PSA: See your goddamned dentist regularly

Feb 6, 2021 11:59 PM

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TL;DR at bottom. So, about 2 month ago I got a tooth ache in my rear left molar. After about a month of it getting more and more painful, I decided to bite the bullet (Oh haha.) and fork up the $150 dental exam fee to see if I needed a filling. I had not had a dental checkup in five years, as I work for a little above minimum wage and didn't want to spend that kind of money on something I considered superfluous as my teeth were fine.

Then I had the X-ray.
Turns out my lower wisdom teeth were impacted (sideways) and had grown so deeply into my molars that the molar roots were essentially rotting away. All in all, 6 of my teeth had to be surgically extracted to prevent further damage and relieve what had become debilitating pain, which cost me $2240. This constituted the significant majority of the savings I have been very slowly accumulating over the last several years. But that isn't where it ended. First, I developed Dry Socket. Not uncommon after an extraction, but very very painful. Back to the dentist for treatment, although the cost was included as aftercare in the original bill, so no big deal. Everything started to heal up properly except for what I thought was a splinter of tooth still working its way out of my gum that was starting to cut my tongue. Back to the dentist to get it pulled. Unfortunately, it wasn't a splinter. It was my lower jawbone, pushing its way through my gum tissue because of something called Lingual Bone Dehiscence, an extremely rare complication of the extraction. The only treatment: literally filing down the bone so the gum can regrow. This procedure was not covered by aftercare, and cost another $600. So I miserably handed over the last of my savings and $200 I had to borrow and went under the file. All was going well (except for the sound) until what felt like a lightning bolt went down my jaw. Nerve damage. I knew it was a possibility as I had been told by the dentist. What I did not realise was that it meant that i lost all sense of feeling and taste in the left side of my tongue. Most likely permanently. And all of it could have been prevented if I had just gone for a checkup earlier.

After all that I have two pieces of advice for people: get regular checkups, and maybe consider going to dental school. It pays very well.

TL;DR Lost 6 teeth, the feeling and taste in half of my tongue, and all the money I had in the world because I didn't want to spend 150 bucks on a checkup.

Dog Tax my goofy girl Mox

Teeth are the weakness of us all. I hope only the best for you! It’s a true nightmare.

5 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

O M G that FRICKEN sucks dude, @op / thats sad and aweful, the tongue too!? Gorgeous pups. Boop those snoots.

5 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

If you're able, go to the local dental school for treatment! They have low cost clinics, and the students need training! I <3 my student

5 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Sorry for your floss.

5 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

So sorry to hear that. Mox is a good girl!

5 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

You can claim dental expenses on your taxes if it and your medical expenses exceed 7.5% of your gross annual income. It's something...

5 years ago | Likes 45 Dislikes 0

If you don’t reach that level, in some states you can claim them regardless of level.

5 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Dry socket is the WORST. I am so so sorry OP. :(

5 years ago | Likes 39 Dislikes 1

Had one after an extraction that needed 3 different dentists to have a go pulling. Joked that the one who did it was now King of all England

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Easy to address though - rinse socket out & place sedative dressing, pain gone in about 15 minutes.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

My surgeon used clove oil. Everything tasted like cloves for a couple weeks and the pain wasn’t gone 100%. :(

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Tip: If you don't have insurance, look into dental discount cards and find a dentist who takes them, save 20 to 50%

5 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

PSA: Some FQHC's in the US have dental clinics. Work like this would NOT be done there, but they would have caught the issue earlier.

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Cost is based on income on a sliding scale.

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I legit had the same thing happen with the nerve damage on the left side of my tongue. That was almost 10 years ago, still have the 1/

5 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Tingling in my tounge and loss of taste on that side. 2/2

5 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Same here. It's horrible and I really hate living with it. The tingling and I can no longer eat spicy food or drink carbonated drinks.

5 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 2

closest dentist is 130 miles away...and insurance doesnt cover it

5 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

Thanks for reminding me to get a dentist appointment. Stuff like that is why I have my teeth ensured heavily.

5 years ago | Likes 51 Dislikes 1

Insured* (sorry)

5 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

No worries! I wasn't sure. I'm not a native speaker.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I think it is madness that teeth are considered separate from healthcare in Sweden. It should be considered essential care.

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I pay about 120kr/month ($12) which covers all my dental costs. That could just as well come out of my taxes directly.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

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5 years ago (deleted Feb 25, 2021 2:49 PM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

Frisktandvårdsavtal

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Same happened to me. Not as many lost teeth though. Bottom molars were impacted. Waited too long, one of my molars got killed in the process

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Can't afford to see a dentist. I need probably close to 5k in work, but $13/hr ain't enough to pay rent, so health is a luxury item.

