Great advice

Oct 12, 2015 9:39 AM

DontsteptoMaggieSmith

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Holy fuck I needed this right now. Thanks OP.

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

Ans even if you fall back in love with that same person, it will feel different.

10 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

One of my first ever boyfriends committed suicide last week. While I had moved on romantically a long time ago...THIS...so this.

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

the wise words of whoopie.

10 years ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 2

+1 for not being .gifs

10 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Shut up wesley...

10 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

Guinan was such a great character.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I loved the Borg episode when Q decides to be more of a dick than usual, but sees her, freaks out and is like "YOU". ಠ_ಠ

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I really want to know why Q was afraid of her.

10 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

Because Gainan is a baller, obvs.

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Me too! I've never figured that out.

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

wanted to downvote this cause i remembered my ex but that would be unfair. i hate you op, take my lousy upvote!

10 years ago | Likes 39 Dislikes 2

Even if I hate my ex, I'd rather have the memories than nothing.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Yup, that pretty much sums up how this felt.

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

Wow, Whoopie actually looks really pretty in these pics.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Star Trek: The Next Generalization. "Hey Troi, go blow it out your ass! We got a planet to save."

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Shaka, when the walls fell

10 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

That is one of the best episodes of any show in the world. I use it to this day to express failure. Whoever gets that refrence is a keeper.

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

TNG, when they had that episode about references.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Well, yes, good job dear! Lol.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Jalad, in UserSub ^_^

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I watched TNG for years, and the meaning of what Guinan said only now just clicked for me. Wish I'd known it earlier and saved some pain :)

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

most of my updoots, people gave me for saying exactly this stuff. +1

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Why do oracles know so much shit? Where are you neo??

10 years ago | Likes 368 Dislikes 3

Because that's what oracles do.

10 years ago | Likes 30 Dislikes 0

The Oracle I frequent sure knows stuff, but damn they gouge you for it.

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

But... I thought this was star-trek...

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Right here.

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

They tend to live a long life, or have the right connections. Lucky are those who also get believed.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

damn you Cassandra!!

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

The question of what happened to Neo was answered in The Matrix Online, actually.

10 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

Short version: His consciousness is permanently fused into The Matrix and echos of his thoughts and personality show up sometimes.

10 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 0

TIL...

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

i can finaly close the book now, i've always wondered what happend to him afterwards. thanks fam

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Woah is this true? So his own consciousness was the Oracle? She wasn't an actual program but his own self talking to him?

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

1) No, the stuff about fusing with the Matrix refers to after the movies; 2) The Oracle is not an echo of Neo, even after the movies.

10 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Pls explain more then

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

I doubt she's(Guinan) ever been honest about her age, but I am pretty sure she was born in the 20th Century.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 3

The only problem with that theory is Data ran into her in 1893 when he went back in time or something. And she was an adult even then...

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

When he went back in time...so obviously she couldn't?

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

Wow. Ok...

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

The problem with arguing logic with science fiction shows, is that there is none. So endeth the lesson.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

I wish when I was drinking at a bar she was pouring drinks and offering wise advice,

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Actually spoke to Whoopi for quite a while once, she was extremely nice

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Envy!

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

She was surprised when I said my favorite of her work was Jumpin' Jack Flash, she said I seemed to young to know that one

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Her standup bit is the only reason I know all the words to the national anthem.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I loved Battlestar Galactica.

10 years ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 9

Flash Gordon - the wonder years

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 2

Dude, that's Star Wars.

10 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 4

That is obviously Babylon 5.

10 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 1

Man, they got really sequel-heavy with that one.

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I only remember Crusade, and it didn't last.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

No it's clearly firefly

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

It's Red Dwarf the season with the alternate reality bubbles. This one gender switched Lister and Kochanski.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

This show taught me so much. Like how not to mess with giant tar creatures.

10 years ago | Likes 34 Dislikes 0

Awww, poor Tasha.

