Dad dump

Dec 30, 2018 6:26 PM

smellycat115

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I have a complicated relationship with my father

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Called my dad he wishes you all the best from australia

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Lost my dad 20 years...still hurts

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If someone makes a shopping list for me and I think I will have to call, I tell them to write a more detailed list or come with me.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I approve of this

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Lost my dad five years ago. Call your dad or your mom. You’ll want to hear their voice again one day and you may not be able to.

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I feel both inspired and personally attacked.

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Seeing these types of posts makes me wish I had a nice fun dad

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I'm driving down to surprise my dad on the 1st! He has no idea. So excited.

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Remember: You probably ruined your dad's life.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Wrapper eating dad is a dad to be feared. His hunger insatiable, his will unbendable, he is a harbinger of the end times.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I'll be seeing my dad for the first time in months tomorrow, as well as my grandfather. Honestly can't wait.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

My dad used to be an inspector for the public housing here. He was sent for training to supervise the abatement (removal) of lead based/

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paint and asbestos. When he got his certification, he declared himself a master-abater. Dear old Dad.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Wait? Freddie Mercury is alive??

7 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Who puts milk in their tea?!?!

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 3

What do you put in yours?

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

The bee one absolutely made my day. +1

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I have a pos for a dad. Things like this really make me wish for a dad I never had ?.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Lost my dad this year to cancer. I miss him terribly

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

#9 What makes it better for us Danes is the fact that "Far" means dad in Danish

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

#18 - Ever notice it's always NASA with these stories? Weird how every dad works at NASA

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

My dad works at NASA. Can confirm he says "do I look like a rocket scientist" at every available opportunity.

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

#9 Far is the danish word for "dad", just makes it more fun.

7 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Swedish as well ...

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“How ‘bout, NO! You crazy Dutch bastard!”

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bee suit is pure win

7 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 0

My laugh was audible.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

That one was pretty damn good.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Far means dad where I come from. Dident see fart in like 5 minutes

7 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

Farfar!

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Which is?

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Norway, Sweden, Denmark. But more commonly used as "dad" in Norway and Denmark, in Sweden it is more like saying "father" when you say it.

7 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I don't get it. At all.

7 years ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 0

Tea means gossip

3 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

And why is his profile pic Firelord Ozai?

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Because his dad skills are on fire.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

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Where?

7 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

black twitter

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

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Oh. I've literally NEVER heard it used in that context before. And I have a lot of Drag Queen friends

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Probably the UK.

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 4

Not anywhere in the UK that I’ve ever heard about.

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Nope

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Not where I live.

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I got the urge to call my Dad all of a sudden

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I’ve recently become a dad myself, and I got the urge to go to Amazon and order a bee suit. They’re only $39.99!

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Are you African American? Because if you're calling your dad, no one will pick up.

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 16

Your an idiot

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You’re*

7 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

What an ironic comment

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Ikr

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How am I an idoit when you don't know proper grammar?

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An *idiot.

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Was testing you

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#2 - I'm not saying that's a lie, but I'll let Will Ferrell explain my feelings

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Yeah, lets risk human lives.. I want it to be fake. And yes, im fun at parties.

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You obviously don't live in a small town my dude

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Maybe not this extreme but at a stretch I could buy it in a small town. Especially if you know the officer .

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Even if that officer is his best buddy I'd expect a "jesus christ Frank what the fuck is wrong with you" for going 90 in a 55.

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Yeah I agree. I've lived in a small town my entire life and I could KINDA see something like this. But no where on this level

7 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

They probably were just exaggerating 90 in 55

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Call your dad, folks. Mine died 5 years ago and it still stings. We fought for years, and he was complicated, but I'd love to hear his voice

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Same. Lost my dad 6mo ago. Spent several years at odds but we put a lot aside for my kids' sake. He adored them. Wish I had made amends tho.

7 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Nah

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No, eff that guy. I bet your dad was ok. Will never have regrets when mine died other than for him being a POS

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This year I wrote my elderly dad a 3 page letter thanking him for being a great dad and grandpa. He cried and hugged me

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Not even three months..

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5 years for me due to suicide. I’d give anything to hear him make dumb jokes about three years too old.

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Minw passed away three years ago. We didn't fight but I sure do agree I would live to talk to him and hear his voice.

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My dad and I got along great but to get to him I had to speak to my mother. I didn't call often often. I regret that.

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(((Hugs)))

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What if your dad is emotionally dead to you & puts no effort into even seeing his grandkids????????????????????????

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Mine died 27 years ago. That sentiment of yours may lessen, but it doesn't go away.

7 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Man. Both my parents died and I wasn't around for either. Never thought I could feel so lost and overwhelmed, then it happened again.

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Never leave without saying I love you. Make sure they know how priceless and important they are to you.

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My dad disowned me. I want to know him but he doesn't want anything to do with me so... nope... hurts too much.

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17 years here, it never stops hurting

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As a dad who no longer has a dad - call your parents. And record them telling stories from their youth. You'll miss their voices one day

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Some times I'm kinda glad my dad wasn't in my life.

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I can hear the sentiment in your written txt, and it stings, deeply with feels.... But I'd still rather beat the shit out of my dad.

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My dad is an asshole. Not everyone has a great relationship with their family. And that's okay.