5 years ago | Likes 28 Dislikes 0

Welcome to America

5 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

Dental school offers work at discounted rates.

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

If you live near a dental school, this is a good option. Unfortunately there aren’t a ton of dental schools everywhere.

5 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

True!

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

When do you live that a cleaning is that cheap?! When I was trying to find a dentist and had no insurance it was $400.

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

As someone who didn't visit a dentist fo 10 years I feel you. But I wish basic health insurance covered dental.

5 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

I had dental insurance.. My wisdom teeth became impacted, insurance wouldn't cover bc it was a "specialist" to remove them. Got infected 1/2

5 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Then got hospitalized bc of it. Almost died.. It was then that health not dental insurance covered it 2/2

5 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Smart

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

I couldn't afford $2k for them to he removed surgically. So I guess so yeah.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Really, any dental surgical procedure should be classified as medical

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Not how blue cross blue shield saw it. Oral surgeon was classified as a dental specialist just like an orthodontist.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Don't lose hope! I had nerve damage after wisdom tooth surgery ; was told it wouldn't recover, but 8 months later it was fine.

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

It's expensive to be poor.

5 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

I'm going to go brush my teeth now...

5 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Flossing is most important!!!

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Don't forget to put them under your pillow. (Tl;dr)

5 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

Honestly I was thinking necklace or bracelet coz why the hell not

5 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Or a set of knuckle dusters. That'd be pretty metal.

5 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Once were warriors.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Ah, another Kiwi on Imgur. A rare breed.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Kia ora. But, ooh, ease up there, big fella! Oi, oi, oi! *looks to the East, towards our "other" Tasmania, spots you there, gives a wave* ?

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Dentist here, cavities normally don't hurt unless they are big. So if you are having a tooth ache, usually more than a filling will be neede

5 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 0

Is dry socket more common in surgical extractions vs simple? I have to have a surgical extraction in a week and I’m terrified of dry socket

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Nope. Smoking, diabetes, and not taking it easy will

5 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

^^this. I tell patients "if you get a dry socket, ill treat you, but if you got a dry socket from smoking, I wont feel sorry for you"

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Luckily my dental issues are from being poor and American. I don’t smoke so that won’t contribute

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I just tell them that it will hurt if they get a dry socket and it will cost more to fix. No need to share internal emotions

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I hadn’t been to the dentist in like only two years, but during that time I did enough damage to need to get 5 crowns. Cost me around $2k :/

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

$2,000 for five crowns is a very good deal lol. Grounds usually are 800 bucks each

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

5 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Exactly the turmoil I’m experiencing reading this post. ARGHHHH.

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I know this is not the point, but they let you keep the teeth!?! I specifically asked for mine and they wouldn’t give them to me

5 years ago | Likes 94 Dislikes 1

I have mine in an old salt shaker. I freaked out my kid with them once, lol.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I got to keep the two Wisdom teeth I had and one tooth that got infected from a bad old filling XD I have mutant teeth.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Anything removed from your body is your property.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

They should give them to you to prove that the procedure was necessary

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

And good luck with the payments. that really sucks, but get that taken care of when you can so you aren’t paying the man interest

5 years ago | Likes 24 Dislikes 0

I paid out of my savings so no debt but now no savings either. And idk about elsewhere but you absolutely have the right to keep them in NZ

5 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 0

Well that’s good, I’m over in the US so could be different here

5 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

In AU it was the same. I got them in a little jar, and had to drop them off at a dentist to dispose of them.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

You came in with them, you can leave with them.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

They asked me if I wanted to keep mine after I was already drugged up so I said yes because I thought it would be funny for them to hand 1/

5 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

my mom, who had driven me there, a bag of my teeth. Ergo, I do have mine. /2

5 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

That is what I wanted to do, just to keep around as a prank

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I got to keep my wisdom teeth. I was alarmed at their size. I threw them away though.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Awww. They wouldn’t let me keep mine either.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

My dentist said no coz he had to section mine out to try and avoid nerve damage. I wanted my teeth.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

You just have to exclude the bit about wanting to make a sick necklace outbof them

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I was thinking knuckle dusters

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Dentist here, it depends on the dentist. If they have major infections, not usually a good idea to keep them

5 years ago | Likes 38 Dislikes 0

I have no idea if this is normal, but my wisdom teeth were taken out as a precaution, but they had come through the gum straight (all 4)

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Depends on if they developed at a normal angulation as well as how manageable they are to clean. Can cause issues later

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Wait, why not if major infection? For some reason I assume the infection would die out when the removed teeth dry out?

