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My son doesn't have a mom. Tragic I know. But he's got 2 pretty cool dad's. He was really upset no one was going with him.. so my husband figured he could sit in for our son AND my son's best friend who's mom passed away. So he went up to the school, my son's in kindergarten so even though today is Sunday it's an after school type thing.
Anyways when he got there every kid and mom from our sons class was there. Almost everyone was OK with him subbing in except for this one mom (one who reported us for raping our son when in reality we leave the door open while he bathes) refused to share the room with my husband and tried to make him feel guilty for max not having a mom. Causing max (our son) and his best friend to cry.
We took them home (even though the teacher told the other lady off for being rude we didn't want it to be awkward) and we did crafts at home. We made Christmas ornaments and cookies as well as friendship bracelets. All without a mom. Look at that.
I know that mothers are very important. Max has both of us though. He also has 7 aunts and a grandma. I think he'll be alright.
lenomdeplume
this one mom....Mike Pence?
ImNotSaiyanImJustSuperSaiyan
How dare you be a decent human being and a good father? Take my upvote OP.
wassappeninguey
I have a mom and I've always preferred to be with my dad, he was always more loving to us kids. And I miss him so much
sneakyfox
The upvote is for you guys, for being awesome dads. CuntyCuntFace gets a downvote to the head.
Justthatandalilbitmore
Im a mam!! And she was a total moran!! You guys are doing awesome! Even been considerate of your sons friend whos mam died!! You guys rock .
CanadasOnlyBlackGuy
goldenspider666
As a future teacher I pledge not to allow this to happen in my classroom
pontypool
what a cunt
thriftydonkey
We need to stop using the word homophobe. They're not scared of "the gays" they're just shitty asshole people.
ToastyMozart
I mean, the "gays cause tornados" people probably qualify, but for the most part yeah it's not a great term.
VisofSer
Upvoted despite captain twat gif. You do the best by your children. Oh look, you already are. Screw that woman.
BlameTheDeer
The only problem I see with this story aside from the bigotry is the premature Christmas cookie baking. That is a crime sir! Lol
Teamoan
Wait you made Christmas decorations? In October?
thatsferalcheryl
Some kids have foster fathers. Some have only a grandparent etc. Schools have to stop these 'special' parent days.
ematic
I can only imagine what Bible thumping bullshit that mother teaches HER child at home...
destroyyourself
I am not even religious, but you shouldn't assume because she is religious just because she is homophobic
destroyyourself
judgemental and probably the worst person on the planet. It makes you seem less unitelligent and even judgey, yourself.
NorfolkBoy
It takes a village to raise a Child. Good parents are massively important, but so is extended family and community.
deltajesus
I disagree, you only really need one person that gives a shit, more is better obviously but you can turn out fine regardless.
NorfolkBoy
Congrats on providing both.
The5thBillionHumanBeing
I was only grown by one single mum and she is both to me, mum and dad. Today I'm a very healthy and successful individual because of her..
tittledorf
Some situations make an assault charge sound okay
DefinetlyNotARussianSpy
But a cavalry charge sounds better
GnomeDeGuerre
+ there's actual horns to blow in.
SilverSpades
People are assholes. More news at 11.
drsatan1978
Christmas ornaments in October? You fucking savages!
Nukeshi
Hey man, Christmas is year round!
Xbertie
"Christmas isn't a holiday, it's a way of life" -Ster
lellebel
I just checked, and my entire household says it's OK to beat the living shit out of that woman. (I'm living with 3 females)
YNotZoidberg1077
Also a female, and would like to second this!
Pinkishu
Because violence is totally a valid response. ¬_¬
Ancalagon2096
This
forte10
Glad you agree!
Aesandre1989
Oh you.... +1
lellebel
Sorry. But if you can't distinguish pictorial speech for support from an actual encouragement to violence, I apologize ;)
theonlyconsistantthinginlifeisitsinconsistancy
Problem is, "pictorial speech" is used far too often and not taken as such nor acted on as such. I understand you, but still, not positive.
procrastinatingagain
Let's hope the school changes the name of this event for next year.
ZOMGNO
1/3 We held a "Significant Man" event at my son's 0-6yr old parent-run Playcentre, because primarily the mothers attended, but we wanted
ZOMGNO
2/3 Dads to come that day and if kids didn't have a Dad, then they could bring a Grandfather, an uncle or someone else.