10 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

She thought she was blowing up! She wanted out to capitalize on her fame. I don't know, that's what I heard.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Her and the guy who sold his apple shares probably have a club. Though she does have a large fan base and did some cameos.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Yes! If only she had stayed. Cameos are nice, has she appeared on any other scifi series?

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

But she came back several times (after she died) in later episodes, towards the end if I recall right. Maybe she realised her mistake?

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I'm a year into being widowed, wondering if I'll ever find any kind of love again. I fucking needed this. Thank you, OP.

10 years ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 0

I'm almost 4 months in.. it blows!!!!

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I feel for you. This does blow!

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Just broke up with my girlfriend of almost 5 years last night..too many feels. My chest is imploding right now

10 years ago | Likes 64 Dislikes 4

It really does feel like the end of the world sometimes, but keep that head up and you'll make it through. We all will. [:

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Yo man i promise you itll all work itself out

10 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 1

Looks like my gf and I of two and a half years will be breaking up soon. I feel ya.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Start a gym membership and get a daily routine. It's great therapy.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

When my lt relationship ended it had gotten to the point where it felt like a relief. I don't know which would be worse. Hang in there.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I'm like half relieved, and the other half anxious..I just cut the cord and I feel horrible because i want to talk to her but know I can't

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

*hugs*

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

My ex broke up with me after 4ish years over the phone, 5 days before my masters exams. I can tell you the best medicine (1/2)

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Is to live your life exactly how you want to and take the opportunities you wouldn't have been able to before (2/3)

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Improve yourself and in a few years you'll look back proud of how far you've come. Good luck man. (3/3)

10 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

it feels like someone just shit in the open wound in your chest. Only time (things.I.must.earn) will make it go away. It gets better

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I went through the same thing - gf of 5 years - just a few weeks back. I promise it gets better. Let friends help though. Really

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Broke up a 4 year relationship to figure out who I am if that makes any sense. Two months have gone by and it's just as hard as it was day 1

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Have you figured out who you are in those 2 months?

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

*hugs*

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Trying to work up the courage to that with my s/o of about the same amount of time...any advice?

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Don't surprise them! I thought everything was ok, nope. "Hey, I've been thinking about breaking up, what do you think?" Then talk fora month

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Be firm

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Don't drag it out or do something stupid. Just talk to them openly and honestly, even if it sucks.

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Just do it, be honest and not spiteful. If it's got to this point it will probably feel like a weight has been lifted once it's over.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Read username as 'DubstepToMaggieSmith' and now have a new favorite imaginary thing.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

That is the best thing ever.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

What is this?

10 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 3

STAR WARS

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Ghost

10 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 5

Haha it did remind me of that

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

The show is Star Trek: The Next Generation and the characters are Guinan and Wesley.

10 years ago | Likes 29 Dislikes 0

Thanks heaps!

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

It's a damn good show.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

You've never seen The Next Generation? Oh wow you gotta fix that

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

oprah is so wise.

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You don't get into the White House without having a strong woman behind you like this.

10 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 0

*The Oracle.

10 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

I fucking lol'd. +1

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I thought it was E.T.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

This isnt whoopi....? Wut...?

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

And eyebrowless

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

you.... you know thats not oprah right?

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

uhh that's not Oprah it's whoopie Goldberg.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 16

OPRAH!! I don't often laugh out loud. Love this show and Guinan. Oprah!! You made my day!

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

i aim to please. with immaturity.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

That's Space Oprah.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Hahaha!

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I thought it was Denzel.

10 years ago | Likes 44 Dislikes 1

monica.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Racist.

10 years ago | Likes 127 Dislikes 11

it's Mr T isnt it?

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Oprah is so racist?

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Now who's being lacist.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Was about to downvote, then saw username +1

10 years ago | Likes 55 Dislikes 5

was about to downvote him, then saw your reply mentioning his username, +1

10 years ago | Likes 27 Dislikes 5

Was about to downvote him, then I saw your reply to his reply of that [alleged] racists reply. +1

10 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 6

Lost track of who's in the right, downvoted everybody just to be sure.