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Some tooth infections have some pretty serious bacteria. They should die after being removed but could take awhile if abscess isn't torn 1)

5 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

And you can't really trust people not doing dumb things with those teeth so could potentially spread those bacteria 2)

5 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Hello fellow dentist! And also I've heard of people trying to sue for malpractice after putting the tooth back in the extracted socket

5 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

Dentistry student here, in some universities they let us use human teeth for practice (expecially to get a feel for the pulp chamber).

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Most schools do that so you can feel what real.teeth feel like. Dentists will collect them for the students

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I've heard that as well but if you document giving them the tooth, I can't see that holding up in court

5 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

5 years ago | Likes 670 Dislikes 1

The really fucked up thing is that I went to Tianuna for $10k worth of dental work that was quoted $40k here. Anne I have dental insurance.

5 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Taiwan my dudes. Taiwan.. CHEAP, and AMAZING.

5 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

We have universal healthcare. Except for teeth and eyes, because apparently eating and seeing are privilege.

5 years ago | Likes 136 Dislikes 0

Same here in Denmark, tho some of it's subsidized, I have been advocating for free check ups for years, because it can prevent complications

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Here in Austria dentists also charge significantly more (and not everything is covered in health care)

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

What?!? That’s awful. Hope things get better for you.

5 years ago | Likes 31 Dislikes 0

Who? Come closer and let me gum your face ... David S. Pumpkins?

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Canadian?

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

That "jawbone sticking out" thing happened to me, too. My oral surgeon missed it and tried to have me ride it out Christmas weekend before

5 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

he could fix it.

5 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Well he got his lingual Nerve damaged when they filled it down. It is usually just best to ride it out. Less risk

5 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

After pouring thousands of dollars into my teeth, I became disabled and could no longer afford dental care. Now, I have list most

5 years ago | Likes 202 Dislikes 2

And can't even afford to get them out. Being diabetic, this will likely be why I die, due to the constant infections.

5 years ago | Likes 141 Dislikes 0

Look up sliding scale dentists or dental schools. Also, see if any dental clinics happen in your area. They do them 1-2x a year near me. >

5 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

They offer reduced or even free services for people. Low income is priority too.

5 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

A lot of those places are shit holes and dentists do mediocre work.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 4

Haven't heard any complaints about the local dentist s.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Not true at all. Maybe YOU had a bad experience with one but that's not the case in all places. Don't give false information please.

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

No dental schools anywhere near hear. The local clinic with a sliding fee still costs almost 200 for a removal and that is if no problems.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

A sliding scale clinic should be based on your income. There are low income AND sliding scale clinics. Are you sure it's not a low income?

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Positive. The scale there is based on income. It's still more than I can afford. To go in and get an xray is is 200+. That's before any 1/

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

come up. Also I would need oral surgery at this point and they don't offer sliding fees. At least not here.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

There isn't anything I can do about it. Frustrating!

5 years ago | Likes 88 Dislikes 0

Pretty much in the same boat. Fucking sucks.

5 years ago | Likes 26 Dislikes 0

Dude, this is beyond frustrating and sad. I'm so sorry this is happening to you.

5 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 0

Dentist here, go to the nearest dental school or find a sliding fee office

5 years ago | Likes 33 Dislikes 0

This. Sliding fee dentist saved my ass when I broke a tooth on a strip of bacon... Yeah. Bacon. Tooth had been a disaater for years.

5 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

No dental schools near me. Sliding fee office is still far more than I could afford now that I'm disabled and they don't do oral surgery.

5 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Care credit is also an option. I know it's tough to find an office that can accommodate your needs

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Call the nearest one and try to arrange something. If you're embarrassed, try asking an advocate to get in touch with them (family/priest).

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I'm so sorry, and this reminds me to move the fuck out of this HORRIFYING country.

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

If you're disabled, do you not qualify for Social Security Disabilty Insurance?

5 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

Finding a dentist who takes Medicaid is nearly impossible. Though I do know of one in South Jersey. DM me if that's anywhere near you.

5 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Thank you, but I live in Northern Maine.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Medicaid doesn't pay for anything but cleanings and x-rays after the age of 21

5 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 0

Dentist here, I know medicaid varies by state but I'm pretty sure they normally cover extractions. I'd check with your dentist again

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Oh, that is insane...

5 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Land of the free and home of the brave, where people die because of their teeth... It's fucking medieval over there smh

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Well, being disabled is my problem. People on disability barely get enough to live on, let alone afford dental work.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

But being disabled shouldn't be a problem, full stop. With Universal health care here in UK (including dental) it makes zero difference

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0