ZOMGNO
BUT had a woman wished to come for any reason, she would have been welcomed. You're there for the kids, in whatever capacity they need you.
nefridelle
Seriously. My mom hates crafts, but my dad would love this.
BigBenThisHeresRubberDuck
On posts like these I scroll to the bottom to see what comments got the most downvotes
Halvinator
And it always ends up being really disappointing... come on humanity! Quit being assholes!
brenhamwagner
If Lion King taught me anything, it's that you can be raised by a meerkat and wild boar and still turn out the king of pride rock.
HipHopSaint
I tried that and almost got killed by the wild boar. Lion king lied :(
SleepyWalrus
If Disney movies has taught me anything, it's that bad things only happen to you only if you don't believe enough. Ergo believe more damnit!
HipHopSaint
Probably it. I'll try again and report with results. I feel like Grizzly Man
se24990
I'd upvote this twice if I could...
Deshfyre
I got you bro, Upvoted it for ya :P
NeelM3
The only problem I have is......
flover
You try to schedule a Christmas craft in December - NO TIME FOR THAT!
NeelM3
That it is October and your making Christmas stuff.. for shame.
diregamer
Right there with you Neelm3.
iwanttobebobdylan
Don't act like Christmas doesn't feel like 2 days after Halloween.
mellowdrama
Exactly, thank you.
hereforcake
The concept I will never understand is how being gay is somehow synonymous with pedophilia.
Jenvas
for some being gay is a step on a slippery slope. Often those people didn't learn to think for themselves, just believe an old book.
mal5341
Rub it into her face that the friend doesn't have a mom because she fucking died. Let her 'shame on you for not having a mom' comment burn.
PianoMan2112
OK:1, why isn't she in jail for making false rape claims, and 2, why wasn't SHE (permanently) kicked out for being verbally abusive to kids?
JohnnyTitelips
Well, in response to your question about the false rape claims, if you look closely you'll see that OP mentioned that she's a woman.
Blodgarmpls
Your point?
TheWombatStrikesAgain
At #2: Because the whole shit will probably be downplayed as her having "extremely conservative/christian values".
CactusMassage
Can see it now "Devout Christian persecuted by homosexual couple"
T800M101
I as well would like answers to questions 1&2.
imjeremiad
Because people make things up to earn fake points on the internet?
Pinkishu
Because jail is to keep dangerous people away from society while reforming them, not for punishment.
idontevenknowsillymonkey
Yeah, that's what lynch mobs are for.
Blodgarmpls
Please.. It's for punishment. They should be for rehabilitation, but they aren't.
DVSBSTrD
That does not answer the question.
MaineMariners
Freedom of speech means she can't be criminally tried to saying that. Doesn't mean a civil lawsuit for slander can't be brought to court :)
inkgrrl
Hate speech isn't considered freedom of speech. Or are we not living in the 21st century yet?
Nubum
Except then you get people calling everything they don't like hate speech in order to silence everyone that doesn't agree with them.
MaineMariners
All I was saying was if she can't go to jail for saying that, then she can definitely be sued.
milyhow
If someone was legitimately concerned for the safety of a child I'm glad they reported it even if it turned out they were wrong.
DVSBSTrD
Still doesn't change the fact that she was wrong. False rape claims ruin lives while the accuser gets off scot-free.
somekindafuckingidiot
i dont think "gay dad" is legitimate concern
Lizaderp
Agreed. But the problem is the lady's logic is homosexual = pedophile and rapist. She doesn't need any further evidence than that.
theonlyconsistantthinginlifeisitsinconsistancy
We dont know that, we dont know anything, we have a simple imgur post as the source of our information.
goldenspider666
Yes. If only that were true. She probably heard it was a gay couple and to her that was all the evidence needed
milyhow
I understand in this particular instance the lady is a bigot, but in general you shouldn't be put in jail for reporting possible child abuse
Siege223
There is a clear distinction between reporting possible abuse and reporting someone because you dont agree with their life style/orientation
Notracistgrandpa
Yes but it's not possible to prove which one it really is
Siege223
That's what investigations are for, and yes it is.
jtb1313
And if you report a simple gay couple then you risk creating a boy how cried wolf situation
LarvaLamp
Mmmm... I'd say that's a dangerous thought pattern as well. What if you are a bigot, see some crime taking place, and report it, but the(1)
LarvaLamp
(2) response is "Yeah, we know you don't like those people, so we don't believe you", and the crime continues? It should still be lookedinto
glassweaver
@OP - Hey, can't say I ever had a dad, but I'm fine. As long as you're a good parent and love unconditionally, your genitals don't matter.
burningpoetry
You need to either report that woman to the administration or find your kid a new school. Her behavior is not acceptable.
damspam
Dude I feel bad for the poor sperm-blossoms she's raising. Those kids are gonna be fucked up when they're older.
