Girl tips - all credit to Kendra Wells on The Toast

Jan 18, 2014 4:30 PM

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I am always nervous yet aroused around attractive women.

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

a sufferer of bitchy resting face

12 years ago | Likes 152 Dislikes 0

tip 1 could get dangerous when you get down to splitting the last atom...

12 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Re #4: This is bad advice. Wear clothing that is flattering for your body. Why wear clothes that don't look good on you?

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

I liked these, gj artist.

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

#5 is so true. I had a GF that refused to fart in front of me or poop at all when she was around me...

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

As a girl, all I took away from this is that the URL kinda says "Bilbo."

12 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

Me too!!!

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Source direly needed! GIMME!

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 2

If you hadn't seen it yet - http://the-toast.net/author/kendra-wells/

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

As a man, I shall now start shopping for my bikini.

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Carleigh! LOOK AT YOU! You shot up here! great job with your first front pager! @xtabi99

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Aww :3 Thanks Granty

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

FUCK WOMAN ETIQUETTE, I EAT ALL THE CAKE. IT'S MINE. ALL MINE.

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I hate it when people don't finish food. So wasteful.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Female Mantis is *always* in season

12 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Isn't the ladywoman who embraces number 8 the kind you want to high five then awkwardly try to ask out? My kind of ladywoman

12 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

+1 for number 4. Strut your stuff!

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

I remember standing in a line then someone apparently brushed my arm. She thought I was "feeling her up" and tried to push me.

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

#4, bikini body. No, you don't look fine. If you're a whale, 80% of people won't be pleased by your looks. but you shouldn't fucking care.

12 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 2

As a queen sized lady, yes, thank you.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

The correct term is "scaroused"

12 years ago | Likes 47 Dislikes 1

I loved all of these. "Why do you think I bought all that Jamie Lee Curtis yogurt!?"

12 years ago | Likes 52 Dislikes 1

Added note to the bikini tip: Make sure you get a bikini that is made for your size. Too big or small looks odd. (applies to all clothes)

12 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

I like three and six.

12 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 0

As a guy being generally curious, how often do those two actually happen? I don't think I've ever done them, outside of accidents or photos.

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I like five and seven.

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Who the fuck told you ladies that we are in denial about your bodily functions? We might be confused by your PMS but shitting... c'mon?

12 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 2

Guys.

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

LALALALALA GIRLS DON'T POOP LALALA

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Yeah, number four isn't true. Dress appropriately for your body type - no matter WHAT shape you are.

12 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 13

Imgur-Where we'll normalize everything to hell. EVERYTHING.

12 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 3

That's not what "normalize" means.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

SRSLY

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Anyone, Any size or shape can wear anything. If you don't like what someone wears, or how they look in it. DON'T LOOK

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 4

I know, right? The kids be like, "I don't wanna see your erect cock," and I be like, "If you don't wanna see my cock on this playground, go"

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Surely "appropriate" is subjective? I'm not tailoring my wardrobe to please every damn person who sees me, I'd rather be comfortable

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 3

There is a degree of subjective, yes, but the collective subjective is called 'appropriate', and surely you know what that is?

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

I can relate to Girl Tip #3. I can't help my natural bitch face.

12 years ago | Likes 175 Dislikes 2

Great part about being a guy. I get the comments, but it's never condescending.

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I call mine Chronic Bitchface.

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I was once told my natural resting face looked like "the grumpy internet cat."

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Ugh. I've been dealing with that since middle school. "Why don't you smile?" or "Smile, you look better that way" -_-

12 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

seriously. everyone at my new gig thinks i'm a huge bitch. I just look like this =(

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

when people tell me to smile, i tell them to fuck off.

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

No one tells you to otherwise manipulate your face to suit them. But, Smile! is acceptable while being passive aggressively intrusive.

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Next time I'm minding my beeswax and someone says, Smile!, I'm gonna derp.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Damn I hate the onslaught of "you look pissed off!" whenever I'm in neutral. :| Well, after the 5th comment, yes now I am pissed. Agh.

12 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

They tell you to smile because they believe women exist to be pretty for them. Not because you look bitchy.

12 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 1

I think I found the feminist

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

that's also why i don't wear makeup

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

A friend came up with a nickname for mine: "Stop making your fishface!"