10 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 1

Where are her eyebrows?

10 years ago | Likes 173 Dislikes 1

Whoopi has never had eyebrows, but for some reason, few notice. You are special.

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

asking the real questions.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Still in the nexus. They're the source of her insight.

10 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 0

eyebrows is overrated :D

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

she is an alien, maybe we can contribute it to that...

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

they were stolen by cylons

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

Is this a serious question?

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Whoopi doesn't have time for eyebrows.

10 years ago | Likes 115 Dislikes 0

This legitimately made me giggle. Thank you.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Her eyebrows are naturally very thin so she removes them

10 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

The women in my dad's family get them tattooed on. I'm considering it. Lol

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Sounds entirely too shallow and vapid.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 16

It's easier than drawing them on everyday with brow liner. I've caught myself with half an eyebrow too many times. It's funny in pictures.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Shave off your eyebrows and let me know how people act around you.

10 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 1

As a person without eyebrows, I know. It's a thing. *shrug* I have better things to worry with than how others view me.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 6

You'll notice in every movie she's been in she doesn't have them unless they're drawn on

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

She has no hair side from her head - she's got a phobia and removes all other hairs. Trichopathophobia.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Dammit Q!

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

in space, no one can see your eyebrows. Unless you're Worf. Then your brows go fucking craaazy.

10 years ago | Likes 38 Dislikes 1

God I love this gif: I'm putting it in again. That's how much I love it. Was it in an actual show?

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

New high quality captures from old shows? http://imgur.com/hEVVNmV

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Nine, my love.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Yay my favorite doctor

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

The Blu-rays of TNG may be the best remastering of any show I've ever seen.

10 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

Look at the remasters for the Alien films.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

IF you didn't hear that in his voice... you're lying

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

STTNG is on Hulu, and crazily enough, the first two seasons are in HD. Pretty cool watching them with so much detail.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Old show...

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You know you're old when... :'|

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

but 800p tho.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 17

No. Still 1080p the 1080 refers to vertical lines and the p to progressive scan ie. every line is scanned.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

That's the result of the aspect ratio.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

aspect ratio is just that - a ratio. Something recorded in 4:3, can still be 1080p, it just won't have 1920p horizontal resolution.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Yeah, I don't fully understand it myself, I know what some people say it is because the properties tells them that but it's 1080p.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

My only guess is that when dealing with TVs, 1080p is synonymous with 1920x1080. Since 4:3 would be less than that,it wouldn't be true 1080p

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Better than nothing.

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That's not saying much...

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 10

You don't just take 20+ year old footage shot for CRT TV and magically make them HD. Getting them to look as good as they do is a huge feat.

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

They mentioned TNG was released on Blu-Ray, which is more than double that vertical resolution.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 6

TNG was shot on film not video tape. Provided it is stored properly you can go back and re-scan it for any resolution and redo the effects.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

They remastered the series for blu-ray. Re-did some special effects too. It's purdy.

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

The best part might be that when the redid the special effects they tried to make the similar to the original ones rather than "updating"

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Agreed for the most part. I kind of wish they'd done stuff like using the more detailed model of the enterprise from later seasons (1)

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

instead of the mostly smooth one. Also, the warp effects always looked a bit naff imo and they could've fixed that. Still, great work.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It's HD on Netflix.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I can see the northern accent.

10 years ago | Likes 62 Dislikes 0

Lots of places have a north

10 years ago | Likes 34 Dislikes 0

*PLANETS

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

ha me too, i was just thinking that quote is wrong, he clearly says "appen"

10 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

I miss this Doctor

10 years ago | Likes 44 Dislikes 1

Me too :( I'm just now rewatching the first season w/ my roommate who's never seen it and I forgot how much I liked him.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Aye. 'Twas my first Doctor.

10 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 1

Mine three!

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

And my axe!

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Was having some sad and nostalgic feels, thank you for making me fall out of my chair with how unexpectedly funny this reference was.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Happy to be of service ^^

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

And mine!