Winecellar
Johnny5dicks
No. He needs to tel her that he wants to change his ways...but believes only the kiss of a woman might bring him back. From her. 1/2
Johnny5dicks
Take pics and send to her husband. Destroy her life. Menacing laughter muawahahaha. 2/2
tamalero
Agree, its ok that you hate some people, but if you have to make someone else miserable for your beliefs. Then you're a Piece of shit.
MrTylerWpg
Why would you leave the school because of one homophobic mom? The teacher took his side so the school sounds fine.
iamlikelytoforgetthis
Daughter of lesbians here, I got my school to rewrite policies for this kind of thing.
Spongybunny
The school can't do anything about one kid's mom not liking the parents of another kid. The best they can say is "work it out yourselves".
echo852
It is a good thing that the teacher told her off, but the teacher also should have told her to leave.
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TheTurtleStoleMyFuckingPoptart
Somebody needs to start c&p'ing comments with many downvotes, in case of deletion. Now I'm curious...
DahPrincess
K now, that's a bit far. And a lil creepy.
Krakencrotch
FuryM0nk
Dave.. you're a monster
SumoSGazer
I don't even understand your thought pattern for this
charismaticneutral
Cuz the mom reported @OP for raping his kid when in reality they leave the door open during bathtime
charismaticneutral
Wow y'all are sensitive
Batkhaan
what did he say?
SumoSGazer
He said something along the lines of "butt pound her kid out of spite"
JokeDudeR
What was the comment?
DahPrincess
He said the gay dad's should fuck the mean mom's daughter, as a form of punishment to the mom. Not those words, but that was the message.
Krikr
Did you ever hear the Tragedy of Darth Plagueis the Wise? It's a Sith legend. Darth Plagueis was a Dark Lord of the Sith so powerful and ...
Blodgarmpls
AND?? We've been waiting 7 hours man! I need to know!
Lizaderp
Honestly, I'd go outside the school system and get a lawyer involved.
crapper86
What's a lawyer gonna do? People are allowed to hate gays just as much as a person is allowed to be gay.
mikeatike
False rape claims?
NasaFakedTheMoon
They aren't however allowed to cause undo emotional harm to the child nor the parent. If prove of damage can be shown they could be legally
NasaFakedTheMoon
Accountable
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NasaFakedTheMoon
Its not about the level of the act but the damage caused by it and the intent behind it such as purposely embarrassing someone for being gay
NasaFakedTheMoon
2 loss of sleep, and general discomfort" amount others. http://www.theemploymentlawyers.com/Articles/Emotional%20distress%20damages.htm
NasaFakedTheMoon
1) You'd be surprised. They fall under IIED claims. Here is a list of cases where people sued and won for things such as "excessive crying
KainWhisper
You're wrong @OP. Mothers aren't very important. PARENTS are very important. Mother, father, wildebeest. Loving your kid is what matters.
thegaardian
Is this what they teach in college now?
ImGonnaRickRollYou
But if there's no mom, there's nobody for celebrities to grab right in the pussy. My dad is keeps defending Trump's shit, I can't let it go!
TheDamnDirtyDancer
Very well said, I say
Fiss
The wolves who raised me are still like a pack to me. I love them so much!
nutellafetish
wildebeest
StoChastic84
Well said
MonkeyHittingPianoDramatically
Well well, well said
ARNPTweed
My mom chose drugs instead of raising us. I think my dad did a pretty fantastic job. In my book, dads are wayyyy better than moms.
TachyonCode
Mom's still around, but I grew up with Dad, who was later joined by other dad. I'm so fucked up, I'm almost normal. (Thanks mom.)
TachyonCode
Clarification: Mom is the reason I'm fucked up at all.
kungfungus
Amen!
OhNoNotThatGuyQuickEverybodyHide
Tarzan did pretty well for himself...all things considered.
TemporaryUzername
but a wildebeest would have to be a mom or dad, no?
JapAnus
While you can't ignore the differences between the genders, what's most important is that you're not being shitty to the kid.
