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Oct 3, 2023 2:19 PM
hereswherethestoryends23
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voydlander
It takes time to find your balance, so enjoy with moderation.
FunkyButttlovin
Either flick the bean or jerk the gerkin
GravyDoctor
Hobbies and friends help, but it will take time. I went through a similar thing years ago, and it's hard remembering how to be your own person with agency again. I joined a few local games groups and started cooking and exercising.
SpeedBeetle
Try some gay stuff.
iwantlaughs
Congrats, you get to fall in love with yourself this time. Go out on dates and figure out what you like. Treat yourself the way you always wanted to be treated. Find a hobby, try new things, be spontaneous, be scheduled, be whoever you want to become, and love the new you. :)
kingkongkeom
Try not to drink alone too much out of boredom...it's a slippery slope.
CaptMal
Get a therapist, get good at being the best you while solo, only invite people in who enhance that.
peterbozeman
Have you tried mountain biking?
UnluckyLunkhead
Congrats, there is now nobody to tell you not to buy that motorbike.
BehindTheScenesBJ
MexicanWarMachine
Neither did I, buddy. But it turns out the answer is “enjoy”.
IdiotSavantTinker
lostontheway
i would recommend going to the gym and starting a hobby you always wanted to..
acetothermus
Meanwhile I've been single for over 25 years and have absolutely every idea what to do with myself.
lAmGnomeAnn
Love yourself. Take yourself on dates. Be alone with yourself. Learn what you like. Try to find out who you are devoid of others. It can be challenging, and also very rewarding.
ThePunishersVengefulBrother
You've been making accommodations in your own life for others. It's going to be tough to adapt, but we believe in you! Do the THING.
wurstkaesescenario
Masturbating. What else.
Davedavedavedavedave
PressMyButtonsBaby
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CaptainStinkyVonPoopberg
My brother went to Hawaii after his divorce and became a beach bum. Something to think about.
thatsecondweirdguy
Is this a recommendation or a cautionary tale?
CaptainStinkyVonPoopberg
Time will tell. He seems happy, though.
GanjaPlanet
You’ll have to date his brother and get back to us.
SgtDefaultGN
Damn, wish I thought of that