Jun 29, 2016 1:14 AM
ShaneKeeling
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alasaurusrex
"The problem is not the problem, the problem is you attitude about the problem" -Captain Jack Sparrow
PiGiSpi
TBH I'm technically hispanic, but I have a thing for white people so I'd totally try it out
anxiously
Offence aside: Why, as a black person, would you want to date a white person who only wants to meet other white people anyway?
tablecat
This is cool and all, but I feel it's a little redundant. I mean, wouldn't most dating sites already be mostly white?
Baeloro
I love it when people realize that racism requires hate and discrimination to still be called racism.
madetheaccountjustforyou
Oh no, a dating website that saves you the trouble of using the "race" filter! My stars!
Oalsk
The real crime is that it costs 4 dollars
corvak
People want to meet white people? most sites will determine that based on question algorithms anyway.
Everyone needs fair treatment by government, to be considered on merit and personality, not colour for employment. Dating is a private thing
SidFinch168
Where da white women at
rittentimothy
wherewhitepeoplemeet.com
nevergoingtogiveyouupnevergoingtoletyoudown
I have a problem with the membership fee cause it probably has ads too.
davidbowieeyes
Imgur has taught me a lot about how oppressed white men feel- not the reality of any oppression, just how exquisitely sensitive they are
RikkordF
I mean when the most vocal voices seem to constantly attack white men, can you really blame them?
I hear you but I get the impression we disagree on what THE most vocal of voices is saying & for how long it's been said
Textuality
I honestly don't blame them these days. Every single "activist group" basically screams about how "white men are the problem."
That's a good point- noted.
uRB4N
Black centered shows like BET were created because white establishments refused to allow blacks and other minorities in.
TwoWhiteMenArguingLoudly
nope definitely made to oppress white people. don't let imgur think any different.
That's not true at all. BET was started because a former lobbyist for the cable industry wanted to make his own network. Not due to racism.
It can be both. That's why Asian Americans have called to start their own after the white washing fallout.
Whhpssh
People need to stop looking for all the reasons they are being oppressed. Fuck off. Live your life in a way that makes you happy.
asnakeman
If I were on a dating site it would be called "WherePeopleWaitFuckYouIHateEveryone.com"
ImOnlyHereForTheNudity
PREACH IT, BROTHER! (☞ ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)☞
theaceofthespade
Slavoj Žižek made the interesting point that by denying white people opportunities to celebrate their color/whatever to the same (1)
Asian person," etc. but white people are discouraged from proudly expressing such an idea, then they are left with: "I'm a person" (3/3)
extent that other races do, we maintain our status as the "default" people. If everyone is saying, "I'm an African person, I'm an (2)
LZYRMN
If all black people had his mentality, imagine how peaceful shit would be.
Sokonomi
Blacks just get angry about anything that does not involve them, coincidental or not.
gitarookefka
For example, all the random downvotes y'all got
All 3 of them. I might need to ask the police to relocate me now.
I meant instead of understanding your point, they just auto-assume it's racism and downvote because it involves them
EzraFell
I totally understand personal preference, but I also think that the most complete solution for racism is for everyone to fuck each other.
Stanistani
We're already doing that! Oh, you mean sexually.
dennydorko
Senator Bulworth?
Exactly!
Cryptotis
Some people are only attracted to white people. Some people are only attracted to black people. It's not racism it's personal preference
ParanoidWithGoodCause
yeah next they'll be complaining that a dude refusing to suck another dudes dick is homophobic.
gtmiller
No, homosexuality is from birth.
Wimpymind
Almost. I v seen people claim its transphobia or misogyny when you dont feel attracted to "her". Nevermind the 300 lbs, and huge adamsapple.
koektrommel
Nah. They were going on how being gay was misogynistic last time I checked.
why not both? damned if you do, damned if you don't sounds about right.
userhoagie
Some American Statistics: Non-Hispanic White 63.7%; Non-Hispanic Black 12.2%
interesting. I thought white would be much higher actually
Hispanic or Latino 16.3 %
eagerophiuchus
This is from Utah. ...Utah is 89% white.
Skibearbumm
Actually only 81%
haha, wow. no reason for this then
fuzyfac65
I believe there are sites like these for many different races and orientations so let's not start with the "poor me's" or with the attitudes
AnalBeadsPulledOutLikeStartingALawnmower
Damn straight.
darthbob88
Yeah I can't really hate the site, given the other *Meet sites, but you just know the users are going to be a bunch of horrible racists.
so all white people are racists then?