TheAlviss
Yeah. One kid was raised by a dragon. You guys see that documentary?
aninvisiblemaniac
love you mom, dad, wildebeest mom, wildebeest dad
ianbopno
Ok it's great that this kid has two loving parents in their life but to say that mothers aren't important is stupid.
StickyAndBrownStick
Apache Attack Helicopters pre-surgery?
MyFavoritesIsAllComics
I feel like a mother figure is really important but yeah def doesn't have to be a woman
DailyShepherdPicture
Or a mother, having an amazing grandma Will do the trick too
MyFavoritesIsAllComics
Which would be a mother figure. I completely agree
carebearsandstares
Whats funny is Russell Brand is actually an annoying self righteous cunt. I'm sure @OP isn't though.
HaniiPuppy
"All mothers matter" ~Romulus.
samsonguy920
You forgot Deadpool.
GorramBatman
In the jungle, the mighty jungle...
pontiacgirl75
the lion sleeps tonight
GorramBatman
AAAAAAH-EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEHHHHHHHHHH
ninjadanny
Kids need a stable, loving household. That can come in many forms.
KjTheLightning
also stabilty varies depending on kid's view on family and life(if the kid thinks having 2 dads won't make a stable life... yeah, there goes
KjTheLightning
all the positivity, even though it is fault of no one pretty much, the kid will learn)
Insomnia297
See, my parent loved me and they still did a pretty good job of fucking us all up.
RepostSadistic
The wildebeest do shit all over the place though.
KainWhisper
Dude. I have a seven year old son. He shit all over the place for years after being born!
RepostSadistic
Not saying shitting all over the place is a bad thing. Just mentioning, thats all.
RepostSadistic
Two wildebeest parents, one cup, and all that.
aleister94
This guy posts so much personal stuff I feel like I'm started to really get know to him
LastoftheFireflies
I love my wildebeast of a mothet
ZeetR
This, so much this, from someone who has two pretty shitty parents. I'd take two loving dad's any day.
LaurenBlackFox
I grew up with my grandparents. No Dad, mother worked nights. Love is the most important thing. Doesn't really matter how it's packaged.
Celebrimbor
Dude you can't say stuff like that. The wildebeests killed Mufasa, a father who loved his son.
NorbertDemeter
Wildebeest... i'll just laugh myself to sleep.
FarNorthFarLeft
Sometimes in life you work with what you got and sometimes "what you got" is a hell of a lot better than what you don't.
mikeatike
Yeah, I can't understand a "moms only" or "dads only" event at a school.
lDoNotThinkltMeansWhatYouThinkltMeans
as a wildebeest loved being, I can confirm. <3 my WB
ThisGifTho
Fucking lost it at wildebeest. +1
TheSwedishMoose
Where was the last place you fucking saw it?
JohnnyTitelips
I appreciate what you're trying to say, but mothers are actually important. :P
demiofunfa
Not really.
GraphicsInterchangeFormat
How else u gon be born?
demiofunfa
Well yeah, of course she's important to me being born, haha. But, growing up? Mom isn't needed after that. Btw, my mother did raise me.
HelmutSchmidt
This guy gets it.
Radicool21
Just like how Doofenschmirtz was raised by ocelots, and he turned out okay. Well, kinda okay.
KainWhisper
And that is straight up all that matters for a child. Fuck that bitch homophobe. She's an idiot. You keep doing you. 'Nuff said.
Yurikoibito
Straight up!
MasterOfPunpets
Phrasing..
Isaypoopythingsbecausemostofyouannoyme
*mic drop
AnythingStupid
abrakadumbass
well, i think @OP is actually doing his husband, but yeah.
MelfsAcidArrow
Agreed, though I think it takes 2. Whether it is grandparent or friend or aunt or spouse or whatever, you have to be able to take break
SomeCrazyNerd
Well it's nicer if one person doesn't hsve to do all the work but it's not suoer important that you have two.
EYBAYBAY
Hi im Antonia Wilde
TracyAllenParks
well said. kudos to OP!!
JackOfBlades88
Brb, telling my wildebeest I love her.
FunSized22
Damn....Word. Ima steal that argument next time someone has something to say about that. ^-^
BowlDestroyer
Took the words right out of my soul fam
Paraiyan
Precisely, genders are no longer bound to roles, nor roles to genders.