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

a sufferer of bitchy resting face

12 years ago | Likes 27 Dislikes 0

My brf is hardcore..

12 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

I don't get why it is acceptable for people to tell a stranger to smile. Why the EFF?!?! Being told to smile NEVER makes me want to smile.

12 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

oh I know, this one customer at my work is always really horrible, and rude and eveyrhting. At the end she always says "how come ur not smi

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

iling??" stuipid bitch

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

so.. are you actually a bitch? I am a woman, and I do think "natural bitch face" women are actual bitches deep down. true??

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

Nah. I'm really shy but once I open up I'm pretty nice.

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

interesting!

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

i like how the bikini one had a guy in it. :3 that made me happy.

12 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 4

no no it's girl tips so I thought at least it was depicting an example of a lady with a 3rd body type all the body types are allowed

12 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

Or, transwoman.

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

A transwomen's body is still an example of a 3rd body type.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

True.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

honey why :-(

12 years ago | Likes 500 Dislikes 2

because she bought jamie lee curtis yogurt

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

^ My mother's comment on every single picture of me on facebook.

12 years ago | Likes 58 Dislikes 0

My mother's response to me on most of my photos: "You're fucked up, kid.. just like your momma"

12 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

lol same here

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I read that as "homey why"

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

totally didn't realize that it WASN'T "homey" until I got to the comments! xD

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yeah, this was the one that had my upvote.

12 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

This made me burst out laughing

12 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 0

All of them had me laughing. My fiancé is looking at me strangely now.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Source is http://the-toast.net/author/kendra-wells/

12 years ago | Likes 141 Dislikes 1

would there happen to be tumblr? Cause I'm having trouble find the real one.

12 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

http://kendrawcandraw.com

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

You guys are awesome! thanks!

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

np :3

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

The first girl in #4 is BEYOND obese, we need to stop normalizing that with this "you're beautiful anyway" bullshit. She's DYING people.

12 years ago | Likes 38 Dislikes 47

I'm gonna guess she (THE FUCKING CARTOON) knows she is overweight. That doesn't mean she should feel like shit all the time.

12 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 7

She's a drawing..

12 years ago | Likes 26 Dislikes 14

And Barbie is just a doll, but she gets blamed for enforcing negative body images all the time...

12 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 3

Nice comeback.

12 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 3

I'm fat as fuck and I don't have any "fat side effects" just because someone is large doesn't mean it affects their health.

12 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 20

That or maybe just possibly there's a chance that the side effects aren't immediately apparent.

12 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 3

Give it time.

12 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 3

You are an exception then, or you are just unaware of adverse effects you have. Almost all obese people have health problems.

12 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 2

I'm tested frequently for "fat" health problems and it's usually lower than normal

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Usually, huh? Lower than normal, huh?

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 3

Well there was once or twice where my blood pressure was higher than normal because of being mad at having to wait

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

You should stop believing what the media feeds you.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Let's talk in a couple of years when you need triple bypass, kiddo.

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 2

I'll stop believing that "all fat people are beautiful" when you stop believing that all fat people will die of heart attacks.

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

Thinking that being overweight does not have adverse effects on every fat person's health is naive.

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Thinking that being overweight has adverse effects on every fat person's health is naive.

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

neither do smokers. at first.

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

Really? let's talk again in a few years!

12 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 3

Lets talk again, and you'll learn that I'm still fine :) Just looking obese does not 100% mean you have a bad heart.

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

And I say this as someone who has to lose "just 15" kg, because I got high cholesterol and I am not fit and don't feel healthy!

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It's not just the heart, it is diabetes, stroke, high blood pressure, sleep apnea,lack of fitness,high cholesterol and blood lipid values!

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Don’t forget about increased risks for certain cancer types.

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 3

so what you meant to say was..." I find fat people to be gross" and your opinion is fine but don't be spouting bullshit like it's fact

12 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 8

His comment made me angry too. No one tells the malnutritioned, eating-disordered supermodels to put clothes on and stop "normalizing (1/2)

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 4

them" because we as a society ARE doing that. No one ever talks about what those girls have to go through because they don't care (2/3..)

