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I was told he was dealing with panic attacks, anxiety, and some depression. My mom got him to go to a medical center. 3 days in, he killed himself because they failed their job. They did so many fishy things while he was there. I was told after that he was incredibly suicidal. I had no idea until after he was gone. He won't even see me graduate college next year...I miss him so much and its only been a week
JohnMike210
I send my condolences to you and your family....
aroosternamed0melette
I'm so sorry @OP. There are support groups that can help you grieve and be there for you. Hugs.
Kalorab
I am so sorry. As someone who struggles daily with depression/anxiety, sometimes it can get the better of you.
EvilMcNasty
Do him proud. Graduate. Some people can't be saved
DownvoteMeWhenYouFeelOffended
3 days? Failed their job? That's not how this works. Still condolences.
BiBoundGal
Sorry to hear @OP. Best of luck getting through this time.
Imjustheretoupvotestuffandmaybefavorite
3 days isn't enough for them to even start making an Impact and if a grown man wants to die he's probably gonna. Sorry, but not their fault.
Scythrael
Yeah, it is very important. When you're trying to find a reason to stay alive, be selfless. Think of those who must carry on afterward.
AgentNSFW
I am sorry for your loss.
JimmyVollkommer
I am so sorry to hear this. I know what you're going through. Reach out to friends and relatives. My sincerest condolences
SometimesIdontwanttolaugh
Stay strong.
christopherwalkin393
Carry everything good your remember about them, and let that live through you everyday, as if they were there. Much love sent your way
jamesReactionMonster
He will be at your graduation, just from above! I promise!
elvenom
Find yourself a meaningful purpose to help you keep moving on and let it stick to you, guarding your sanity.
Repentantpriest
Like a holocaust
myteenyverse
He killed himself cause he wanted to… no one else fault but your dad
zombob
I'm not the best person to talk to but I know one thing working in an institution. If someone wants to kill themselves they will.
zombob
Please don't beat yourself up over this. It wasn't your fault, don't blame your family, and in earnest my condolences.
ArchQuantum
I'm extremely bad with helpful words so
ForcedSterilization
I don't come to Imgur to care about your dad killing themselves.
XedtheRed
I cannot like this...I am very sorry for your loss.
4thStateOfMatter
Look for his help, talk to him....he loves you....he had pain he couldn't control....
Laylah77
Sorry for your loss
Rukkanen
I'm so sorry
WeirdStealth
Depression sucks, going through it sucks, and dealing with the thought of killing your self is a hard, and it's always depressing to
WeirdStealth
here someone take their own life, your loss will be mourned, and your dad will be missed. It's shameful that the "help" he got wasn't doing
WeirdStealth
their jobs properly, but I bet in the end, your dad loved you with all his heart.
VarthGaydar
My dad killed himself when I was 11. If you wanna talk, I'm here.
ScarrietTheSpider
Me too! Mine has been gone 9 months yesterday. You're not alone. Get to a therapist and reach out. We're all here for you.
Cutecicle
Mine did when I was four, I am so sorry for your loss
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Repentantpriest
Got to be a sign right?
Repentantpriest
Your obviously not a great listener.....
ParkerGHale
I'm calling fake on this, the other post was about you being suicidal.
INeverThoughtIdMakeThisAccount
Surprisingly, difficulty mentally and emotionally tends to run in families, whether genetically or because of how they learned to cope.
ParkerGHale
yes but if you look at their other posts, it's suicide of friend, their own suicide, suicide of dad...too many for one account.
ClickityDoucheBabaGanoosh
Mental health issues often run in the family.
ParkerGHale
and friends? three fucking suicide posts in a short period of time, and they deleted some of the others
DownvoteMeWhenYouFeelOffended
thats kinda weird indeed.
soccerdog
For people saying i shouldn't blame the location, but my dad went to the location with documentation saying he was suicidal, but the 1/?
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nurses and his personal therapist were never informed of his mindset, the timeline we were given after the fact was different than the 2/?
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given to the police. The patients are allows to leave the facility after 2 weeks to go to the nearby CVS, where they can buy what they 3/?
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want, where most likely, they bought or got a shaving razor. Which was either lost or stolen from them, my dad found and used. 4/?
soccerdog
He was also brought to the medical wing because he was pacing at 4am and was released after 30 minutes, without given sleep medicine 5/?
soccerdog
If someone is acting this way at a hospital who is suicidal, they are put under watch, which they never did at the facility.
goliath3434
suicide is an uncontrollable monster. when you're depressed, and have anxiety you just can't handle it.
SeroRamai
It builds itself inside you and tears you down repeatedly until you are urged to snuff it all out to no longer feel it.
RobertEmmet
It's like, the problem itself be present takes away the person's ability to know whether or not there is a problem. It's a catch-22 and it's
RobertEmmet
a terrible, terrible thing.
TheLimpinBiscuit
I don't even know what my dad has. He's 57, heart conditions, heart went into dysrhythmia, he passed out, got shocked back awake, thinks (1
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he knows what it is to die, can't wait to do it again and for good, has stopped taking ALL medications to hasten the process. I am at a (2
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complete loss as to what to do.
goliath3434
All you can do is be there for him. If he is set on leaving this world than show him what he's going to be leaving behind. Show him love.
TheLimpinBiscuit
Well, there's more. We just concluded a vacation that went horribly. In short, he has narcissistic personality disorder. I don't even (1
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know if I'll miss him. This is a mindset I never foresaw in all my years of growing up. I am not in a good place to be handling (2
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something like this. I am kind of leaning towards the idea that the world is better off not having to deal with his problems. Once again, (3