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Dad here. Grown up daughter here for Xmas and she's reverted to a 15yr old. Couch potato. Dad can you cook me breakfastWhat's for dinner?1/2

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Shopping with Mum can I have some cash from your stash. I know where it is I'll only take if you say no. She gave me a hug a ?$150 poorer..

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I want to ask for advice but I fear judgement or no one will reply.

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It's great that you had a good relationship but not all of us want to call our dads for various reasons.

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I don't have a dad

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Lost mine 5 years ago to cancer. Cherish them folks, because when they are gone you'll have days like mine today - where I just want to talk

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Lost my Dad 2 years ago. My life hasn't been the same since. I totally relate.

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Lost mine 2 years ago I'm only 18 and it sucks bc he worked alot and I didnt really get to know him

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I haven't spoken to my dad in 30 years. Not all dads are worth keeping in touch with, I don't regret the silence between us.

7 years ago | Likes 44 Dislikes 0

Can I speak to him a bit?

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I’m only 25, by I haven’t spoke to mine in almost 4 now. Outsiders always put way too much value on the fact that you share blood. He toxic

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Lost mine when I was 12. Shit time to lose your dad and I miss the small amount of time I did have with him every day. Never gets easier

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My dad died 2 years ago. He reached out to me for help and i couldnt. I lived with the guilt of contributing to his death.

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I'm so sorry for your hurt over your dad's death. If you couldn't help you shouldn't feel guilty. Please consider counseling. It can help.

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Mine died this year. He passed away unexpectedly at his favorite club. We Also had a complicated sort of relationship. Do what this guy says

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I haven't spoken to my dad since I was 8. He wasn't a terrible dude but I also don't miss him. No anger, only apathy.

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My dad left 15 years ago contacting me out of the blue a few years ago. I still don't know if I'm comfortable talking to him

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Tomorrow when its his bday

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Feel the exact same way about my dad, it's been 3 years ?

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Lost mine 5 years ago to alcoholism. I feel like I'll always have questions about it. But I miss him so much.

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My dad sent me a text message a week before my birthday apologizing for not being able to come see me because he bought a truck instead

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In short, "meh".

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This is what I keep saying to my brother. He tells me he'll be fine if Dad dies. Breaks my heart.

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Guess I should have said when he dies.

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So sorry to hear that. I'm actually waiting at the hospital to see my Dad right now, not sure what's wrong with him. Could be serious.

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Just left my dad at the hospital, hes91 , so sad ,him wishing to join my mom, I come here, to laugh at what you fools write, thanks

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Prayers and best wishes for you. My heart goes out to you and your family. It's a really tough thing.

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Praying for you and your dad. Hope is a quick, easy fix. Feel free to vent to me if you need.

7 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

You're awesome for saying that, I really appreciate it. Still waiting to figure out what's going on with him.

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I hope you get some good news soon

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Thank you. I appreciate that.

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New year's eve mark 6 for me :(. I would give everything I own and then some just to see him for another five minutes.

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Same sentiment for my grandfather. Twelve years since he died and I miss him still.

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Me too❤️

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me too.

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Have a voicemail saved from college from my dad just calling to check up on me. Never deleting that ish

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Me too. I lost that one and one from my grandma when my son was born but I still remember them.

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I have three from my mom who passed away in January this year. Forward the sound files so you never lose them!

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I had the same but when I upgraded to a new phone the voicemail was lost...

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This is why I always help people record messages from loved ones!!! And save it to their cloud accounts!!!!

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It'll be a good day when mine croaks. Sad to say but not all dads are great. If your is, then yes, go call him. Hug him. Have a beer or 5.

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Hey if mine croaks I'll be able to kick out his sorry ass second wife and kids from my mom's house.

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I’d look into that. Doubtful if they married

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Het name is not on the Mortgage. Dutch law says my mom can kick her out, she has no inheritance right. Only 2/3 kids do because 1/2

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Her first was born in wedlock and my mom didn't /hasn't acepted her as an official child. Dutch law.

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Oh ya! I'm looking forward to the news. Told him I will never see/speak to him or attend the funeral; that day was a good one too.

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Mine just died a few months ago. It seemed strange that everybody expected me to care. Most parents are at least decent but a lot aren't.

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You should get a bee suit. Apparently they’re only like 39.99 off of amazon.

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Chill

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Condolences to Londo, but he did set up a great reply

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I have tried for years with mine. Was invited my wedding 3 weeks ago, didn't come. We're civil but I refuse to go out of my way for him.

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I'm sorry your efforts were not honored. You'll never regret trying though. Civility may be all he has in him. That's not on you. Congrats!

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Thanks. Some of my family have cut ties for good. I can't seem to do it. I'm fine with being civil.

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PS: sorry to hear about your Dad.

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Sorry to hear about yours....

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It's his loss. I have an incredible step dad who steps up and sets the bar high for Dads everywhere.

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Lau-ra!

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Father!!

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"Lâu ra" if you want correct spelling of Vietnamese

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12 hours is not even that long of labor! Call me when you hit 36.

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According to google translate that actually means "wipe off" in Vietnamese.

7 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 2

It's "lâu ra" that means what Laura said.

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Yeah that's what I posted 6 hours ago :)

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My bad. I missed it :)

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Missing the accents. Di and Di in Vietnamese can mean go or whore depending on the access.

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Things often have double meanings though

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Needs to be lâu ra to mean long out. The â doesn't constitute a double meaning, it constitutes a distinct word.

7 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

How do you pronounce that?

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It's pronounced lâu ra

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