Not all, just anybody who wants to use a whites-only dating site, rather than settling for Okcupid or whatever.
so just if they are sexually attracted to other white people, glad we cleared that up. also not wanting to suck a cock make you homophobic.
You can do that on OKCupid, or Tinder, or any other broad-base website, you don't need WhitesOnly.com.
ProfessorExpert
I've always believed the same.. Dating site sure, people just straight up have preferences... BET I like because they play Some Get Rich or
Die Tryin, Hustle & Flow, Drumline, etc... Not many channels play those movies... But don't get mad if WET becomes available on cable
MadeUpMonkeyShitDotCom
WET is already every channel besides BET. CBS, NBC, ABC, etc. have no shows with black casts.
kanemano
W.E.T. is just another name for the Hallmark channel. :)
ThyCountess
Or cmt
HexxTech
White guy, hate country music, especially the new hybrid hillbilly raps my brother is getting into.
Modaflocker
Im not against it, but itd just be like most other channels lol as long as they have Boy meets world on it im cool
deadlaughter
"WHY ISN'T THERE A WHITE HISTORY MONTH?!"
*sarcasm intended*
There shouldn't really be racial history months anyways. Morgan Freeman has it right.
There are 11.
Lol
RoyFuckingMustang
I hate both the question and that particular answer
HopeHubris
Pff, that's just because white people are better at making history
d199y
shots fired
only90skidswillgetthis
That's why they all worship Arab and Semetic prophets?
White people killed the prophet-havers, and took them as their own
*cough* Mormons
Faelow
"Women's rights? What about men's rights? ...NO THATS SEXIST!"
gringissimo
It's not sexist, it's pathetic.
Careful, your retard is showing.
NationalistCanadianMooseWarrior
Yes, the second men need help with something it's pathetic. Gotcha.
Men's rights is less about rights and more about hating women.
myusernameisnotcreative
Men's rights are about hating women? How does that work? You're either trying to bait or painfully ignorant.
The misogynist assholes drown out the people with legitimate grievances.
UGotSarged
You're an idiot. No one is taking away our rights. "Men's rights" is nothing. We're already covered and always have been.
It's called a joke, you're an idiot.
Cuntard
tell that to my foreskin
ChuckTingleBattlesTheAssGoblinsofAuschwitz
"Men's rights" are something. We can be oppressed, raped, brutalized and abused as well. Equality speaks for everyone.
SingleNiceFedoraWearingClassyGuycautiondonotfriendzone
What rights do women not have?
wdasm42
Maybe in First world countries, where about 10% of the human population live
KarmaScope
Yeah it's really more about Men's issues. Which definitely do exist and are part of the problem; higher suicide, alcoholism, incarceration..
wastedbartender
Thank you
Gorapora
I have different standards for dating practices than, say, hiring, refusing service, or promoting based on race.
MetaphoricalFox
The problem is that people are not capable of separating the two. One thing leads to the other.
I won't date men either. Does that mean I won't hire them?
itsbre
I disagree, but maybe your experience is different. I'm white and grew up in a very multicultutal community. I'm not racist or prejudiced 1/
Kpizza96
I grew up in a multicultural community as well whenever race comes up in my friend group I'm labeled as a racist because I'm white 1/2
I make a small effort to be nice to everyone but I'm just racist to them??? I'm so glad I left those people 2/2
Wow those people suck. That's never happened to me. I've been called a racist for being white, but never by friends.
2/ but I'm not attracted usually attracted to guys that aren't white. My friend is the opposite, as she's black and only likes black guys.
The most vocal about their choices are often the least tolerant to others'. That's what I meant. And that often leads to some propagandas 1/
Then they regroup and want anyone who is not like them out their system. Offering the possibility for people to chose the color of their 2/
geekontwowheels
Refusing service leads to dating?
IAmGodot
I thought white people meeting other white people was farmersonly.com.
CascadianTwilight
When I lived in Portland, we got inundated with their awful ads. Biggest city in Oregon. Unbelievable.
swanglemydangle
No it's http://www.ghostsingles.com
succumbdefeat
That website is the polite way to say it
TrustMeImABassist
Nope, it's myspace.com
jugueterabioso
Hahahaha!
I joined and Tom instantly added me! I'm hawt!
