I can’t be the only one

Apr 27, 2021 7:40 PM

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most viral edit: you all have truly lifted me up. and yes you could interpret this as wishing for the power of invisibility. I appreciate your creative thinking.

I take it a step further and just fantasize about being dead.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I think about it too. At least just like someone where people won't desire to visit me, but I can still live with the same comforts I have.

4 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

I’ve thought more about running away as an adult than I ever did as a child. One day.....

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Did disappear. It's lonely and depressing. Lack the social skills to restart. Oh well. Still consider it an improvement, despite all that :\

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Close your eyes and we won’t be able to see you

4 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

This is a great solution thank you

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Invisibility wouldn't be my super power if we got to choose

4 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

Yeah, no, that’s pretty normal. Life sucks sometimes. Do you have a therapist?

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

No I probably should. Major life changes are necessary

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

When I was a kid, I'd fantasize about waking up to find out I'd turned into an animal.. and then not having to go to school anymore lol

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I wish that I'm some kind of a ghost. Doing whatever I want and nobody cares or reacting in any way.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

All the time. I'm a Brit and my disappearing fantasy is Mid West USA where people would love my accent. I'd work for a mom and pop store >

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

And lead a simple life. I do have a happy life here too though.

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Me too.

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

It's seriously like imgurians can read my mind and tell how I'm feeling. I was just thinking about this last night

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

1. Find $250,000. 2. Call (505) 842-4205 and tell that you need a dust filter for a Hoover Max extract pressure pro model 60.

4 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

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4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

The problem is I keep ending up with me no matter where I try to ditch me.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Mental health is real. We love you please don't disappear

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Invisibility would be great. Straightening up DC would be a full time job that never gets old.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

You’re definitely not the only one

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Often dream of becoming a Wayfairer.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Stay alive long enough and everyone forgets you exist anyway. It’s kind of like disappearing.

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Less chosen and possibly more painful though

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Nah, you get numb to it and stop giving two shits and just do your thing. I won’t say “it gets better”, just other opinions no longer matter

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I've been more and more tempted lately to just get in the road and drive until my car breaks down, and then just hang my shingle there.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Left town for a couple of weeks without telling people, I recommend it

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Before everyone reminds me: To people where its plausible, obviously not always an option for everyone

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Hell yes. I have 2 fantasies. One is to be stranded on a desert island, and the other is to buy a remote plot of land & live in a tiny cabin

4 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Make it a dessert island and I’m sold

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Was never a big dessert guy.

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Oh man everyday. Like I don't want to die, but I don't want to exist anymore either.

4 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 0

Sleep 12 hours, work, eat, repeat.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

It sucks.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

This. Just this.

4 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

What’s wrong with where you’re at? Maybe moving is difficult now. What problem would you like to solve first to help make things better?

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

difficulty is that all the parts are interconnected and removing/quitting one thing will collapse the others. Seems like a clean sweep is it

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Family problems?

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Yes and problems with both jobs and house and health and money and this country going to shit

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

I've got the place picked

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Is it nice? Or just no extradition treaty?

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Lol, nice for me. Anywhere in Lincoln county Montana. Beautiful country over there.

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

No matter where you go, there you are.

4 years ago | Likes 203 Dislikes 5

Well that sucks to think about.

4 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

And, wherever you are, be there.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I'm fine with me being here OR there. It's everybody else I'm wanting to avoid.

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

My friend's dad used to say that

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

you beat me to it. you can't run away from yourself! tried!

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

4 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

I don't think Buckaroo was the first to say it. But it does make you think of him.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Is there a different reference than Mad Max beyond Thunderdome?

4 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I knew it from Buckaroo Bonzai

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

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4 years ago (deleted Jul 2, 2021 2:21 AM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

Even if you disappear, you can't get away from yourself. Unless you mean cease to exist. That's a different story.

4 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 1

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4 years ago (deleted Jul 2, 2021 2:21 AM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

How do you feel about the saying “it is what it is”?

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Wait, water is wet?!

4 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Not exactly. https://youtu.be/PrrdFvXu1-o

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Rebooting your entire life can be done. It's sometimes the very best answer. But there's always a price

4 years ago | Likes 81 Dislikes 3

You might have to fight crime while driving a high tech AI infused car

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4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

My ex did a reboot and left me and our kids behind. Midlife crisis or something, I guess

4 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 0

You guys paid the price. That's unfair.

4 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 0

Unless the person was a sociopath, they paid too in some way or other.

4 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

possibly the kids might resent them

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

The hardest truth my older daughter ever gave me. "You weren't a part of my life growing up, so I guess I really don't even miss you."

4 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Literally everyone dreams of running away and starting a new life at some point or another

4 years ago | Likes 379 Dislikes 17

We used to call it “running away to join the circus”

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

But for 7 years?

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I was golfing in Costa Rica today. Probably take AT&T girl to Paris tomorrow.

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I just wanna off and die

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

What if it’s been at every point for the last several points?

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Learn to ride a motorbike, and ride into the sunset never to be seen again, thats mine

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Jeep with a roof top tent & im off in the mountains. That’s mine.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Nah, I have too much anxiety for that

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Umm, not everyone does this

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yeah seriously. I fucking love my life and wouldn’t trade for ANYONE else’s. That’s despite the generous amount of skullduggery I’ve seen.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Yah, like nine times a day....tops.

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Not a few times a week?

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I just am okay with dying, like okay either way

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

We just wish we could revert back to our 20s too, starting again is so much easier when you have the luxury of time

4 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

That is a complete different feeling

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Not so much. Realizing that going back isn't possible leads directly into OP's feeling.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Well I guess I should say it's different for me. Wanting a restart isn't what I'm after so much as complete and utter oblivion.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Not existing is not the same as running away

4 years ago | Likes 134 Dislikes 1

This. Just gone. No trace.

4 years ago | Likes 89 Dislikes 0

My therapist referrs to this as suicidal ideation. If it's happening more often, I'd recommend seeing a therapist. It's helped me a lot

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I'm thinking about seeing a therapist, but what do they say that makes you stop thinking that? I'm naturally cynical

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

It's not what they say, it's the work they have you do. CBT and DBT teach tools that you can use to help and change your reactions/impulses

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Just slippin into the void for a few hours.

4 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 0

Forever, please.

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

That sounds so relaxing…

4 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

As a treat

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I remember those days. You all good bud?

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Void juice meme. And/or Ketamine variant.

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Like the rapture?

4 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

No. Like “mamma, I don’t wanna die. I sometimes wish I’d never been born at all”.

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I'd be terrified if I suddenly started FALLING TOWARDS THE SKY

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

No. Not for me thanks.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I know that feel friend.

4 years ago | Likes 24 Dislikes 0

I saw a documentary recently that was unfinished because one of the main people disappeared completely. I think of it constantly now.

4 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

What documentary? I am intrigued

4 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Woah, so it's that kind of "fantasizing". The kind of seeing a story that pulls you in and you not able to stop imaginin it happening to you

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I've actually considered self-immolation.

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Holy fuck that would be a horrible way to go. Are you alright man?

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Yeah, I'm fine. I have chronic depression, but the ideation is just the escapism variety.

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