First-time interviewer vent

Dec 6, 2022 7:36 AM

timbuktoons

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I know it doesn't make sense. I was looking forward to being an interviewer so that I can be the person I look for in an interviewer. But had no idea it would be so stressful - it was like seeing myself instead of the candidate. I wanted the candidate to do well but they didn't and for some reason it feels like I didn't do well...

Never thought from that perspective. So the interviewee is also nervous? Interesting :O

3 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

They get easier. Try just having a conversation with them instead of asking the canned questions.

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

It really does get easier. And your goal of being the person you look for in an interviewer is a great one. Also, red is rad/blue is bad.

3 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Yeah I hate interviewing and I'm pretty bad at it.

3 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Best advice I got was. Follow your gut. You will know with in 5 mins if they are a good candidate.

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Oh man, I used to struggle giving interviews. I’d jump in & help when they got stuck. I had to force myself to hang back. It’ll get better!

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

You’re too caring little butterfly! Be hungry frog not butterfly! X

3 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It gets easier! Interviewing is a bit like speed dating. Both sides need to see if they’re a match - it shouldn’t be a one way conversation

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

And here I am on an interview panel in a Cat t-shirt or a Cat hoodie xD

3 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It makes sense because you are the face of the company at that point, and if you drive a good hire away or recommend a bad one it costs $$$.

3 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

It can take a while to get the hang of it. I used to take my inters with me to interview other interns. All of them said they were more ->

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Nervous being the interviewer than being interviewed in the beginning. The impostor syndrome kicks in hard.

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Interviewing in teams tends to help the firings go more smoothly.

3 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

"I do...JUST enough work so I don't get fired" holy fuck, was that movie ahead of it's time.

3 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I HATE interviewing people. Anyone can lie in an interview. Interviews are so fake. And im not grownup enough to interview people. What?!

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I did training, it's sort of like interviewing after the hire. Like give em a tour, get to know them, "do as I say not as I do..."

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

And then fly little bird *kick them out of the nest* training is a lot more chill but you have to do it much longer

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

If you're gonna empathize, you're not gonna make it in that biz. You need to harden your heart, and ask yourself what THEY can do for YOU.

3 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

I mean if they can't handle working 14 hour days, chained up to whatever, peeing in a bottle or clanging that hammer, then...why hire?

3 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

oh and raises after 6 months to a year. However there IS the signing bonus, of course. Need to reel them in.

3 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

It will get better the more you do them. The best thing to do is just have a conversation and get to know them first. Then get job specific.

3 years ago | Likes 34 Dislikes 1

Yes, just make sure you have some guardrails so you don't get into any area that could be misconstrued as discriminatory.

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

This the company I work for works like this and it was insane how quickly it settled me down and we got through everything we needed to-

3 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Pretty quickly and even had some good back and forth with questions from each other too which felt nice.

3 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0