Oh Tom, you are my only friend. Goku added me? Tom, you've been replaced.
You don't have to be lonely...
aselleus
At farmers only dot com!
HughJaynus
City folk just don't get it
ayymamacita
I think they meant to say minorities just dont get it. Its a joke move on
handsMoleman
Why hello there partner. Why don't ya sidle on up to this hitchin' post and take a good ol' gander at my grade A seed ;)
Lizaderp
No that's christainmingle
L3gionAir
i thought it was called college
I mean if you exclude yourself sure.
spiderqueendemon
As a white, married person...yes, yes it is. Colleges tacitly encourage it. Unless one is economically disadvantaged, of course.
greyandtwisty
Shit haha
rudejohn
Most white people I've met would find the concept of marrying a farmer horrifying.
thelovechildofhitlerandstalin
Oh bullshit, we're not that bad... except for our table talk... and manners...
Oh - I don't mean the farmer himself/herself. Farmers I know are cool. I meant the prospect of moving to the country away from civilization.
Obsession88
I was thinking jdate.com
Kippysweetpants
Why can't everyone just mind thier own shit. You like blacks... Cool. You like whites.. Cool. Asians.. Etc.. Who cares
Joksujuke
Why do Asians only get "etc" you racist swine?!
PinkSoDancy
Except the bloody dutch
I mean really, as a white hetero college educated male I have found all sorts of women Sexy. Have I predominantly slept with white women?
ekwalters
no, you've predominantly jerked off.
HughLaurie
How should I know?
gerdygerdygerdy
There are pretty people regardless of race. I don't see how you can narrow it to skin color.
Corbinator
My wife is from El salvador, my last girlfriends - Kenya, Somalia, Malaysia, white. My favorite porn - Japanese, Korean. I'm confused lol
Children... Why don't you take a seat over here.
CommanderWilliamTRiker
the Asian Persuasion
Squagglenater
Couldnt have said it better, if someone is only attracted to a certain race who cares. Stop worrying about how other people live their lives
somethingwittyandinteresting
Unless you're a damn dirty Dutchman
DJThuglifeSupreme
So what you're saying is, you don't like Asian people?
SquareDiesMad
I believe that asking everyone to accept each other is asking too much. We need to strive for being too apathetic to be a dick to strangers.
gamesthatiplay
This is why I'm intolerant of things. Not because I am, but because people need someone to rally against so they can feel good about them.
People who go on this site could still (and most probably do) accept black people. The thing is do they find dark skin attractive?
Doomboy911
You're asking for a lot of apathy. There, to strive to not strive. Hmm
GentlemanScientist
Wally? Is that you?
SometimesICanFreestyle
We need a new plague
ThomasTheWankEnglne
Dicks for strangers! dicks for everyone!
TheBritishAreComing
YEH! DOWN WITH @SquareDiesMad!
10BITable
i think apathy of that level could severely harm society actually^^
HamishSutherland
That's what being an Australian is all about. To lazy or too busy drinking beer.
We actually hate everyone but we can't be fucked doing anything about it
quicksilver1
This is probably the most Australian thing I've ever read.
nottheguyyouwerethinkingitwas
I'm a dick to everyone unless they prove I shouldn't be. That's how I acquired my best friends.
rm23fx
Probably gonna miss out on a lot of friends that way though, no one would want too talk if your first impression is "dick"
mrose50
And anyone who judges people on the first 3 sentences they say is not the kind of person to be friends with so it works out right?
DreadedLurgy
No, it doesn't. No one said anything about first impressions. The commentator said that people have to prove themselves to him. Utter shit.
Trust everyone, just don't trust the devil inside them. I've been nice before and got walked on. I'm not a complete dick, just dickish
2) hence being a dick keeps people away and only open up and mellow out once you think someone can be trusted. Works for me, keeps me safe.
Depends on your upbringing. I've always had to have the attitude to mistrust someone till I get to know them or I would definitely regret it
alasaurusrex
"The problem is not the problem, the problem is you attitude about the problem" -Captain Jack Sparrow
PiGiSpi
TBH I'm technically hispanic, but I have a thing for white people so I'd totally try it out
anxiously
Offence aside: Why, as a black person, would you want to date a white person who only wants to meet other white people anyway?
tablecat
This is cool and all, but I feel it's a little redundant. I mean, wouldn't most dating sites already be mostly white?