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Mine as well

10 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Mine too.

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I did at first, then I heard he was an utter tool to work with. I was disappointed, then uncaring about him after that.

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 7

I've never heard anything about him being a tool. From my understanding, he didn't agree with how the producers were running things

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

If only some of the more recent Doctors felt that way.. the show might be watchable still.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

There's been discontent on pretty much everything else he worked in though. Thor 2 was a very well publicised one if I recall correctly.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Re-rendered on Netflix!

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

No, re-encoded from the new Blu-Ray copy that is available. They switched it on me midway through Season 3 on me (like 15th run through).

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Star Trek TNG was shot on film, like a movie. Provided the film is stored properly they can go back and re-scan it every time the 1/2

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

technology improves and re-do the added in digital effects. Expect/demand a 4k version in the future. 2/2

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

They were released on Blue Ray a while back. Looks like someone got the collection.

10 years ago | Likes 119 Dislikes 0

Damn, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bKfcpklt1b8 I may have to buy those...

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It's about on par with Netflix, actually.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Well worth the money. Recently rewatched all seasons on blue ray. Avoid episodes in which Riker is beardless!

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

It's also on Amazon, free with Prime. The BluRay masters are eye sex compared to the old, VHS ones Netflix still uses

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Who didn't? TNG is love. TNG is life.

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Well, after they stopped using unused TOS scripts, anyway.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

YOU CAPTURED A BLUE RAY?!!!

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

LOL Missed that at the first read.... Now I am all Blu...

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

MY FIRST SHINY

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

LOL Missed that at the first read.... Now I am all Blu...

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Ummm. What show? For a friend.

10 years ago | Likes 27 Dislikes 2

This one is Star Trek: The Next Generation.

10 years ago | Likes 37 Dislikes 0

And it's all on Netflix!

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Wait hold up. This is star trek next generation? my god

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Yep. Guinan and Wesley in Ten Forward.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

AND YOU MUST WATCH ALL 7 SEASONS BECAUSE THEY'RE GLORIOUS AND THE FOUNDATION OF MY CHILDHOOD. Sorry, got a little excited about ST:TNG...

10 years ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 1

Well you can kinda skip the first season. Watch the first episode and the last of season one and youre ok in my book

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

THERE ARE FOUR LIGHTS!

10 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 1

Just broke up with my girlfriend of 2.5 years. This hits hard.

10 years ago | Likes 334 Dislikes 9

As a 24 year old whose never been in a relationship, what is this so called "love" people talk about?

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

(2/2) He claimed he hadn't actually broken up with me, but he believes that I have never loved nor cared for him.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I know I don't know your relationship but from that, he sounds controlling. My suggestion is to be done.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Together for 5 years, broke up 5 years ago. Still hurts. Still haven't found love again. Hopefully one day...

10 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Me too! It's been 3 years since.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Broke up with my bf of 4 years, 2.5 years ago. Have found love, still hurts. He was my best friend and then he didn't want contact anymore.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Me too! Those jerk faces

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Stay strong. Cry and eat all you want but don't contact her. You deserve better.

10 years ago | Likes 31 Dislikes 4

I wish you had told me that 2 months ago. Shit is rough.

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I read it as "you deserve butter" and thought damn straight you do

10 years ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 0

You made me feel better

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Do I deserve butter?

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Everyone deserves butter! With garlic. Or on a biscuit. Or pastry. Nom nom nom.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Aww. If everyone deserves it then it's no worthy feat. I refuse then.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

My fiance just ended it today. 5 years together. It hurts but a real relationship can't exist only on the happiness of one. Stay strong.

10 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

are you me? it literally happened last night.

10 years ago | Likes 40 Dislikes 2

Broke up in June, it would have been 5 years today. Feels man.. feels

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

She broke up with both of you at the same time.

10 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 0

Fuck. Me too. 2 years gone.

10 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

I've lost 6 years relationship 3 years ago. It still hurts

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

And me too, and I'm a woman.

