I'm never going to see my Mother again

Jun 20, 2020 10:00 PM

JimFriday

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I don't expect this to go anywhere, downvote if you must, I have no one to share my pain with right now and need to express my greif.
My beautiful mother has been battling Lung cancer since 2018. After her last treatment she weighed 89 lbs. She was admitted in Oakland today after testing positive for Covid-19. I'm sitting here with tears rolling down my face because I need to figure out how to tell my son that we can't ever see his 'Mimi' again.

I am so sorry for your loss.

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5 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I said goodbye to my mom over the phone too. It sucked. But the suffering is over and there’s comfort in that

5 years ago | Likes 295 Dislikes 1

One of life's cruel ironies - the moment you need your mother the most is the instant she is not there. We are all here for you tonight, OP

5 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I’m very sorry for you loss.

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Very sorry to hear about your mother’s illness and hope she pulls through.

5 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

The circumstances really suck. I’m so sorry that she’s been sick and for the Covid diagnosis.If she dies now, take time to grieve.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

My dad went to surgery and he left me a message that I didn’t get for a couple hours. He died during it. That’s a feeling that stays.

5 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Sorry op. I lost my father a few months ago. The only good part is it was before all this mess.

5 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Upvote for solidarity with your pain, OP. Lost my dad to liver disease over a long decline. If you're reading this thread, you're not alone.

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Any chance of a video call, at least? :(

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my mom back in 2019. I feel your pain

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

She sails to the far shores of the Undying Lands. Godspeed to her.

5 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 0

What can you see on the horizon?

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

If you need a chat buddy holler! I've got a good ear

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

take care, @OP

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I'm sorry @JimFriday . I lost my Dad three months ago.

5 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

So sorry @OP. Keep telling him all about her when you can.

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I'm sorry. I'm so, so sorry.

5 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

Lost my mom two weeks ago. We'll get through it.

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

You don't lie. you tell him what's going on, and that you have to fight for each and every breath you take in this wonderful horrible world

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Really sorry to hear that

5 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

Im so sorry, o.p.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Shout it into the void, we are the void. We will witness your pain. We will grieve with you as the ripples of your sadness spread. I'm sorry

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Hey praying for her health man ?

5 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 1

I think that time has passed

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Talk about the good memories with your child is one way to keep mum in your lives. Stay strong @OP.

5 years ago | Likes 93 Dislikes 0

You are good.

5 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

If you keep talking about her and sharing stories she stays alive in your heart.

5 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 0

This. My cousin was six when we lost our Grandma but my sharing stories and memories over the years kept her alive for my cousin.

5 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

What kind of monster downvotes such pain?

5 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 2

Welcome to the internet. Pick up a virtual club to fend off the edgelords and trolls.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Strength and solace to you, friend. I'm terrified of the day I'll lose my ma. Pretty much all the family I've got.

5 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

You got us too, fam

5 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Thanks bro.

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