Baeloro
I love it when people realize that racism requires hate and discrimination to still be called racism.
madetheaccountjustforyou
Oh no, a dating website that saves you the trouble of using the "race" filter! My stars!
Oalsk
The real crime is that it costs 4 dollars
corvak
People want to meet white people? most sites will determine that based on question algorithms anyway.
corvak
Everyone needs fair treatment by government, to be considered on merit and personality, not colour for employment. Dating is a private thing
SidFinch168
Where da white women at
rittentimothy
wherewhitepeoplemeet.com
nevergoingtogiveyouupnevergoingtoletyoudown
I have a problem with the membership fee cause it probably has ads too.
davidbowieeyes
Imgur has taught me a lot about how oppressed white men feel- not the reality of any oppression, just how exquisitely sensitive they are
RikkordF
I mean when the most vocal voices seem to constantly attack white men, can you really blame them?
davidbowieeyes
I hear you but I get the impression we disagree on what THE most vocal of voices is saying & for how long it's been said
Textuality
I honestly don't blame them these days. Every single "activist group" basically screams about how "white men are the problem."
davidbowieeyes
That's a good point- noted.
uRB4N
Black centered shows like BET were created because white establishments refused to allow blacks and other minorities in.
TwoWhiteMenArguingLoudly
nope definitely made to oppress white people. don't let imgur think any different.
Textuality
That's not true at all. BET was started because a former lobbyist for the cable industry wanted to make his own network. Not due to racism.
uRB4N
It can be both. That's why Asian Americans have called to start their own after the white washing fallout.
Whhpssh
People need to stop looking for all the reasons they are being oppressed. Fuck off. Live your life in a way that makes you happy.
asnakeman
If I were on a dating site it would be called "WherePeopleWaitFuckYouIHateEveryone.com"
ImOnlyHereForTheNudity
PREACH IT, BROTHER! (☞ ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)☞
theaceofthespade
Slavoj Žižek made the interesting point that by denying white people opportunities to celebrate their color/whatever to the same (1)
theaceofthespade
Asian person," etc. but white people are discouraged from proudly expressing such an idea, then they are left with: "I'm a person" (3/3)
theaceofthespade
extent that other races do, we maintain our status as the "default" people. If everyone is saying, "I'm an African person, I'm an (2)
LZYRMN
If all black people had his mentality, imagine how peaceful shit would be.
Sokonomi
Blacks just get angry about anything that does not involve them, coincidental or not.
gitarookefka
For example, all the random downvotes y'all got
Sokonomi
All 3 of them. I might need to ask the police to relocate me now.
gitarookefka
I meant instead of understanding your point, they just auto-assume it's racism and downvote because it involves them
EzraFell
I totally understand personal preference, but I also think that the most complete solution for racism is for everyone to fuck each other.
Stanistani
We're already doing that! Oh, you mean sexually.
dennydorko
Senator Bulworth?
EzraFell
Exactly!
Cryptotis
Some people are only attracted to white people. Some people are only attracted to black people. It's not racism it's personal preference
ParanoidWithGoodCause
yeah next they'll be complaining that a dude refusing to suck another dudes dick is homophobic.
gtmiller
No, homosexuality is from birth.
Wimpymind
Almost. I v seen people claim its transphobia or misogyny when you dont feel attracted to "her". Nevermind the 300 lbs, and huge adamsapple.
koektrommel
Nah. They were going on how being gay was misogynistic last time I checked.
ParanoidWithGoodCause
why not both? damned if you do, damned if you don't sounds about right.
userhoagie
Some American Statistics: Non-Hispanic White 63.7%; Non-Hispanic Black 12.2%
userhoagie
interesting. I thought white would be much higher actually
userhoagie
Hispanic or Latino 16.3 %
eagerophiuchus
This is from Utah. ...Utah is 89% white.
Skibearbumm
Actually only 81%
userhoagie
haha, wow. no reason for this then
fuzyfac65
I believe there are sites like these for many different races and orientations so let's not start with the "poor me's" or with the attitudes
AnalBeadsPulledOutLikeStartingALawnmower
Damn straight.
darthbob88
Yeah I can't really hate the site, given the other *Meet sites, but you just know the users are going to be a bunch of horrible racists.
ParanoidWithGoodCause
so all white people are racists then?
darthbob88
Not all, just anybody who wants to use a whites-only dating site, rather than settling for Okcupid or whatever.