SturmFalke101
Wat
valiumkitty
You done said it
DickDastardly404
yeah, outside of the immunities passed on via breastfeeding, two dads is all good
Shohanna
JIC you were unaware, those immunities are passed to the child through the birth canal, but you knew that right?RIGHT? ignorant.
Flyndaran
I was born lactose intolerant but you seem to just be intolerant and stupid.
DickDastardly404
You seem to have missed the point I was making
DinosaurInaFez
A decent amount of kids WITH mothers aren't breastfed. And since kids aren't dying off in large numbers, I don't think it's an issue.
Flyndaran
I was born lactose intolerant so that dumb milk at all costs would have literally killed me.
DickDastardly404
yeah, I wasn't trying to make out that it WAS a big deal, but I think a couple of people took it the wrong way. I was just pointing out 1/2
DickDastardly404
that is literally the only problem, and not a big enough reason to disallow it. 2/2
DinosaurInaFez
Gotcha. Totally understand what you mean now.
ermerlerd
I think op had a point though. Having female influences in your life is important. But it doesnt have to be a mother
Flyndaran
That's sexist bullshit. Parenting is parenting. You don't need male and female parenting.
SturmFalke101
Wat
ermerlerd
I just said influences. I'm agreeing with op. They said that the kid has a grandma and aunts for influences, which is more than enough imo.
MindlessChaos
Mothers and Fathers play important roles in nurturing offspring. There always will be areas where it is not a seemless transition to LGBT.
Flyndaran
Get your antiquated sexist/homophobic bullshit back in the 20th century where it still wouldn't belong.
MindlessChaos
So, you do not agree that Mothers and Fathers play important roles? Why bother trying to get orphans adopted? LGBT are forced to find (1)
MindlessChaos
ways to compensate... This is common knowledge and was even stated by OP when talking about Aunts and Grandmas... it's compensating..
xtallll
You forgot about meerkats.
sexytangerine
When I was a young meeeeeeerkat!
inthehole
thepropug
Nietsallinav
Man, that was my shit.
anonwhymouse
And wild boars!
Shardikprime
and bears. you cant have enough bears hands at hand
byohzzrd
Bunga is doing just fine!
LandofNightmares
Simba turned out fine.
TheMershedPerderder
No, wildebeest stampedes are dangerous.
snuzzled
Yeah, the last time I heard "wildebeast" and "dad" in the same sentence I cried all night.
Sarcee
I found Simba!
SettiBetti
So are panthers and bears but that didn't stop Moogli, did it?
DailyShepherdPicture
Hey im sorry but gay People are usually the best parents a kid could wish for they had to move mountains to get a child they're amazing!
ToastyMozart
Yeah, for the most part the US adoption system is rigorous/litigious enough to weed out the crappy parents.
samsonguy920
They stand out because they usually have to fight hard to have a child in their home. Whether it be through custody battle or adoption. >
samsonguy920
> That makes it easy to realize their place as the parent.
ImGonnaRickRollYou
Yeah I'm intimidated from being a father because of NPH and his partner (husband?) being way cooler parents than I ever could be.
KjTheLightning
low expectations on yourself or your ability to raise a kid for technical reasons(e.g. money) are some of the most common reasons for not
KjTheLightning
having kids after biological reasons(opinions are big, but usually most people rethink that when they go trough middle age or earlier)
ImGonnaRickRollYou
I'm also scared because admittedly, I'm not a mature 27 year old. Not from a lewd joke point, but because I don't know how to adult.
zFUBARz
I'm only a bit older and the secret is that you never lose that feeling. Go sit with some old dudes at a coffee shop. They're just like you.
raemoondoe
Some of the best parents are the parents who have not forgotten the magic of childhood... Do not be discouraged.
Penishat
Personally i think my wildebeest raised me as best as they could. Still terrfied of going near rivers though.
SemiOmni
Let's be honest here, most feral children don't end up fitting well into society.
TheMarkofKite
Aquaphobia, the pain of wildebeest children everywhere. It's real, it's difficult and we need your support.
ArmedWithATediore
I'm laughing so god damn hard
udmurt
I never had a wildebeest figure in my life, never learned to stampede :(
Bardcrest
Play Starcraft as the Zerg, you will learn quick.
LazyTheAssCat
Oh god, the Starcraft hit me so quick. I have to admit a begrudged laugh
Bardcrest
Good....Good....let the laughter flow through you.
tiduszecht
kekekekekekekekekeke