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

they just look good and that's all that matters. When did being able to wear a bikini have anything to do with how healthy you are? (3/3)

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

I wonder if the person who said people who look like they are dying are unattractive says the super skinny models are ugly as well

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

That was my initial thought. I can't take reddit/imgur for this very reason. I am not even fat, but I feel shame in reading some of these

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

Think that the unhealthy larger people are not good.Such as people who are at an extremely high risk of heart disease or wheeze just walking

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

You are entitled to your opinion but what does someone else's fatness have to do with you...at all?

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

Well if taxes are going into healthcare it kind of does.

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

It doesn't... I'm overweight myself. I'm just saying if someone looks like they're dying it shouldn't be called beautiful...

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

We're all dying...

12 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 4

Not all of us cost the health care system billions because of our shitty food habits though ...

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 4

We cause the health care system billions because smoking, alcohol abuse, mental problems, etc. Everyone has a vice. You are no better than

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Yeah, everyone probably has a vice (or several) but not every vice affects our societies equally.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 3

As an individual, your vice probably will affect healthcare costs more than a fat person's will. There are a lot more expensive treatments

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

a fat person. Get over yourself.

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Make no mistake, I hassle smokers and alcoholics all the same. Mental probs are often not the person’s fault, not sure why you included ’em.

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 3

Ok. *shrug*

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Yeah, right, shrug it off like that isn’t a big deal :|

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 5

You want to argue. I don't.

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

See, you say that like you're concerned for her health, but with all the fat shaming it just comes off as patronizing and insulting.

12 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 9

See, you say "fat shaming" but really you've been SO INDOCTRINATED by the normalization of obesity your perspective has been skewed.

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 8

Obesity is probably the biggest health problem in the US, period. It's a very personal topic for a lot of people, so we have to be (1)

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

extremely cautious so we address this issue without antagonizing those who are suffering. It's not what you said, it's your delivery. (2)

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

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12 years ago (deleted Dec 6, 2014 10:50 AM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

Uh, not helping. Like, at all.

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Why isn't he concerned about the health of the pale girl w/ the ribs showing? She could be underweight and in dire need of attention too!

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 4

wait this is just blatant fat shaming nvm

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 4

Talk to a doctor. Seeing ribs isn't unhealthy. You have a skewed understanding of healthy body composition.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

She still has tits tho’ so I doubt that her body fat ratio is on the unhealthy side. But who knows, you might be right after all. Let’s ask.

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 3

1. She doesn't have tits, that's just a bikini bra. That's what they look like. 2. Boob jobs are a thing amongst waifs in Hollywood (1/2)

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

3. Why people can't just admit that this is less to do with health and more to do with attractiveness. Which is what the tip was addressing

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

Not gonna lie, the Female Mantis would work on me.

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Yeeeeeeeeeah

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 3

I've never had a time where I wasn't happy to be scaroused.

12 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Hello.....

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MM YOU LOOK DELICIOUS

12 years ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 0

*scared boner intensifies*

12 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

be gentle

12 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Or don't.

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

reminds me of the Futurama episode on Amazon Planet

12 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 0

We take her to femputer. SHE KNOW WHAT DO

12 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

ME WANT SNU-SNU!!!!

12 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

The scared/aroused thing always works for me.

12 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Usually stuff with aroused works for me. Tough there are situations where it's very inconvenient .

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Then you'd love my best friend :D

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

how quickly would I get scaroused?

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Scared yet aroused is the best form of arousement.

12 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

Maybe if she was Black Widow.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

"I'm nervous yet aroused." I have this reaction so often.

12 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I'm Scareroused.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Yeeeeeeeeeah

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

I AM the Female Mantis.

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I've had it used on me. Horrifying, yet effective.

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Reminds me of that one episode of Buffy though...

12 years ago | Likes 52 Dislikes 0

i was just watching buffy... i am way past that episode but i was just watching buffy

12 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

Poor Xander...

12 years ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 0

This statement applies throughout most of the Series, especially Anya's death, seriously WTF man, she got halved & no-one else blinked much.

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

I know! None of the girls even said anything, it was Andrew who went to him. Plus, that whole Darth Willow earlier really sucked for him.

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Damn that brought it all back, Andrew's only one saw her fall, Buffy etc were like meh fuck Anya. Losing eye, torture, broke, Xander :'(

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1