ParanoidWithGoodCause
so just if they are sexually attracted to other white people, glad we cleared that up. also not wanting to suck a cock make you homophobic.
darthbob88
You can do that on OKCupid, or Tinder, or any other broad-base website, you don't need WhitesOnly.com.
ProfessorExpert
I've always believed the same.. Dating site sure, people just straight up have preferences... BET I like because they play Some Get Rich or
ProfessorExpert
Die Tryin, Hustle & Flow, Drumline, etc... Not many channels play those movies... But don't get mad if WET becomes available on cable
MadeUpMonkeyShitDotCom
WET is already every channel besides BET. CBS, NBC, ABC, etc. have no shows with black casts.
kanemano
W.E.T. is just another name for the Hallmark channel. :)
ThyCountess
Or cmt
HexxTech
White guy, hate country music, especially the new hybrid hillbilly raps my brother is getting into.
Modaflocker
Im not against it, but itd just be like most other channels lol as long as they have Boy meets world on it im cool
deadlaughter
"WHY ISN'T THERE A WHITE HISTORY MONTH?!"
deadlaughter
*sarcasm intended*
RikkordF
There shouldn't really be racial history months anyways. Morgan Freeman has it right.
ShaneKeeling
There are 11.
AnalBeadsPulledOutLikeStartingALawnmower
Lol
RoyFuckingMustang
I hate both the question and that particular answer
HopeHubris
Pff, that's just because white people are better at making history
d199y
shots fired
only90skidswillgetthis
That's why they all worship Arab and Semetic prophets?
HopeHubris
White people killed the prophet-havers, and took them as their own
gtmiller
*cough* Mormons
Faelow
"Women's rights? What about men's rights? ...NO THATS SEXIST!"
gringissimo
It's not sexist, it's pathetic.
AnalBeadsPulledOutLikeStartingALawnmower
Careful, your retard is showing.
NationalistCanadianMooseWarrior
Yes, the second men need help with something it's pathetic. Gotcha.
deadlaughter
Men's rights is less about rights and more about hating women.
AnalBeadsPulledOutLikeStartingALawnmower
Careful, your retard is showing.
myusernameisnotcreative
Men's rights are about hating women? How does that work? You're either trying to bait or painfully ignorant.
darthbob88
The misogynist assholes drown out the people with legitimate grievances.
UGotSarged
You're an idiot. No one is taking away our rights. "Men's rights" is nothing. We're already covered and always have been.
Faelow
It's called a joke, you're an idiot.
Cuntard
tell that to my foreskin
ChuckTingleBattlesTheAssGoblinsofAuschwitz
"Men's rights" are something. We can be oppressed, raped, brutalized and abused as well. Equality speaks for everyone.
SingleNiceFedoraWearingClassyGuycautiondonotfriendzone
What rights do women not have?
wdasm42
Maybe in First world countries, where about 10% of the human population live
KarmaScope
Yeah it's really more about Men's issues. Which definitely do exist and are part of the problem; higher suicide, alcoholism, incarceration..
wastedbartender
Thank you
Gorapora
I have different standards for dating practices than, say, hiring, refusing service, or promoting based on race.
MetaphoricalFox
The problem is that people are not capable of separating the two. One thing leads to the other.
Gorapora
I won't date men either. Does that mean I won't hire them?
itsbre
I disagree, but maybe your experience is different. I'm white and grew up in a very multicultutal community. I'm not racist or prejudiced 1/
Kpizza96
I grew up in a multicultural community as well whenever race comes up in my friend group I'm labeled as a racist because I'm white 1/2
Kpizza96
I make a small effort to be nice to everyone but I'm just racist to them??? I'm so glad I left those people 2/2
itsbre
Wow those people suck. That's never happened to me. I've been called a racist for being white, but never by friends.
itsbre
2/ but I'm not attracted usually attracted to guys that aren't white. My friend is the opposite, as she's black and only likes black guys.
MetaphoricalFox
The most vocal about their choices are often the least tolerant to others'. That's what I meant. And that often leads to some propagandas 1/
MetaphoricalFox
Then they regroup and want anyone who is not like them out their system. Offering the possibility for people to chose the color of their 2/
geekontwowheels
Refusing service leads to dating?
IAmGodot
I thought white people meeting other white people was farmersonly.com.
