romeo and Juliet wasn't written by Shakespeare. He just adapted a very well known story into a play

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 39

I think harleys dependence on the Joker has progressed quite a ways past your everyday, run of the mill stockholm syndrome.

9 years ago | Likes 305 Dislikes 3

Yeah, but people like to pick a timeline that suits their own needs.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

"Run of the mill Stockholm syndrome."

9 years ago | Likes 166 Dislikes 1

Yeah like more than normal....duh!

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 21

New band name I call it

9 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 0

I don't think it's that either. She fell in love from 1 meeting.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Yeah, I imagine being kicked in to a vat of acid by your lover would make things a little weird.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Actually, from the portrayal in films and books, he does love her and hates it, he tries to kill her multiple times and can't do it.

9 years ago | Likes 82 Dislikes 2

Well, she tried to kill him multiple times, too. Loving is sharing.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

One of my favorite moments from TAS was when he left her behind to get arrested and then couldn't function without her.

9 years ago | Likes 34 Dislikes 1

The Joker is basically a cat

9 years ago | Likes 71 Dislikes 1

Goddamn you are right

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Very logical. They could probably just come out with a movie called Harley Quinn. Their relationship is kindof fascinating...

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

She is getting her own movie.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Did you see Suicide Squad? In one scene Joker reminded me of a cat that was about to play with his prey.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

That's basically The Joker in a nutshell

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Again, this bugs me. It's not even close to Stockholm syndrome. Stockholm involves captives developing sympathy for their captors. Joker

9 years ago | Likes 40 Dislikes 2

I agree in principle however, the term is used to mean any unwarranted feelings that result purely from proximity. This probably 1/?

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

started as hyperbole, but either way is now used that way. The theory is people work this way because of systems in place 2/?

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

in our minds, to ensure that we get on with our parents as children. Or it could just be pack mentality. 3/3

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

never captured Q during her psychological enmeshment with him. In fact, the opposite was true: Dr. Harleen Quinzel was J's appointed thera-

9 years ago | Likes 32 Dislikes 2

pist, making her the captor and the beginning of her psychological enmeshment the absolute converse of Stockholm Syndrome, the Lima Syndrome

9 years ago | Likes 33 Dislikes 2

where captors develop sympathy with the captives. The sympathy allows Joker's personality to engulf Harley, with her boundaries becoming

9 years ago | Likes 31 Dislikes 2

diffuse and her personality (and therefore her existence) ultimately enmeshed completely with Joker's. Amount of Stockholm present: Zero.

9 years ago | Likes 31 Dislikes 1

They also try to say she has Hybristophilia, for what it's worth.

9 years ago | Likes 44 Dislikes 1

Makes sense.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Niiiiice

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

What's that?

9 years ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 0

She creams for crazy

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

10/10 description

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Basically it just means she gets off from knowing that Joker is a deranged, murdering sociopath who will never really love her.

9 years ago | Likes 55 Dislikes 0

Your username checks out!

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

That's fucked

9 years ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 0

She's fucked

9 years ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 0