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Here you go, two rebounds in one shot.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Shit me too.. 2.5 years. Happened last week.

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

2.5 years of traveling the speed of light. That's a long relationship.

10 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

2.5 years at the speed of light would be relatively long compared to the rest of us back on Earth.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Fiancee who I had been with for 5 years just broke up with me. Amen.

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

My bf of 3 years (& father of my son) and I broke up a little over a month ago. I still cry myself to sleep every night, so I know the feels

10 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

Same here! We were only a year though :/

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I just broke up with gf of 4 years. Blocked her everywhere and it's getting better everyday, be patient :)

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

That's the way to do

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

We broke up exactly a year ago today after 4.5 years. I still miss her.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Umm, are you me? I just broke up with my ex gf of 2.5 years last night. I'm a wreck.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Me too. Its tough, but it had to be done.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

The BOULDER would like to offer you a beer and hug.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I know that feel. Keep your head up man.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Just keep on breathing; remember this when you have dark moments. I promise you'll be happier than you ever imagine. Just hold on bro.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Congrats. It gets better.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

I literally JUST broke up with my girlfriend. Longest relationship I've had 1.5 years together and I came here to feel better. I get this.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

im a month out of 1.5 years. message me if you need to talk, no bromo

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Thank you for the gesture.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

3 and a half years here. Still in contact with ex bf trying to "win" him back. Shit burns hard.

10 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

I want to try winning my ex back against every one of my friends advice. Good luck!

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

I broke off a 4 year relationship a couple months back.. my ex trying to win me back has been so mentally draining.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Just cut them out. It's the only way. I've had this happen 3 times in my life

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I got to the point where I realized I cried more than laughed in the relationship. That I enjoyed memories more than real life, and moved on

10 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Yes.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yup, just did this after 13 years in a dead end relationship. It sucks but I'm not torturing myself waiting for his calls anymore.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It was very hard, but worth it in the end when someone better came along.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

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Have you?

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

No. I've had a few clingy exes, and have been one before. It's bad to try to manipulate someone you love. Just remind them sometimes. 1/2

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

But I know it's super hard, it can't be expressed in an imgur comment.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Shit... thats me right there.. Three and a half years, and ten months of trying to be friends. But i'm finally moving on. hallelujah!

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Still can't imagine being with anyone else! How are you doing it? It's so hard! :(

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Well.. that was me right there. After a while you start to realize that if the other person wanted to be with you they would.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

And cut off all contact! Give yourself time to think. You guys can always talk once youve given yourself time to heal

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

(1/2) my boyfriend broke up with me yesterday by saying "okay lets break up" and today he messaged me "happy two months",

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Patrick?

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

5 months out of a 4.5 year relationship. I feel you.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Good luck man! Or woman!

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

It's nice. Rather then the "oh let's make you miss her more" kinda stuff I saw immediately after my recent breakup.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Every love is different, but that doesn't mean that each one is less than those that came before. The love of your life is still out there.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I got dumped after a year and a half two weeks ago. This boat we're in sucks.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

you got this man. just broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years. its going to be hard at first. just keep yourself busy and...

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

stay close to friends. and remember that its ok to be upset

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Mine was off of a 2 year relationship... it has been months and I haven't feel the same for anyone else yet. But hey, that's life.

10 years ago | Likes 29 Dislikes 0

And that's ok. 13 months post-breakup here. And that's fine with me, just gonna live my life and shit will fall into place eventually.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

That's the point, you won't ever feel the same about anyone because they are all different. You will still find an amazing love one day!

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

It took me a year to feel like I was over my 2.5 yr relationship. I know you've heard it, but time will heal, I promise.

10 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

I'm not disappointed that those feelings don't come back easily, but you can feel that void sometimes... she was there every day before.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Absolutely there's a void, but you have to factor the reasons for the breakup. Find someone who'll be better with you and who won't give up!

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

That's the spirit! Wait, is that for me or for you, or the 2.5 years guy? Well, we all need it: DO NOT GIVE UP!

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0