CascadianTwilight
When I lived in Portland, we got inundated with their awful ads. Biggest city in Oregon. Unbelievable.
swanglemydangle
No it's http://www.ghostsingles.com
succumbdefeat
That website is the polite way to say it
TrustMeImABassist
Nope, it's myspace.com
jugueterabioso
Hahahaha!
ShaneKeeling
I joined and Tom instantly added me! I'm hawt!
gtmiller
Oh Tom, you are my only friend. Goku added me? Tom, you've been replaced.
ShaneKeeling
You don't have to be lonely...
aselleus
At farmers only dot com!
HughJaynus
City folk just don't get it
ayymamacita
I think they meant to say minorities just dont get it. Its a joke move on
handsMoleman
Why hello there partner. Why don't ya sidle on up to this hitchin' post and take a good ol' gander at my grade A seed ;)
Lizaderp
No that's christainmingle
L3gionAir
i thought it was called college
gtmiller
I mean if you exclude yourself sure.
spiderqueendemon
As a white, married person...yes, yes it is. Colleges tacitly encourage it. Unless one is economically disadvantaged, of course.
greyandtwisty
Shit haha
rudejohn
Most white people I've met would find the concept of marrying a farmer horrifying.
thelovechildofhitlerandstalin
Oh bullshit, we're not that bad... except for our table talk... and manners...
rudejohn
Oh - I don't mean the farmer himself/herself. Farmers I know are cool. I meant the prospect of moving to the country away from civilization.
Obsession88
I was thinking jdate.com
Kippysweetpants
Why can't everyone just mind thier own shit. You like blacks... Cool. You like whites.. Cool. Asians.. Etc.. Who cares
Joksujuke
Why do Asians only get "etc" you racist swine?!
PinkSoDancy
Except the bloody dutch
Kippysweetpants
I mean really, as a white hetero college educated male I have found all sorts of women Sexy. Have I predominantly slept with white women?
ekwalters
no, you've predominantly jerked off.
HughLaurie
How should I know?
gerdygerdygerdy
There are pretty people regardless of race. I don't see how you can narrow it to skin color.
Corbinator
My wife is from El salvador, my last girlfriends - Kenya, Somalia, Malaysia, white. My favorite porn - Japanese, Korean. I'm confused lol
gtmiller
Children... Why don't you take a seat over here.
CommanderWilliamTRiker
the Asian Persuasion
Squagglenater
Couldnt have said it better, if someone is only attracted to a certain race who cares. Stop worrying about how other people live their lives
somethingwittyandinteresting
Unless you're a damn dirty Dutchman
DJThuglifeSupreme
So what you're saying is, you don't like Asian people?
SquareDiesMad
I believe that asking everyone to accept each other is asking too much. We need to strive for being too apathetic to be a dick to strangers.
gamesthatiplay
This is why I'm intolerant of things. Not because I am, but because people need someone to rally against so they can feel good about them.
RikkordF
People who go on this site could still (and most probably do) accept black people. The thing is do they find dark skin attractive?
Doomboy911
You're asking for a lot of apathy. There, to strive to not strive. Hmm
GentlemanScientist
SometimesICanFreestyle
We need a new plague
ThomasTheWankEnglne
Dicks for strangers! dicks for everyone!
TheBritishAreComing
YEH! DOWN WITH @SquareDiesMad!
10BITable
i think apathy of that level could severely harm society actually^^
HamishSutherland
That's what being an Australian is all about. To lazy or too busy drinking beer.
HamishSutherland
We actually hate everyone but we can't be fucked doing anything about it
quicksilver1
This is probably the most Australian thing I've ever read.
nottheguyyouwerethinkingitwas
I'm a dick to everyone unless they prove I shouldn't be. That's how I acquired my best friends.
rm23fx
Probably gonna miss out on a lot of friends that way though, no one would want too talk if your first impression is "dick"
mrose50
And anyone who judges people on the first 3 sentences they say is not the kind of person to be friends with so it works out right?
DreadedLurgy
No, it doesn't. No one said anything about first impressions. The commentator said that people have to prove themselves to him. Utter shit.
nottheguyyouwerethinkingitwas
Trust everyone, just don't trust the devil inside them. I've been nice before and got walked on. I'm not a complete dick, just dickish
mrose50
2) hence being a dick keeps people away and only open up and mellow out once you think someone can be trusted. Works for me, keeps me safe.
mrose50
Depends on your upbringing. I've always had to have the attitude to mistrust someone till I get to know them or I would definitely regret it